The biggest lesson for me in marriage is having to come to terms with the truth that I can’t remain the same. Listen I came into marriage with very grand ideas about how I’m amazing and how my wife would have to adjust to my supreme way of living and thinking hahahaha! Was I not a clown for thinking that?! I’m dealing and living with a complete human with her own ideas of the world and she thinks in a very specific way as well. After this episode, I’ve been very hopeful that we’ll survive our ignorance (mine mostly) and we’ll figure out a way that will work for us both.