In this episode, Xannie, Mo, Solène, Jack and Darren confront some of the mean comments we've received from viewers. Join us as we react to these challenging remarks about Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and share our thoughts on the stigma that often surrounds our experiences.While these comments can be hurtful, we believe in turning negativity into strength. Together, we’ll unpack these misconceptions, highlight the realities of living with BPD, and show that we can stand strong in...

What happens when your childhood wounds never heal? In this episode, Xannie, Georgette, Céline, Madhurima, Jack and Hak Ja explore the roots of borderline personality disorder (BPD) and how growing up with unmet emotional needs, difficult family dynamics, and trauma shaped their lives. Building on our conversation from Wednesday’s episode, we share personal stories of feeling out of place, shuffled around, and struggling to transition from adolescence to adulthood. If you've ever questioned...

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be especially challenging for teens as they navigate emotions, relationships, and the pressures of adolescence. In this video, Xannie, Georgette, Céline, Madhurima, Jack and Hak Ja share their earliest memories of BPD symptoms during teenage years. We also discuss the relationships most impacted by BPD in adolescence, and the advice we wish we could give to our teenage selves! If you or someone you know is struggling with BPD in their teenage years,...

Navigating Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is challenging enough, but what happens when you’re seeking help across borders? In this episode, Xannie, Solène and special guest, Fio, share their personal experiences living with BPD while navigating mental health care systems around the world. They talk about seeing therapists across countries like the UK, France, China, and the UAE, and the challenges of finding competent therapists who truly understand BPD. The Bunch explores the impact...

Struggling to find the right support when living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can feel isolating and frustrating—especially when facing a healthcare system that sometimes falls short. In today's episode, Xannie, Carys, Darren, Jack, Solène and André share stories of timed they've felt dismissed, misunderstood, and ignored by providers. Building on our conversation from Wednesday’s episode, we chat about everything from overlooked symptoms, to recognizing when to reveal what...

Struggling to navigate the mental health care system with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? You’re not alone! In this episode, Xannie, Carys, Darren, Jack, Solène and André share personal experiences and practical strategies for advocating for yourself when navigating mental health care. Discover how to effectively communicate with healthcare providers, the importance of having a trusted advocate, and tips for making the most of your appointments.Join us as we explore:- Common challenges...

Xannie, Katja, Melanie and Hak Ja sit down for an open and honest discussion about the ups and downs of life in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) symptoms. From the challenges of emotional acceptance to the journey of self-discovery, they explore what recovery really means. Whether you’re on the path of recovery or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers relatable moments and valuable wisdom. Tune in to learn how to embrace your feelings, set...

Xannie, Raf, Solène and Lena wrap up Wednesday's conversation on the overlap between Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). The Bunch discusses the early warning signs of SAD, such as hypersomnia, lack of motivation, and physical sensations like heaviness and fatigue. They also explore how seasonal changes and context cues—like shorter days or humid weather—impact mental health. If you’ve ever felt “blah” or disconnected as the seasons shift, this...

Xannie, Raf, Solène and Lena discuss living with borderline personality disorder (BPD) and seasonal affective disorder (SAD). Practicing clinician, Lena, explains what SAD is and how that shows up for patients with BPD. The bunch share their personal experiences with the two disorders, as well as their top tips for coping and valuable lessons learned along the healing journey. Loved the episode? We made shirts to commemorate the hilarity of mishearing "get sweaty at the gym" as "get slutty...

Xannie and her husband, Casey, answer your questions about BPD relationships while attempting the  @FirstWeFeast  hot ones challenge! 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ Terms from the episode: DBT STOP Skill:...

In this episode, Xannie, Katja, Jack, Madhurima and Jay wrap up their discussion on BPD and empathy, focusing on a concept called "the borderline empathy paradox". October 23rd we'll be back with a new discussion topic, BPD & Seasonal Affective Disorder. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support...

In this episode, Xannie, Katja, Jack, Madhurima and Jay explore the complexities of empathy for those of with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). The Bunch discuss cognitive and affective empathy, the importance of recognizing personal limits, and how to offer support to others without losing yourself in the process. Come back on Friday as we wrap up this topic, with a discussion on the "Borderline Empathy Paradox." October 23rd we'll be back with a new discussion topic, BPD &...

In this episode, Xannie sits down with Rose, a mental health counselor and BPD recovery coach, as she shares her transformative journey from living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) to building a thriving coaching and counseling business. Rose opens up about her struggles, her path to healing, and the key lessons that helped her recover and guide others towards mental health stability.Covering themes like empathy, humility, and the importance of emotional regulation, Rose talks about...

In this episode, Xannie, Katja, Georgette, Jack, and Jay wrap up their conversation on borderline personality disorder (BPD) at school. The bunch share whether they have used accommodations in an educational setting, Jay and Xannie talk about sharing their diagnosis as students, while Katja and Georgette share disclosing as educators. October 16th we'll be back with a new discussion topic, BPD & Empathy. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on...

In this episode, Xannie, Katja, Georgette, Jack, and Jay chat about how borderline personality disorder (BPD) can create challenges at school. In the first half of the episode, they share their own stories about how BPD showed up for them and how it affected their relationships at school. In the second half, they share their top tips and lessons on managing school life with BPD and offer advice for parents, teachers, and anyone supporting a student with BPD. Come back on Friday as we wrap...

Xannie and Raf sit down for a 1-1 to talk about Raf's experiences as someone who lives with borderline personality disorder and identifies as gender nonconforming. October 9th we'll be back with a new discussion topic, dealing with BPD at School. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and...

Xannie, Jack, Mo, Jay, Hak Ja and André finish up their conversation from Wednesday on how borderline personality disorder presents in men and women. In this clip they discuss the misconceptions or stereotypes they'd like to challenge! October 9th we'll be back with a new discussion topic, dealing with BPD at School. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! 🌟 Love what...

The BPD Bunch is Back! Xannie, Jack, Mo, Jay, Hak Ja and André discuss how borderline personality disorder presents in Men and Women. Xannie and Jay start by sharing some of the research, to answer questions like: Is BPD different in men than women? How does BPD present in males? What are the symptoms of BPD in women? What is the prevalence of borderline personality disorder in women? Why is BPD misdiagnosed in men? Then the group discuss their personal experiences of BPD and how...

Meet Jack, who joined the BPD Bunch in season 4, and is set to continue in season 5 coming on October 2nd! Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️‍🩹

Meet Hak Ja, who joined the BPD Bunch in season 4, and is set to continue in season 5 coming on October 2nd! Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️‍🩹

Xannie breaks why its important to have realistic expectations of recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. We’re currently on a break between seasons, but will be posting mini-episodes once a week (on average) until we return with season 5 in the fall! 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a...

In this minisode, Xannie, Katja, Mo, Darren and Céline discuss the causes of their splitting episodes. If you missed our longer conversation on BPD & Splitting, check it out here: https://youtu.be/MA2Te7EpHbY?si=UQeVWA_oMNw6ECkf We’re currently on a break between seasons, but will be posting mini-episodes once a week (on average) until we return with season 5 in the fall! 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our...

Xannie, Mo, Darren and Céline consider their past experiences with splitting and how they've moved forwards when a particularly nasty split has ended a relationship. If you missed our longer conversation on BPD & Splitting, check it out here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thebpdbunch/episodes/The-BPD-Bunch-S4E6-Splitting-in-BPD-Explained-e2jm216 We’re currently on a break between seasons, but will be posting mini-episodes once a week (on average) until we return with season 5...

In this mini-episode, Xannie, Katja, Mo, Darren and Céline discuss the concept of splitting and whether or not they experience it within themselves. If you missed our longer conversation on BPD & Splitting, check it out here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thebpdbunch/episodes/The-BPD-Bunch-S4E6-Splitting-in-BPD-Explained-e2jm216 We’re currently on a break between seasons, but will be posting mini-episodes once a week (on average) until we return with season 5 in the fall! 🌟...