A lot of women don't say no to sex to avoid conflict, or because they actually like the guy and don't want to hurt his feelings.  And a lot of guys are completely unaware they've crossed a line because she didn't say no and seemed into it -so why would they think anything was wrong?   It doesn't take a full-on rape experience for a woman to feel compromised and unfortunately, the fact is compromised sex happens ALL THE TIME.  T&A share their most recent experiences that both, coincidentally, happened to leave them feeling objectified and pretty s****y.  And if T&A can get in that situation- anyone can.  In this must-listen episode, T&A talk with Emily Best and Erica Anderson, co-creators of F*ck Yes, a series that shows ladies and gents how to say F*ck Yes to sex, to break down how our society's approaches and underlying beliefs around sexuality can make even the nicest of guys- actually kind of rapey.  The ladies share for they guys what goes on in their heads that puts them on guard and makes them feel uncomfortalbe, and how to approach them differently so they can say F*ck Yes to having sex.