How can adults connect with teens during their senior year when everyone has senioritis? Senioritis is widely regarded as a right of passage for teenagers. It’s a time when they may push boundaries more, assert their independence, and navigate the delicate balance between adolescence and adulthood. The potential to drive parents and caring adults crazy is off the charts. But it’s also a unique opportunity to lean into that natural urge toward freedom and choose to prioritize...

What is toxic achievement culture and how can we help? Can achievement really be toxic? Jennifer Breheny Wallace says that achievement turns toxic when it becomes the sole determinant of one’s value and identity. In many middle and high schools (and even elementary schools), the pressure of achievement culture has reached alarming levels, leaving a trail of behavioral and mental health challenges in its wake. Listen for ways to relieve the pressure.  Also in this episode: ~ The rising...

Creating a welcoming environment sets the tone. In episode 156 of the Teen Life Podcast, we explore the significance of fostering a welcoming environment not just at the door, but throughout our Teen Life groups or church small groups. In our journey to create spaces where teens feel valued and supported, every detail matters. Let’s delve into some actionable tips that can make a difference in shaping the atmosphere of our gatherings.  Also in this episode: ~ What’s the deal with food...

Unlocking Success for Students Below Grade Level Report cards and grades have traditionally been our primary understanding of our children’s academic progress. Grades don’t always provide the full picture, however. That’s where Go Beyond Grades comes in. Go Beyond Grades is a national campaign aimed at bridging the gap between how parents’ think their kids are doing and the reality of their children’s academic performance. Learn more about how you can be sure your teen is mastering the...

How can we foster positive social media etiquette? Social media has undeniably become an integral part of our lives, especially for teenagers who often find themselves navigating its complexities daily. Unfortunately, as much as it can be a platform for connection and inspiration, it can also be a breeding ground for toxicity and negativity.  As parents and caring adults, it’s important to help our teens cultivate positive social media practices to ensure their online experiences are...

Helping teens understand how credit cards work. We want to equip our teens with the knowledge and skills they need to navigate the complexities of the adult world. One crucial area often overlooked in these conversations is financial literacy, specifically understanding how credit cards work.  Also in this episode: - What is test anxiety; who is most susceptible; what are the symptoms; and how can we help? - How comment culture affects teens and why it matters. . . In this episode,...

Do you know when reporting abuse is required and where to turn? As parents and caring adults, one of our most important responsibilities is ensuring the safety and well-being of the teenagers in our lives. Unfortunately, there are times when teens may be subjected to various forms of abuse or neglect, which can have long-lasting and devastating effects on their physical and emotional health. It’s crucial to understand what constitutes abuse, how to recognize the signs, and what steps...

. . In this episode, we mentioned the following resources: - The Guardian: From bone smashing to chin extensions: how ‘looksmaxxing’ is reshaping young men’s faces - TikTok: Mewing - VeryWell Health: What Is Mewing and Can It Reshape My Face? - Mogwarts - Give to Teen Life! (send Caleb to Mogwarts) - Truth: Truth Initiative: Zyn Facts - Merriam-Webster: Self-Esteem Definition - Teen Life Blog: Overcoming Low Self-Esteem in Teens - Psychology Today: Low Self-Esteem in Adolescents:...

Celebrating 150 Episodes with 15 Reasons to Love Teens! We believe that teens are amazing for who they are becoming, but also for who they are right now! To celebrate our 150th episode, we wanted to take a minute to remember some of the top reasons we love being around teenagers. What would you add to the list?  Also in this episode: - The latest in TikTok dating advice - If you could have 150 of anything, what would it be? . . In this episode, we mentioned the following...

. . In this episode, we mentioned the following resources: - Next Gen Now Podcast: Controlled (Addiction Series) - Merriam-Webster: Addiction Definition - NPR: Too much pleasure can lead to addiction. How to break the cycle and find balance - Teen Life Podcast: Athletics | Gaming | Pornography Pt. 1 | Pornography Pt. 2 | Marijuana | Body Image | Spicy Books | Parasocial Relationships | Vaping | Alcohol | Eating Disorders | Overeating Disorders | Cell Phone Boundaries | Social Media |...

Friendship Anxiety: A Guide for Teens and Parents It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the pressure to fit in and maintain a wide circle of friends. And let’s be honest, social media instills us all with FOMO. After all, it seems like everyone is having a great time. And if you’re not there, do you even have friends at all? The more connected we are, the more we can feel disconnected and anxious about whether or not we are living up to expectations. Fortunately, there are strategies to cope...

Why are teens missing so much school? In recent years, chronic absenteeism among students has become a pressing concern, especially with its stark rise since the onset of the pandemic. Defined as missing at least 10% of school days, this issue has significant implications for academic success and overall well-being.  But what’s causing students to miss so much school? What are we missing? We all need to work together to help teens succeed. Here's how.  Also in this episode: What...

What advice would you give your teenage self about dating? Despite vast changes in the romantic landscape, the emotional high of teen romance is universal. If anything, it’s amplified by being constantly connected, a heightened sense of vigilance, and a lack of commitment or trust. Teenagers are dealing with all the dangers and emotional disconnect of a techno world, adding to the emotional stress of being a teenager. So what can parents and other caring adults do to help? Get our top...

Valentine's Day Date and Gift Ideas for Teenagers. The pressure is on for Valentine's Day, especially when you are a teen and are newly dating. In this episode, we discuss some fun, inexpensive date ideas that focus on having a good time. Also, get some great dating and gift-giving tips! Finally, Tobin shares the best plan for starting an instrument for the first time. . . In this episode, we mentioned the following resources: - Valentine Date Ideas: Melting Pot | Main...

What you should know about parental rights and teen responsibilities when your teen turns 18. When teens turn 18, it is cause for celebration! Parents and teens alike can pat themselves on the back for having made it to this point! This milestone brings about significant changes in the dynamics of your relationship with your child. Here’s a guide on how to deal with these changes while considering parental rights, teen rights, and adjustments in your parenting style.   Also in this...

How do I set healthy cell phone boundaries with my teen?  In the digital age, cell phones have become an integral part of our daily lives, especially for teenagers. They serve as a means of communication, entertainment, and learning.  However, as teachers and parents, guiding teens to establish healthy boundaries with their cell phones is crucial for their overall well-being and development. So what are the basic boundaries we should be setting? Read more about cell phone boundaries and...

Navigating Talkative Teens in Group Settings Dealing with talkative teens in a group or class setting can be challenging, but understanding the reasons behind their behavior and implementing effective strategies can create a positive and inclusive environment for everyone involved.  Join us as we explore the reasons why teens tend to overshare or talk too much and provide practical tips for teachers, group facilitators, and youth workers to redirect and engage these talkative teens. Get...

What's the deal with kids fighting at school and how can we help? Fighting at school causes problems for students, teachers, and the parents of those involved. It's easy to write some kids off as "trouble," but in our experience, the right adult intervention can make a huge difference. Also in this episode: - Was Helen Keller actually blind and deaf? Teens don’t think so. - Twitch is changing its sexual content policy and homepage recommendations. Listen for more on what you need to know. -...

Teens with a mission are teens with a purpose. Listen for tips on helping teensfind meaningful ways to spend their time, help their community, and improve their mental health.  We also talk about seasonal depression, also known as seasonal affective disorder or SAD. If less daylight and colder days get you down, you are not alone! We have tips for lifting your mood. Plus catch our 2023 year in review! We talk about the things that affected us, and teens, the most over the past...

In this episode from 2016, Heather and Jade join the podcast to talk about their stories both separately and as they intertwine. As a young teen mom, Jade looked to Heather for support and encouragement. With her oldest son now in college, Heather was able to provide hope and a new perspective through the lens of her own teen pregnancy. You won’t want to miss this episode on the joys and challenges of teen parenthood. . . In this episode, we mentioned the following resources: - Pregnancy...

Join us for a jolly good time talking about Christmas traditions, gifts, and Santa for teens. Chris is back for a special Christmas episode where the gang tells about their own Christmas traditions, how they manage gifts and expectations, and more. Be sure to listen for Christmas activities teens will enjoy, too! . . Visit our website: www.teenlifepodcast.com Subscribe to get the episodes in your inbox: www.teenlife.ngo/subscribe Watch the podcast on ⁠YouTube⁠! Follow Us: Instagram...

Navigating the winter break presents distinctive challenges, particularly when teenagers are part of the equation. Questions arise, from managing constant adolescent hunger pangs to handling complex family dynamics. In episode 137 of the Teen Life Podcast, we delve into effortless strategies for traveling with teens. Moreover, we explore what to do (and not to do) in coping with family dynamics. Plus, don’t overlook our savvy fast food tips that won’t strain your wallet. . . In this...

As winter break approaches, teachers, parents, and students all struggle to finish the semester strong. Kids are crazy. Tired teachers struggle to get all the grades in and contain classrooms of tired, excitable students. It gets dark earlier. How can everyone survive this time of year? Listen for tips on how to help. Also in this episode: The Lapse app, 3rd in the App Store a couple of weeks ago, has now outpaced TikTok and Google. The app mimics a disposable camera that snaps pictures...

. . In this episode, we mentioned the following resources: - Amazon Wish List - Teen Life Merch Store (closes 11/30 at midnight) - Homage - Teen Life Podcast: Top Teen Things | 2022 Gift Guide | 2021 Gift Guide . . Visit our website: www.teenlifepodcast.com Subscribe to get the episodes in your inbox: www.teenlife.ngo/subscribe Watch the podcast on ⁠YouTube⁠! Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook | Twitter . . Podcast Music by: Luke Cabrera & Tobin Hodges Hosted by: Karlie...