To join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and our community of dreamers click here! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 37: WHAT ARE GOING TO CHOOSE? Honouring absent fathers is a profound act of maturity and intentionality, requiring deep reflection and a commitment to healing. In today’s episode, Blaque sits down with Seta to explore what it looks like to honor their fathers despite their absence. Seta shares how his uncle stepped in as a father figure, modeling...

To join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list and our community of dreamers click here! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 36: UNDER SCRUTINY In this episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Priviledge to reflect on his first 11 months of marriage. We discuss the reality of early marriage, the disconnect between expectations and the challenges that arise, and the growth that comes with working through those struggles. Privilege shares how his idealised views on...

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.            To join our community and support us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space EP 1 - EPISODE 35: TELL IT ALL In this special episode of That Husband Podcast, the script is flipped, and Blaque is on the hot seat as his wife Lilly wants to get clarification on things his said in the Podcast about their marriage.They bring a candid and heartfelt vibe to the show. THP dedicated listeners/ viewers have been...

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.            To join That Husband’s Corner or our community, please visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 34: WHY MARRIAGE IS THE BEST OPTION FOR MEN? In this episode, we speak about what it really takes to be a happy husband—a journey shaped by sacrifice, legacy, and the quiet, unspoken wisdom passed down through generations. Growing up with parents who have been married for over 30 years, Khaya...

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.            To join our community please visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 33: HOW READY ARE YOU FOR MARRIAGE? In this episode, we dive into the privilege of intergenerational involvement in preparing young men for marriage. We discuss the importance of shaping boys early on, not just to find a wife, but to grow into husbands with a clear vision for their marriage. It’s not enough to look for a...

Join our mailing list and community and grow with us! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 32: CAN YOU THRIVE IN LOVE WHILE CHASING YOUR DREAMS? Enjoy the video version of this episode on YouTube In this episode, we get into the unique challenges of navigating the instability of non-traditional careers while maintaining the same level of responsibility as those in more traditional, stable jobs. Balancing financial uncertainty with building a secure future, especially within a...

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.            To join our community and grow with us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space EPISODE 31: ARE YOU SEEING THE BIGGER PICTURE IN EVERY ARGUMENT? In this episode, we explore the heart of conflict resolution in marriage, focusing on how couples can navigate differences with intentionality and grace. Conflict is inevitable, but resolving it requires maturity, accountability, and understanding each other's...

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.                To support us please visit https://buymeacoffee.com/thedreamspace EPISODE 30: AN OPEN BOOK [S1] EPISODE 30: AN OPEN BOOK In today’s episode, we are joined by Jabu Zwane and we dive deep into the complex emotions and responsibilities husbands face in marriage. From the power wives hold in shaping the spiritual, emotional, and intellectual strength of their husbands, to the pain of...

*The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on Youtube [S1] EPISODE 29: HUSTLE CULTURE It’s no secret that men face a lot of pressure, particularly the challenges of stress and fatigue. In this episode, we explore the importance of using creativity to elevate stress, peer mentorship, and the critical need for black men to take their health seriously—whether that means supplements, better habits, or simply being part of a community. As black men in South Africa, the...

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube  [S1] EPISODE 28: PUBLIC LOVE, PRIVATE BATTLES In this episode, Thabang ”Banger” Mvuyane shares his deeply personal journey from Married at First Sight, a reality show that dramatically reshaped his life. Frustrated by unsuccessful dating experiences, he joined the show in search of something genuine, but what unfolded went far beyond his expectations. The cameras captured his early arrogance, which marriage quickly...

We are privileged to be joined by Kgabo Legora, who takes us into the world of a husband and father who bravely faces the realities of depression. After experiencing a significant family event that triggered his mental health struggles, he discovered that his family lacked the language to process what was happening. Despite trying therapy in his teens and having a terrible experience, meeting Jesus at 18 became a pivotal moment that reshaped his life. This episode explores how his faith,...

In this episode, we delve into the complex journey of Koketso Molaolwe the leader behind Mmuso Worship and Mmuso Church, who transitioned from being a club DJ and A-type leader to a husband and pastor. Raised in a turbulent environment where his father was never married to his mother, the scars of rejection and the aftermath of an affair shaped his early life. He shares how these experiences led him to stop relying on people at some point in his life, and how he eventually found himself...

[S1] EPISODE 25: IS THERE A FUTURE FOR HUSBANDHOOD In this episode, we explore why more and more young men are becoming skeptical about marriage. We dive into the real-life reasons behind this shift, from the pressures of today’s economy to changing relationship dynamics that have made marriage feel less appealing. Through personal stories, the two young men, Michael-John and Lethu we sit with help us get to the heart of why marriage isn’t what it used to be for many of their peers. We also...

EPISODE 24: GENTLE MASCULINITY In today’s episode, Justice Mukheli reflects on his transformative journey from a rough upbringing to becoming a man who values authenticity and emotional vulnerability. Growing up in a Soweto he learned the importance of avoiding bad financial decisions while staying true to his roots and future goals. Finding his wife was a turning point, teaching him the value of showing up as his true self, without relying on material possessions or role-playing to fit into...

S1] EPISODE 23: THE HUSBAND IS A DYING BREED For a long time, pastors have been these untouchable figures, with their marriages only visible from the church stage. Rarely, if ever, did we get to see them in everyday life with their wives and children. This lack of access made it hard for many of us to connect with their advice, leading us to follow anyone willing to expose their lifestyle—often, unfortunately, one that wasn't worth emulating. That’s why we need to give a huge shout-out to...

(To enjoy this episode more with English subtitles, check it out on YouTube) STOP MAKING EXCUSES, BE BETTER Every generation has a figure who transcends culture, politics, sports, or religion to serve as a father figure and a symbolic ”husband of the nation.” Muzi Mthabela appears to be one of those influential voices in our time. His impact on men is profound, challenging apathy and inspiring a higher vision of masculinity. Married for 17 years, his journey is both eye-opening and deeply...

EPISODE 21: JUST HUSBANDS NOT SUPERHEROES The title of this episode perfectly captures the essence of our conversation with Nat, a genuine, down-to-earth, and sober-minded husband who is refreshingly honest about his feelings and thoughts. Over the past 12 years, Nat’s humility has not only contributed significantly to the success of his marriage but has also been shaped and refined by it. Ego trips are all too common among husbands, leading to immense strain on marriages due to unchecked...

BUILDING YOUR KINGDOM In this episode, we delve into the distressing realities of Gender-Based Violence (GBV) and Domestic Violence, exploring their profound impact on victims and the relationships they find themselves in. Kathy who is the CEO of Mohau Counselling Centre defines these forms of violence, shedding light on their prevalence, and breaks down for us what deep scars they leave behind. Our discussion then shifts focus to the perpetrators of these violent acts. We aim to uncover...

This conversation started in the comment section many episodes ago, so I decided to bring Torch on the pod to dive deeper into the lasting impact our country’s history has on us as husbands. Torch Everblazing has such a rich family history, offering us a window into our own family lives and legacies. His earnestness inspired me to approach my own history with my parents with more empathy and understanding. This episode is a perspective-shifting journey into the black family experience in...

EPISODE 18: RIDE TILL THE WHEELS FALL OFF I’ve recently been deeply focused on exploring what true oneness looks like in marriage. After all, marriage is fundamentally about becoming one with your spouse. As a husband, you make a daily choice to grow and solidify this oneness with your wife. Pulling in different directions is a sure way to create distance and potentially end the relationship. In this episode, we are thrilled to have @loyisobala972 join us to define and share how he and...

We had the pleasure of engaging in a conversation with Dr. Marilyn C. Saunders, a significant voice on marriage within the South African context. Dr. Saunders sheds light on significant topics that might seem straightforward but prove challenging in practice. One such topic is respect for the husband. This often contentious issue needs thorough and honest exploration, as addressing it can yield significant benefits in marriage. Additionally, we discuss how husbands can be more conscious,...

If you’re seriously considering marriage, LISTEN TO THIS! ALREADY MARRIED? This episode will be a sobering refresher on some things you might (and probably have) dropped the ball on. We want to inspire more men to not only consider marriage but to actually take the plunge. It was an absolute privilege to sit down with a future husband who asks all the questions we often only realize after we’re already married. Think of this episode as your ”I’m asking for a friend” moment, where you can be...

In this episode , we explore the critical role marriage plays in safeguarding and enhancing your sex life. A healthy sexual relationship within a marriage goes beyond physical satisfaction; it’s about fostering deep emotional connections, building trust, and ensuring mutual respect. As a Public Health Specialist, Themba brings to light the harsh realities of men’s sexual health, emphasizing the urgent need for a conscious approach to how we treat this gift of sex, both before and especially...

For those who are regulars here, you know that part of my biggest motivation for creating this content is my own broken relationship with my father. In this episode, the relevancy of a father in a son’s life who becomes a husband later is highlighted so clearly. Fathers are extremely important in the life of a boy, and this importance is seen so much when this boy becomes a man, especially when he becomes a husband and father himself. Themba is such a dynamic dude, and his storytelling...