Episodes
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Elissa Felder joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-her years of primary infertility, coupled with the devastating loss of her infant son
-her book, “From One Life to the Next Life: The Sacred Passage After Death,” which has become a lifeline for those navigating the churning waters of grief
-her raw, soul-baring journey from paralyzing grief to living a life infused with purpose and passion
-words of wisdom gathered from Elissa's personal...
Published 10/29/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Shirel Korobkin and Shani Weinmann Kay join Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-the realities of the fertility community in Israel, one year after October 7th
-what the last 365 days has been for them personally and as individuals who have taken active roles in trying to hold space for others
-advice to those of us who live in the diaspora, as to how we can best support our friends and family there, and be a light to them and they manage this...
Published 10/21/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Aliza Tropper, LMHC, joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-the emotions that come up during the quest to build a family
-the guilt, shame, sadness, anxiety, inadequacy, etc., and how they manifest
-suggestions on how to make these deep feelings more manageable, like self-soothing, mini-breaks, reaching out for support and even medication if things become too overwhelming
This line really stuck with me- “if you don’t grieve, you spend the rest...
Published 10/08/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Tee Simpser joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-her diabetes diagnosis which she received when she was 12, which made it natural for her to share when she had trouble getting pregnant
-her 6 years of primary infertility
-heartbreaking disappointments, life-threatening complications and all kinds of insensitive comments
-how she saw herself in the Chana/Penina story from the Book of Shmuel (book of Samuel), as she longed to be a mother, while...
Published 10/01/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Esther Rollhaus, MD, joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-all aspects of reproductive psychiatry
-the reasons why someone would reach out
-how meds are used as an adjunct to therapy
-the many safe and effective treatments that can be used before, during and after pregnancy
-many of the myths about meds
More about Esther Rollhaus, MD:
Dr. Esther Rollhaus is an adult, child, and reproductive psychiatrist in private practice in Riverdale, NY...
Published 09/18/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Rachel Daar Cohen joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-a powerful, raw, and deeply emotional story of resilience after a tremendous amount of struggle
-her struggle with infertility, trauma, grief, addiction, and endometriosis
-how kindness is so important as we never know what people are really going through
More about Rachel:
Rachel Cohen is a firm believer that sharing some of her life experiences and struggles will help other women feel...
Published 09/17/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Chavie Bruk joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-pain and the way it changes over time
-her and her husband's permanent infertility
-adopting 5 children at different ages (some as newborns and some later in life)
-her grieving the loss of a biological child
-how grief morphs and changes with the passage of time, but how it doesn’t really go away (and that’s okay!)
-how sitting and immersing yourself in the sadness can actually make it a...
Published 09/10/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Peri Lyman joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-her two amazing daughters
-one of whom has special needs and the other of a free spirit, loving life
-her experience getting asked if she’s a grandmother yet and the questions that make her crazy
-how it feels to be asked insensitive questions
-what are the kinds of things that should always be off limits
-the best my way is to approach these kinds of situations
More about Peri:
Peri Lyman is...
Published 09/03/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Ricki Steiner joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-her primary infertility journey this far
-why she decide to start talking openly about her struggles on social media
-how she feels when people tell her they’re praying for her (with a whole sidebar on her relationship with G-d right now)
-how she deals with insensitive comments
-what tools she uses to keep herself afloat
More about Ricki:
Ricki Steiner lives in Houston, Texas with her...
Published 08/30/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Talia Mizrahi, Early Childhood Mental Health Specialist Certified Grief Educator, joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-how to talk to children about grief and loss
-sharing news in a way that is developmentally appropriate for each child
-normalizing the greiving process for children by explaining that you may be sad one day and not the next
-making sure that each child knows that they are not their feelings by explaining that you can feel...
Published 08/11/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Rabbi Elchanan Poupko joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-his recent piece about the insensitivity in the orthodox community to people who are struggling to have a child
-his personal story of infertility and the pain he and his wife carried for all those years
-how their infertility challenges made him a passionate voice for those who are still in the trenches
-practical takeaways on what you can say and do to ease some of the pain
More...
Published 08/09/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Rachel Goldberg LMFT, PMH joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-binge and restrictive eating habits and how that can affect fertility
-the reasons why disordered eating or exercise can cause fertility issues
-the guilt and shame that go along with this these diagnoses
-the small changes suggestions people can make to try to get them out of a destructive feeding pattern
-her thoughts on ozempic and other meds that have been linked to increased...
Published 07/26/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Reva Schlanger Peyser MS, RD, CDN joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-a myriad of issues surrounding fertility in regard to body image and eating disorders
-how people feel like their body is failing them during the struggle to build a family
-how people might use eating, nutrition, exercise to try to take back some control
-rigid behaviors that can be detrimental to helping people find balance with their body
-practical suggestions on how...
Published 07/24/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Curt Sechrist joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-his fertility journey, with the backdrop of becoming part of the Jewish community
-his childhood and when he realized that he was gay
-his experience of being exposed to more of Jewish culture and religion, and how that became an even bigger part of his life when he met his future husband, Adam
-his decision to convert
-why they chose to adopt instead of pursuing surrogacy
-their adoption...
Published 07/16/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Rabbi Karen Glazer Perolman joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-her upbringing, her passion for her job as a community rabbi, and having a stillbirth
-her baby, Leo, who she lost
-what grief looks like when your job is to hold people in *their* pain
-how she has managed to get through all of it
More about Rabbi Karen Glazer Perolman:
Karen Glazer Perolman is the Senior Associate Rabbi at Temple B’nai Jeshurun in Short Hills, NJ, the...
Published 07/11/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Shira Collings joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-her personal experience with recurrent pregnancy loss (4 heartbreaking losses)
-how navigating grief is hard enough after a loss, as most people don’t truly understand what a grieving person needs
-the added layers of being part of the queer community, which brings up other ways that people can feel isolated and alone
-needing to find supports that are LGBTQ+ affirming and grief knowledgeable...
Published 07/09/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Rob Reider joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-the stillbirth of his daughter, Lila, in December 2017
-how he dealt with the grief and overwhelming heartache
-how he and his his wife, Tehila, got through those early weeks (spoiler alert- they were both a mess)
-the power of community and finding other men to talk with, who could validate his feelings and let him know he was not alone
More about Rob:
Rob Reider is a musician, father,...
Published 07/01/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, David Melamed joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-his 14-year struggle to have a child
-his candid and heartfelt discussion of the most painful and challenging moments
-the sources of strength and upliftment on this journey
-his courage and emotional depth
This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the male psyche and the profound pain of infertility
More about David:
David Melamed is originally from Denver...
Published 06/27/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Jen Blumenfeld joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-the story of her 3 beautiful children, some of whom came into this world through donor eggs (you'll have to listen to find out which ones!)
-longing for a child and having multiple failed cycles
-how Jen and her husband came to considering donor eggs
-Jen's relationship with her donor, unlike an anonymous donor, Jen knew her donor, which made the decision so much easier for her
-building her...
Published 06/24/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Elana Frank, CEO of Jewish Fertility Foundation, joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-her own fertility journey - the tale of a woman who will go to any length to build her family
-doing IUIs in a doctor's home in Israel to turning to IVF back in the States and then choosing a donor embryo for her last child
-her experience with secondary infertility - the yearning for another child while feeling guilty for not being happy with the two children...
Published 06/21/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Emily Getz joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-how she and her husband had their first child naturally and never expected that it would be difficult trying to build their family
-her stillbirth and multiple miscarriages, 1 ectopic, 4 rounds of IVF and still no baby
-the grief, shock, loss and heartbreak that were almost pushed to the side as they pursued every possible step in order to try to have another child
-the decision of whether to...
Published 06/11/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, neonatologist, Michelle Weissman, MD joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-how she became a single mother by choice...to 4 children
-how this was never her "plan A" and she didn't even consider becoming a parent until she was in her 30s, with no dating prospects on the horizon
-the process of how and why she got comfortable with the idea
-how she broke the news to her parents and their reaction and her entire fertility journey
-her support...
Published 05/24/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Dr. Eric Surrey, Rabbi Idit Solomon, and Lori Metz, LCSW, CCM, BC-THM join Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-the most frequently asked questions about donor conception
-who considers using a donor
-how one picks a donor
-the emotions that people typically grapple with
-who needs to know that you are using a donor (the egg salad comment was so great here!)
-how the Jewish community relates to donor-conceived children
Spoiler alert: Dr. Surrey...
Published 05/23/24
On this episode of Talking Away The Taboo, Taliya Corbett joins Aimee Baron, MD to talk about...
-the story of her daughter, Ora, who was stillborn, after having 4 healthy boys
-how she was raised as a Muslim, and fell in love with Judaism (and her husband, Ari) and converted at 26
-dealing with secondary infertility after she had her first
-how she always wanted to have a girl and the difficult pregnancy with her daughter (she had preeclampsia and Ora was also on the small side)
-the...
Published 05/22/24