"I'll have what she's having!" exclaimed a woman in the next table to Meg Ryan when she, as Sally, faked an orgasm 34-years ago in the classic movie "When Harry Met Sally." And why not?! We'd all want a bit of what she was having. Sexual sounding is very much linked to orgasming and that of a woman. Yet, 80% of women say they have faked an orgasm, just like Sally. Based on studies women mainly fake orgasms and pleasure to either make their partners feel good about themselves or to make the intercourse finish quicker... Either way, not a very snapshot about the state of sexual affairs. In this episode Anne Bland shares good news: Tantra doesn't focus on orgasms. By practising Tantra and mastering the holistic Tantric Sex Tools, such as Sounding, will help you to feel orgasmic states and more pleasure. Especially for men, Sounding can be very liberating and allow them to circulate the sexual energy away from the genitalia to allow more full-bodied pleasures and to last longer.  Download the "Pleasure is Your Birthright - 7 Holistic Sex Tools" from Anne's website: https://selfishlyhappyyou.com/pleasure-is-your-birthright/  ---- This open and brutally honest podcast is for you if you are ready to explore your sensuality, sexuality, and spirituality through Tantra and Tantric Sex and are willing to unleash your full potential. Your podcast host, Anne Bland, is a Tantric Sex and Relationship Coach, a public speaker, and the leader of 'Selfishly Happy Revolution,' the next sexual revolution that starts from within. Anne will be sharing real-life stories about Tantra, giving her Tantric Sex Tips and Treats, and inviting others to join her on the show. Would you like to come to the show's 'Asking For A Friend' Tantric Sex Coaching episode? Or if you wish to explore private coaching with Anne, just email: annebland (at) selfishlyhappyyou.com Website: https://selfishlyhappyyou.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/selfishlyhappywithannebland Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.co.uk/SelfishlyHappyWithAnneBland/ Telegram: t.me/selfishlyhappy