“I don’t really know who she is or how I found her but wow…this episode explains why we can’t make decisions omg… from husband AND childhood for me. My sister who was more like golden child as I was the clearly differentiated scapegoat can not get my struggles at all to this day. Thanks for walking us through in such detailed examples of how this happens, how we think through all scenarios before even opening our mouth, and how there’s no way to please our husbands no matter how many ways so called Christian’s and counselors suggest “new” things we’ve already done for years. The episode with the last married 40 years was awesome! So many episodes that have need such a try blessing in my life. Only one rousing I remember questioning, I think one about codependency. I didn’t feel I related to that. But my God, these have so clearly laid out in words to things that I could not explain.
I was thinking how people call social services when kids are being neglected or abused, yet this hidden all consuming life damaging abuse gets completely ignored. If you try to say something you’re looked at like you’re the crazy one. Keep informing. Thanks for being a voice! Your life is helping!”
Purely M via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/02/24