Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Does infatuation lead to lasting love, or is it a relationship trap? In this episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast, Coach Ratner demystifies the first phase of a loving relationship: "The Crush." By breaking down the crucial distinction between infatuation and genuine love, Ratner sets the stage for a deeper understanding of what it means to truly connect with someone. He introduces the concept of defining love within you...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!This week on the Living in Clarity Podcast, Coach Ratner will read to you the introduction of his latest book, Infinite Marriage: The 4 Phases of a Loving Relationship. Discover the four phases of love— the crush, the research, the commitment, and ultimate phase of never leaving. Coach Ratner delves into the societal shifts causing declining marriage rates and increasing divorce rates, emphasizing the critical role of e...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!What if someone close to you is secretly draining your emotional energy? In this eye-opening episode, Coach Ratner explores the concept of "Emotional Vampires"—those individuals who leave us feeling exhausted and demoralized. From the perpetual victim who constantly shifts blame, to the narcissist and drama queen who thrive on chaos, we uncover the telltale signs of these toxic personalities. Using the biblical story of Kora...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Ever wondered why the divorce rate is alarmingly high and true marital bliss so rare? On our latest episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast, Coach Ratner doesn't just explore the problem—he offers a solution that might just save your relationship. Discover the final and perhaps most crucial commandment in our series: Do Not Settle. Coach Ratner is here to inspire you to aim for nothing less than an extraordinary marriage by...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!What if a simple promise could be the bedrock of your most passionate relationship? Join me, Coach Ratner, on the Living in Clarity podcast as we unpack the ninth commandment of marriage: "Do not devalue your word." This episode delves into the essence of honesty and integrity, illustrating how small acts of trustworthiness, like consistently taking out the trash when you say you are going to do it, can fortify a marriage. I...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!What happens when we start valuing our time more than our money in a marriage? Discover how this shift can transform your relationship in the latest episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast with Coach Ratner. We continue our deep dive into the Ten Commandments of Marriage, focusing on the principle "Do not steal my time." Through engaging anecdotes and personal insights, Coach Ratner emphasizes the irreplaceable value of tim...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Can emotional infidelity be as damaging as a physical affair? Prepare to uncover the hidden dangers of seeking emotional fulfillment outside your marriage in this enlightening episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast. I'm Coach Ratner, guiding you through the intricacies of emotional connections and how they can unravel the fabric of your relationship. Drawing from Gary Newman's profound insights in his book "Emotional Infid...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Can words truly shape the destiny of your marriage? Discover the transformative power of language in relationships as Coach Ratner takes us through the sixth commandment of marriage: the imperative to speak positively. With insights rooted in personal experiences and wisdom from the Torah, we explore how the words we choose can either fortify or fracture our most intimate bonds. Coach Ratner candidly discusses the lingering ...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Respect is the cornerstone of any thriving relationship, but how often do we truly understand its depth? Imagine transforming your marriage simply by shifting how you show respect to your partner. Join me, Coach Ratner, as we unpack the fifth commandment of marriage: Respect your spouse. Drawing compelling parallels with the commandment to honor your parents, we’ll explore how this principle is akin to our relationship with ...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Can shared spiritual practices really transform your marriage? On this episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast, Coach Ratner explores the profound impact of the fourth Ten Commandments of Marriage: Keep Shabbos. We delve into why couples who pray together tend to have more enduring relationships, emphasizing that shared meaningful goals and values are crucial. From bonding over children to engaging in philanthropy and...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Ever wondered how to keep the peace in your marriage and manage your temper effectively? Discover the secrets in our latest episode of Living in Clarity with Coach Ratner as we continue exploring the Ten Commandments of Marriage. This week, we focus on managing anger, highlighting the powerful 24-hour rule that could save your relationship from unnecessary conflicts. Learn why most arguments are fleeting and easily forgotten...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!What if criticism in marriage is as harmful as idol worship? Join us as we continue our insightful series on the Ten Commandments of Marriage, where we uncover why "do not criticize" is a cornerstone for a thriving relationship. We dive deep into how criticism can erode the foundation of a marriage by undermining the belief that everything unfolds according to God's plan. Through personal stories and powerful examples, we il...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Embark on a journey into marital bliss with Coach Ratner as we unveil the Ten Commandments of Marriage. With the first commandment, "I am your spouse," we unravel the mystery of understanding your partner's unique essence, similar to knowing G-d. Discover the five love languages along with the four A's—attention, affection, appreciation, and awareness—that foster a deeper connection with your significant other. T...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Discover the unexpected as I, Coach Ratner, detail an unplanned reunion in Jerusalem that reminded me of the deep roots and personal connections fostered through our shared faith. My conversation with Rabbi Moshe Scheiner, a catalyst in my family's spiritual awakening, becomes a centerpiece of reflection on this episode of the Living in Clarity podcast. Embark on a narrative journey that intertwines the joys of communit...

Have you ever found yourself caught between the pursuit of peace and the desire to stand your ground? It's a conundrum we've all faced, and in this heart-to-heart with Lori Palatnik as we tackle such life-defining moments head-on. With wisdom from Perkei Avot as our guiding light, we unravel the delicate intricacies of navigating parenting, divorce, and those contentious bar mitzvah seating arrangements. It's about striking a balance — knowing when to offer guidance and when to step back, for...

Have you ever found yourself mesmerized by the raw honesty of someone who speaks from the heart? That's exactly what you'll experience as Rabbi Yotav Glaser rejoins us, sharing his infectious love for humanity and insights on living a life that's true to oneself. His perspectives are a breath of fresh air in an era where authenticity often loses out to the latest trend. We're reminded that within each of us lies a 'beautiful child', eager to engage with the world in a way that's...

Why do we etch our skin with ink or alter our bodies with piercings and surgery? Uncover the deeply rooted psychological motivations behind body augmentation, as we discuss the quest for meaning in a transient world. With special guests Robby DomeTownBlyte and Bobbitt, we peel back the layers on self-esteem's influence on these permanent decisions. Plus, get a sneak peek at my forthcoming book, "Incident Marriage: The Four Faces to a Love Relationship," where I delve into how self-worth...

Ever wondered how a simple 'thank you' can revolutionize your life? Coach Ratner here, and I'm thrilled to bring you an episode with the remarkable Corey Drucker, where we unveil the transformative power of gratitude and clarity. Together, we weave through our morning rituals, highlighting the psychological perks of starting the day with a positive stride. We reflect on the magic tucked into the ordinary – from the joyous bustle of family life to the often ignored marvels of our own bodies....

Ever wondered if the secret to more meaningful relationships could be as simple as fostering genuine self-love? Join me, Coach Ratner, alongside Rabbi Yisrael Frankel for an insightful dialogue that promises to illuminate your path to deeper connections. As we sit in the heart of Jerusalem, we uncover the often overlooked link between cherishing oneself and the capacity to love others, sharing wisdom from both personal experiences and the Torah. Delving into the joyous pursuit of happiness,...

Unlock the paradoxical wisdom of thriving through failure with Dave Mason, as he joins me, Coach Ratner, on the Living Clarity podcast. We celebrate Dave's enlightening new book, "Hurry Up and Fail," where he illuminates the counterintuitive notion that stumbling can be a springboard to success. Discover how figures like Sarah Blakely used sheer grit to turn Spanx into a household name, and how my own aspirations during National Novel Writing Month revealed the transformative nature of...

Have you ever met someone who completely shattered your checklist of qualities for a 'type'? I’m Coach Ratner, and in this latest episode of the Living Clarity Podcast, I delve into the surprising ways love can defy our expectations. By sharing personal stories and those from my coaching sessions, I aim to show that an open heart might lead you to the most fulfilling connections, ones that you never anticipated. From a friend who found love in the most unlikely place to my own journey with...

When was the last time you had your beliefs and faith deeply challenged? We're joined by Darren Glick, who shares his firsthand experiences of living in Jerusalem during the recent conflict. Darren's story is not just one of survival, but also of unity and resilience. From supporting soldiers and their families to witnessing an unexpected community unity, Darren gives us a deeply human perspective of the turmoil. In a world where anti-Semitism and hate seem to be on the rise, it's time to...

Having once witnessed the chilling power of missiles during a Blue Angels show, I was struck by an unexpected connection between these weapons of destruction and the spiritual realm. Let's embark together on a journey where we interpret the Hebrew word for missiles, "telem," and its transformation into "tehillim" or praises to God. We'll trace the echoes of history, connecting the year 1948, Abraham's birth, the founding of Israel, and a conflict where such 'holy missiles' were utilized....

Feeling overwhelmed by anxiety and low self-esteem in these turbulent times? You're not alone. On this episode of the Living and Clarity podcast, I, Coach Ratner, candidly share my own struggles with these feelings, and most importantly, how we can harness these emotions to navigate through the current crisis. It's okay not to be okay, and it's absolutely alright to acknowledge that. From feeling hostage remorse - the guilt of being safe when others aren't, to finding hope amidst despair,...

Are you ready to unpack the intricate challenges surrounding the Israel crisis and discover tangible ways to lend your support? Rabbi Ken Spiro joins us in this enlightening conversation where we traverse the fields of geopolitics, religion, and personal growth. We delve into the pressing need for financial assistance to impacted communities and explore the idea of embarking on a journey to Israel in the post-crisis period. We also take a bold stance against misinformation and urge you to...