Have you ever met someone who completely shattered your checklist of qualities for a 'type'? I’m Coach Ratner, and in this latest episode of the Living Clarity Podcast, I delve into the surprising ways love can defy our expectations. By sharing personal stories and those from my coaching sessions, I aim to show that an open heart might lead you to the most fulfilling connections, ones that you never anticipated. From a friend who found love in the most unlikely place to my own journey with my wife, I discuss the notion that sometimes, our 'type' isn't who we think it is until we're face-to-face with them. This episode is packed with revelations from a woman in her 30s who found marriage through social media, to a septuagenarian embracing companionship. We unravel the common pitfalls of judging too quickly and the importance of personal growth, sometimes with the help of therapy or coaching, in molding our perspectives on love and relationships. Wrapping up with a look at the 'first date bias' and my personal insights into building a deep connection, this episode is a treasure trove for anyone navigating the dating world or yearning to strengthen their current relationship. My upcoming book "Infinite Marriage: The Four Phases of a Loving  Relationship," promises to be a guidepost for those seeking to understand the complexities of love further. Join me on this intimate and eye-opening journey as we challenge the norms and embrace the unpredictable nature of finding love.