Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Criticism is often a hidden reflection of one's own self-esteem struggles, a realization I came to with some wise guidance from my wife. Throughout this episode, I open up about my personal journey from being overly critical to adopting a more compassionate approach, underscoring how this transformation improved my relationships, especially within my family. We shed light on the insidious nature of gossip and its roots in pe...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Imagine living your life constantly seeking approval from others, even if it means sacrificing your own happiness. Through the Living Clarity Podcast, we unravel the motivations behind people-pleasing behaviors often rooted in low self-esteem. We share a poignant story of a college acquaintance whose excessive kindness masked an inner struggle, impacting her relationships profoundly. As we tread through the murky waters of l...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Can low self-esteem masquerade as introversion? Join us as we unravel this intriguing concept, sharing personal stories of how avoidance often leads to dysfunctional relationships and missed opportunities. We touch on the critical role of self-love in fostering healthy connections, both socially and professionally. As we navigate the complex path from fear of judgment to confident interactions, learn how addressing these iss...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Could the relentless pursuit of external validation be the silent thief of joy among our teenagers? On the Living in Clarity podcast, Coach Ratner, unravel the intricate threads of low self-esteem and its detrimental impact on the mental health of today's youth, particularly girls. Triggered by the alarming 2021 CDC report, we journey through personal narratives and scholarly research to shed light on how societal pressures ...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!What if your marriage could not only last a lifetime but also be filled with passion and deep love? Join Coach Ratner as he concludes his audiobook, "Infinite Marriage," with profound reflections on the art of maintaining a thriving relationship. Through Coach Ratner's personal journey of transforming his written work into an audiobook, you'll uncover practical wisdom and tools essential for navigating the four phases ...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Can simple acts of affection and genuine appreciation truly transform a marriage? Join us as we explore the profound impact that small gestures and kind words can have on your relationship, without relying on grandiose displays of love. We delve into how consistent affectionate communication, akin to nurturing a child with a kind tone, can positively influence your marriage. This episode offers a deep dive into the four esse...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Can the smallest gestures really transform your marriage? Join us on the Living in Clarity podcast with Coach Ratner as we uncover the profound impact of understanding and fulfilling your spouse's needs. Through personal stories and thoughtful reflections, we reveal how respecting your partner's preferences—be it their passion for modern dance or their kitchen safety rules—can significantly strengthen your bond. Coach Ratner...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Ever wondered how to transform your marriage from "me" to "we"? Join Coach Ratner on the Living in Clarity podcast as we unravel the secrets to enduring love and partnership. This episode dives headfirst into "Never Leaving" the final and most intricate phase of a loving relationship. Discover the life-changing 24-hour rule that helps couples sidestep unnecessary conflicts and learn how to view trivial expenses as a "marriag...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Discover how to transform your marriage and reignite the passion with our latest episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast. Have you ever wondered how small changes can make a big impact on your relationship? Today, we uncover the secrets behind maintaining a loving and passionate marriage by focusing on positive communication, the benefits of strenuous exercise, and the power of minor adjustments. Learn how aiming for 100% p...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Ever wondered why some marriages thrive while others fall apart? Join us on the Living in Clarity Podcast as we uncover the crucial steps to building a strong, lasting marriage. We kick off this episode by exploring the Commitment phase, emphasizing the importance of both physical attraction and aligning life goals before saying "I do." Learn how to gauge whether you and your partner are truly compatible by discussing essent...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Can material desires and the pursuit of external validation weaken the foundations of your marriage? Join us as we unravel the complexities of ego in relationships, starting with a relatable story of the time I bought a Porsche to boost my ego, only to find it unsatisfying and stressful. Through this and other personal anecdotes, we'll see how focusing on superficial attributes can harm marriages and why nurturing a soul con...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Ever wondered why some marriages thrive while others merely survive? On the latest episode of the Living Clarity Podcast, we promise you'll uncover the secret to sustaining a long-lasting, fulfilling relationship. Coach Ratner reveals why shared meaningful life goals, rather than mere common interests, are the glue that holds relationships together. With insights rooted in his own dating experiences and a fascinating example...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Ever wondered why your partner seems distant even when you think you're listening? Tune in to uncover the secrets of genuine listening that can transform your relationships. We discuss how truly hearing your partner goes beyond mere words—it's about capturing their emotions and validating their experiences, especially in the early stages of dating. We dive into the nuanced differences in how men and women communicate, highli...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Ever wondered how many chances you should give a potential partner before deciding if they're "the one?" In our latest episode of the Living in Clarity podcast, Coach Ratner promises to transform your dating life with his intriguing Three Date Rule. Drawing from Malcolm Gladwell's "Blink," we explore how initial impressions can be misleading and why giving someone more than one chance can be crucial. We'll share personal sto...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Ever wondered why some relationships fizzle out while others stand the test of time? This episode of the Living in Clarity podcast promises to unravel the secrets to dating with intention and clarity. We share the lighthearted yet profound story of a 90-year-old woman whose varied marital history teaches us the dangers of dating for the wrong reasons, like mere physical attraction or fleeting infatuation. We emphasize the im...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Does infatuation lead to lasting love, or is it a relationship trap? In this episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast, Coach Ratner demystifies the first phase of a loving relationship: "The Crush." By breaking down the crucial distinction between infatuation and genuine love, Ratner sets the stage for a deeper understanding of what it means to truly connect with someone. He introduces the concept of defining love within you...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!This week on the Living in Clarity Podcast, Coach Ratner will read to you the introduction of his latest book, Infinite Marriage: The 4 Phases of a Loving Relationship. Discover the four phases of love— the crush, the research, the commitment, and ultimate phase of never leaving. Coach Ratner delves into the societal shifts causing declining marriage rates and increasing divorce rates, emphasizing the critical role of e...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!What if someone close to you is secretly draining your emotional energy? In this eye-opening episode, Coach Ratner explores the concept of "Emotional Vampires"—those individuals who leave us feeling exhausted and demoralized. From the perpetual victim who constantly shifts blame, to the narcissist and drama queen who thrive on chaos, we uncover the telltale signs of these toxic personalities. Using the biblical story of Kora...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Ever wondered why the divorce rate is alarmingly high and true marital bliss so rare? On our latest episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast, Coach Ratner doesn't just explore the problem—he offers a solution that might just save your relationship. Discover the final and perhaps most crucial commandment in our series: Do Not Settle. Coach Ratner is here to inspire you to aim for nothing less than an extraordinary marriage by...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!What if a simple promise could be the bedrock of your most passionate relationship? Join me, Coach Ratner, on the Living in Clarity podcast as we unpack the ninth commandment of marriage: "Do not devalue your word." This episode delves into the essence of honesty and integrity, illustrating how small acts of trustworthiness, like consistently taking out the trash when you say you are going to do it, can fortify a marriage. I...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!What happens when we start valuing our time more than our money in a marriage? Discover how this shift can transform your relationship in the latest episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast with Coach Ratner. We continue our deep dive into the Ten Commandments of Marriage, focusing on the principle "Do not steal my time." Through engaging anecdotes and personal insights, Coach Ratner emphasizes the irreplaceable value of tim...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Can emotional infidelity be as damaging as a physical affair? Prepare to uncover the hidden dangers of seeking emotional fulfillment outside your marriage in this enlightening episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast. I'm Coach Ratner, guiding you through the intricacies of emotional connections and how they can unravel the fabric of your relationship. Drawing from Gary Newman's profound insights in his book "Emotional Infid...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Can words truly shape the destiny of your marriage? Discover the transformative power of language in relationships as Coach Ratner takes us through the sixth commandment of marriage: the imperative to speak positively. With insights rooted in personal experiences and wisdom from the Torah, we explore how the words we choose can either fortify or fracture our most intimate bonds. Coach Ratner candidly discusses the lingering ...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Respect is the cornerstone of any thriving relationship, but how often do we truly understand its depth? Imagine transforming your marriage simply by shifting how you show respect to your partner. Join me, Coach Ratner, as we unpack the fifth commandment of marriage: Respect your spouse. Drawing compelling parallels with the commandment to honor your parents, we’ll explore how this principle is akin to our relationship with ...