Anywhere you catch Solo and Dineo Langa, it is very clear that they rest hard on their convictions. This is such a breath of fresh air in a time when anything goes. Solo  is unequivocal about his role as a husband and the responsibility that comes with that. In one section of the chat he with so much composure and self-assurance about being a ”CUSTODIAN” of his wife’s dreams. It was a powerful reminder of the influence we possess as husbands, showing that we are tools in God’s hands to shape...

The biggest lesson for me in marriage is having to come to terms with the truth that I can’t remain the same. Listen I came into marriage with very grand ideas about how I’m amazing and how my wife would have to adjust to my supreme way of living and thinking hahahaha! Was I not a clown for thinking that?! I’m dealing and living with a complete human with her own ideas of the world and she thinks in a very specific way as well. After this episode, I’ve been very hopeful that we’ll survive our...

I was really excited to sit with Bruce to dig deeper into this ground of wisdom, 33 years guys, let that sink in. Bruce has been married for as long as I’ve been alive. Most of us hit the first fight in the first year of marriage and our minds are flooded with doubts that we will never make it past 5 years. This conversation served as a crucial pitstop in my marriage journey, to sit with an older husband who is so real and open encouraged me a lot!

Today’s episode is special because it features my wife Lilly Million. Marriage forces us as husbands particularly to dig deep, cause our own reserves will run dry and very quick at that, so without God and his infinite reserves I don’t think I would make it to the next 10 years. I’ve been stretched in the past 10 years, but I see how it had to be through marriage that the character traits and qualities I’ve developed had to come.

I got to 10 years in my marriage! On one hand, it doesn’t feel like a long time but when I pause and reflect, I realise just how much I’ve gone through and what it has taken to build my marriage to what it is now. It’s upon these reflections that I soon came to understand why most men are too afraid to commit! Because as beautiful as marriage is, THIS THING WILL CHALLENGE THE KIND OF MAN YOU ARE, for real.

My friend Julz’s decision to get married again after his divorce has made me come face to face in real-time with my resistance around ever remarrying should my marriage ever end. You might be like me or maybe even opposed to marriage completely, I think this story brings so much clarity and a fresh perspective to help us think slightly differently about marriage and it’s importance. Enjoy!

Being a child of divorce myself, I know very well the devastation that comes with experiencing this kind of loss. There are key points in the conversation that really highlight, the importance of getting into marriage soberly, knowing the kind of attack this institution is under will force us to move with that awareness to fight our own inclinations, desires, that might lead to us opening the door for the disaster to creep in and crumble what we are building.

In this episode, we take a more in-depth look into the transformative journey of men who need to overcome personal struggles and hardships to emerge as beacons of hope for their families. A lot of the brokenness we experience can be predicated on the fact that men are broken from an early age as boys, hence they perpetuate this brokenness, especially as grown men.

Hungani Ndlovu’s upbringing has shaped the way he moves as a Husband. We unpack in real time how it looked for him to be a husband who walks the tight rope of miscarriage. What does this do to his own psyche, how does he love his grieving wife while grieving himself?

Persevering in marriage has gotten such bad PR that it is crazy that we would even dare utter that above statement. Think about it, whose surname does the wife and the kids take, who is meant to be the culture shaper, visionary, and spiritual leader of this family - The Husband. So perseverance is meant to be primarily modelled by the husband, his wife and children are to take cues of ukubekezela from him.

From the exhilarating rush of love to the sobering reality checks, let’s delve into the complexities of marriage with raw honesty. No sugar-coating, no filters – just the unadulterated truth about what it takes to build and sustain a meaningful marriage.

We chat about the sobering realities of what it takes for a man to step up, commit, and take a wife. Add to this, is the devaluing of the role of the husband in society and how this has contributed to the pressures most husbands are facing as they try to show up for their marriages and families, so stay tuned in to see where we end up.

Interracial couples add a very unique spin to this theory unless their own parents were interracial themselves. Because besides looks, which is obvious, in what other ways do their partners resemble each other’s parents, especially if the couple is from different cultures and countries?