If you’re like me, you’re very concerned about things being fair.You work hard for the money and respect you get…And you expect others to do the same.When they don’t work as hard as you…But still get money or respect…You can get upset. Jealous. Angry. Frustrated.Are those fruits of the Spirit? Are they part of the Abundant Life God wants for you?Learn how to stop worrying about what’s fair and join with God in His generosity…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/wat...

I'd like to recommend the Jordan Harbinger Show. Jordan is a husband and father, and his show has recently featured some fascinating guests. Hope you enjoy checking it out.

Ask yourself a few quick questions:-Do I spend more time thinking about money… or about God?-Do I feel more security from my money and investments… or from trusting God to provide for me?-If my assets were stolen, what would my reaction be?If you find that you are trusting money for your sense of safety and security more than God…There’s a quick fix.Shift your thinking to trust in Him more! Pray for that help, remind yourself of the scriptures that remind you of his care for you.And let me kn...

I’ve had a personal shift that I wanted to share with you today.I realized that I was trusting money for my security vs trusting God.Since I’ve made the shift, I feel:-Much more peace-Much lighter-Much more gratefulAnd, God is blessing me financially as well.Learn how to check if you’re trusting money too much…And what to do about it…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at St...

Joel has become a good friend of mine over the past few months.Today you’ll learn about his story…And his program, 31 Days To Become A Better Man…That has helped men apply business, financial, physical and relationship principles…To create BIG transformations in just 31 days.Hear some of the inspiring stories in today’s episode…Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’d like to join the group with me for the November 20th 31 day challenge, visit this link and when you use the code “str...

I had a big failure as a husband and father a few days ago.I met negativity with negativity… and damaged relationships badly in the process.I spent the day with God yesterday and He helped show me a better way…And how to accomplish it…Learn how in today’s episode…Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here...

Today, find a way to reverse the invalidation triple threat.Let your wife know you did something wrong (invalidated her)...That you can understand how she would feel (unheard, unseen, unsafe)...And that you can understand how she could think a certain way (that she’s not important to you, that you think you’re better than her, etc.)...And let me know how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io h...

A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat.That’s when you tell your wife:-She’s wrong for what she’s thinking-She’s wrong for what she’s feeling-You’re rightThis causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you.We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps:-Tell her how you were wrong for responding the way you did-Understand how she could feel that way-Understand how she could think that wayThis helps her feel safe and open her ...

Tuesday you learned how to stop a marriage fight by…Step 1 - Notice the angerStep 2 - Release the angerStep 3 - Listen or walk awayNow, try it and see how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

My wife and I got in a fight last night…And it reminded me of 3 steps I can take in the future to step out of the “who’s right” pattern…Creating less safety and closed hearts…And step into a pattern that allows more connection and intimacy….Step 1 - Notice the angerStep 2 - Release the angerStep 3 - Listen or walk awayWatch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjjxlpDd52ADr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next...

So you learned that getting mad back, the invalidation triple threat and trying to make your wife happy won’t work.Instead, try…Responding with kindness…Serving her because you want to (going the extra mile)...Or just saying “no.”And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/2...

When your wife gets mad at you for something, most men either…Get mad back…Tell their wife she’s wrong and justify themselves (invalidation triple threat)...Or tuck tail and just try to make her happy.Unfortunately, all of these lead to disconnection and lack of intimacy.Learn what to do instead… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4DTUrjjLcoDr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 ...

Relationships are built by…Talking to peopleSpending time togetherDoing things togetherTo build a relationship with Jesus, you need to do the same things.Choose 1 to do this week.And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work intensively with me, Dr. Mike? Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Do you feel like you’re doing what God wants you to do in your marriage…Putting your wife first, serving her, losing so she can win…But you don’t feel blessed by God for those efforts?In fact, you just feel resentful?Learn today what Jesus was REALLY saying in his Beatitudes (according to The Divine Conspiracy by Dallas Willard)So you can find joy, healing and love NOW in your life and marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More ...

Your wife’s heart has closed to you because it’s been hurt.By you.Today, recognize a way you have hurt her heart.Apologize.And stop doing it.As a bonus, do the opposite to help her start healing and opening her heart.Let me know how it goes.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and...

Your wife’s heart has closed to you because it’s been hurt.By you.Today, recognize a way you have hurt her heart.Apologize.And stop doing it.As a bonus, do the opposite to help her start healing and opening her heart.Let me know how it goes.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.(Lorena new links here)https://youtube.com/shorts/U3zdkBBU-JU (Lorena new links here)Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, prof...

How To Get Your Wife’s Heart To Open To YouIf you feel like roommates in your marriage…If you’re getting one-word answers from your wife…If you feel disconnected emotionally and sexually…Your wife has closed her heart to you.How do you get it to open back up, so you have the connection, looks of love and physical intimacy you want?Learn in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally succe...

There’s something important to your wife that isn’t important to you.Maybe it’s the way towels are folded. The way counters are wiped. Leaving the toilet seat up.Instead of dismissing this as stupid…See this as a chance to serve her in her language.Put the toilet seat down.Not as a way of “caving in,” but as a way to speak love to her in her language.Let me know how it goes!Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, profes...

As high achieving Christian men, we like to be right.And, it’s important to be right in some things, particularly in our work.But, when we focus on being right in our marriage…And our wife being wrong…We create disconnection, lack of trust, and low intimacy.Learn what to do instead…To create deep connection, intimacy and the look of love in your marriage…In today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professi...

Now we know that the easy way to feel more love for your wife, your kids, yourself and everyone…Is to PLUG INTO the Kingdom of God that is at hand… meaning AVAILABLE right now.Pray to plug in and feel it…Think of Jesus a few extra times today…Imagine Jesus with you…And let me know what kind of difference you feel.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here. [Lorena new links here]https://youtube.com/shorts/EaYEZ3b_PyM [Lorena new links here]Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a...

Do you feel like you’re trying SO HARD to be a good husband and father?Do you feel like you’re putting every effort you can in… but it just doesn’t seem like enough?Your wife doesn’t appreciate it, or you keep it up for a while… then fail?Well, there’s GOOD NEWS.You don’t have to try so hard!There’s a power you can start plugging into TODAY that will make it MUCH easier to be the kind, loving, strong husband and father you want to be.Learn what it is on today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Me...

When you tell your wife it’s dumb that something’s important to her that isn’t important to you…Like putting down the toilet seat, cleaning your glass, organizing the pencils, etc…You create distance and show your wife you don’t really care.That you can’t be inconvenienced for her sake.This makes her feel like you don’t really prioritize her… and she’s right.Today, find a way to do something that she cares about and do it…Even if it’s not important to you.Show that because she’s important to ...

When was the last time your wife looked at you with the Look of Love?You know the one.The one where you just KNOW she adores you.If it’s been a while…Today’s episode will teach you how to get it back.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your ...

The invalidation triple threat is when you:Tell your wife she’s wrong to think that wayTell your wife she’s wrong/immature to feel that wayTell your wife she shouldn’t be hurt by you acting that way/justifying your actionsDoing this over and over is what KILLS marriages.So, stop killing your marriage TODAY.Doing this could very well save your marriage.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally suc...