Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Can shared spiritual practices really transform your marriage? On this episode of the Living in Clarity Podcast, Coach Ratner explores the profound impact of the fourth Ten Commandments of Marriage: Keep Shabbos. We delve into why couples who pray together tend to have more enduring relationships, emphasizing that shared meaningful goals and values are crucial. From bonding over children to engaging in philanthropy and...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Ever wondered how to keep the peace in your marriage and manage your temper effectively? Discover the secrets in our latest episode of Living in Clarity with Coach Ratner as we continue exploring the Ten Commandments of Marriage. This week, we focus on managing anger, highlighting the powerful 24-hour rule that could save your relationship from unnecessary conflicts. Learn why most arguments are fleeting and easily forgotten...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!What if criticism in marriage is as harmful as idol worship? Join us as we continue our insightful series on the Ten Commandments of Marriage, where we uncover why "do not criticize" is a cornerstone for a thriving relationship. We dive deep into how criticism can erode the foundation of a marriage by undermining the belief that everything unfolds according to God's plan. Through personal stories and powerful examples, we il...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Embark on a journey into marital bliss with Coach Ratner as we unveil the Ten Commandments of Marriage. With the first commandment, "I am your spouse," we unravel the mystery of understanding your partner's unique essence, similar to knowing G-d. Discover the five love languages along with the four A's—attention, affection, appreciation, and awareness—that foster a deeper connection with your significant other. T...

Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!Discover the unexpected as I, Coach Ratner, detail an unplanned reunion in Jerusalem that reminded me of the deep roots and personal connections fostered through our shared faith. My conversation with Rabbi Moshe Scheiner, a catalyst in my family's spiritual awakening, becomes a centerpiece of reflection on this episode of the Living in Clarity podcast. Embark on a narrative journey that intertwines the joys of communit...

Have you ever found yourself caught between the pursuit of peace and the desire to stand your ground? It's a conundrum we've all faced, and in this heart-to-heart with Lori Palatnik as we tackle such life-defining moments head-on. With wisdom from Perkei Avot as our guiding light, we unravel the delicate intricacies of navigating parenting, divorce, and those contentious bar mitzvah seating arrangements. It's about striking a balance — knowing when to offer guidance and when to step back, for...

Have you ever found yourself mesmerized by the raw honesty of someone who speaks from the heart? That's exactly what you'll experience as Rabbi Yotav Glaser rejoins us, sharing his infectious love for humanity and insights on living a life that's true to oneself. His perspectives are a breath of fresh air in an era where authenticity often loses out to the latest trend. We're reminded that within each of us lies a 'beautiful child', eager to engage with the world in a way that's...

Why do we etch our skin with ink or alter our bodies with piercings and surgery? Uncover the deeply rooted psychological motivations behind body augmentation, as we discuss the quest for meaning in a transient world. With special guests Robby DomeTownBlyte and Bobbitt, we peel back the layers on self-esteem's influence on these permanent decisions. Plus, get a sneak peek at my forthcoming book, "Incident Marriage: The Four Faces to a Love Relationship," where I delve into how self-worth...

Ever wondered how a simple 'thank you' can revolutionize your life? Coach Ratner here, and I'm thrilled to bring you an episode with the remarkable Corey Drucker, where we unveil the transformative power of gratitude and clarity. Together, we weave through our morning rituals, highlighting the psychological perks of starting the day with a positive stride. We reflect on the magic tucked into the ordinary – from the joyous bustle of family life to the often ignored marvels of our own bodies....

Ever wondered if the secret to more meaningful relationships could be as simple as fostering genuine self-love? Join me, Coach Ratner, alongside Rabbi Yisrael Frankel for an insightful dialogue that promises to illuminate your path to deeper connections. As we sit in the heart of Jerusalem, we uncover the often overlooked link between cherishing oneself and the capacity to love others, sharing wisdom from both personal experiences and the Torah. Delving into the joyous pursuit of happiness,...

Unlock the paradoxical wisdom of thriving through failure with Dave Mason, as he joins me, Coach Ratner, on the Living Clarity podcast. We celebrate Dave's enlightening new book, "Hurry Up and Fail," where he illuminates the counterintuitive notion that stumbling can be a springboard to success. Discover how figures like Sarah Blakely used sheer grit to turn Spanx into a household name, and how my own aspirations during National Novel Writing Month revealed the transformative nature of...

Have you ever met someone who completely shattered your checklist of qualities for a 'type'? I’m Coach Ratner, and in this latest episode of the Living Clarity Podcast, I delve into the surprising ways love can defy our expectations. By sharing personal stories and those from my coaching sessions, I aim to show that an open heart might lead you to the most fulfilling connections, ones that you never anticipated. From a friend who found love in the most unlikely place to my own journey with...

When was the last time you had your beliefs and faith deeply challenged? We're joined by Darren Glick, who shares his firsthand experiences of living in Jerusalem during the recent conflict. Darren's story is not just one of survival, but also of unity and resilience. From supporting soldiers and their families to witnessing an unexpected community unity, Darren gives us a deeply human perspective of the turmoil. In a world where anti-Semitism and hate seem to be on the rise, it's time to...

Having once witnessed the chilling power of missiles during a Blue Angels show, I was struck by an unexpected connection between these weapons of destruction and the spiritual realm. Let's embark together on a journey where we interpret the Hebrew word for missiles, "telem," and its transformation into "tehillim" or praises to God. We'll trace the echoes of history, connecting the year 1948, Abraham's birth, the founding of Israel, and a conflict where such 'holy missiles' were utilized....

Feeling overwhelmed by anxiety and low self-esteem in these turbulent times? You're not alone. On this episode of the Living and Clarity podcast, I, Coach Ratner, candidly share my own struggles with these feelings, and most importantly, how we can harness these emotions to navigate through the current crisis. It's okay not to be okay, and it's absolutely alright to acknowledge that. From feeling hostage remorse - the guilt of being safe when others aren't, to finding hope amidst despair,...

Are you ready to unpack the intricate challenges surrounding the Israel crisis and discover tangible ways to lend your support? Rabbi Ken Spiro joins us in this enlightening conversation where we traverse the fields of geopolitics, religion, and personal growth. We delve into the pressing need for financial assistance to impacted communities and explore the idea of embarking on a journey to Israel in the post-crisis period. We also take a bold stance against misinformation and urge you to...

What if the worst tragedies could be the very things that unite us? That's exactly what we're exploring in this profound discourse with Lori Palatnik, as we grapple with the dolorous events in Israel, deciphering the divine message within. This isn't just about choosing between right and wrong; it's about understanding free will as a moral choice of significant depth. We delve into the stark contrasts between anti-Semitism and the intent to annihilate, a conversation that may be tough, but is...

What happens when the whispers of anti-Semitism transform into blatant screams? Discover the disturbing truths as Rabbi Ken Spiro unravels the reality of the growing danger facing Jews worldwide. In a candid conversation, Rabbi Spiro provides a sharp analysis on the trials Israel and the global Jewish community are currently facing. He offers insights into the historical context, helping us understand the complex political dynamics, and debunks the myth of Jews as foreign occupiers.  We're...

Pledge your ears to an engaging conversation with the brilliant Hila Oz, as we dissect the current Israel-Palestine conflict and the media's part in it. Be prepared for an unfiltered perspective as we navigate the intricate landscape, contrasting the IDF's code of ethics against Hamas's charter, and addressing the cognitive dissonance among those aligning with the historically Nazi-associated grand loft of Jerusalem. As we pivot into the second part of our dialogue, we highlight the...

Do you aspire to marriage but find yourself wondering why it hasn't happened yet? Or perhaps you've experienced marriage and are seeking insights into why it didn't succeed? Join Lori Palatnik and Coach Ratner as they delve into seven compelling reasons that might just help you gain a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationship goals than ever before.  The 7 reasons why are: 1. You are emotionally unavailable. 2. You never got over a previous relationship. 3. You parents had a...

In this special episode featuring Rabbi Palatnik, hosts Coach Ratner and Lori Palatnik take you on a journey through the maze of marital complexities. Explore the pivotal aspects of a lasting, passionate marriage from Jewish wisdom and practical insights. If you're looking to spark joy and depth in your marriage, this episode is for you!

Join Coach Ratner with his new co-host, Lori Palatnik. They will delve into the 3 times that someone is allowed to lie. They are: 1. For peace in your family and in the home. One can do this as long as they are not benefiting from it. 2. To minimize your accomplishments.  3. If it is not someone else's business or the question is too personal. 

Join Coach Ratner with his new co-host, Lori Palatnik. They will be discussing 3 ways in which you can show respect to your partner or spouse. They are: Praise them in public, the opinion that means the most is from your partner or spouse. Treat them like someone you respect, and they will become a person you respect. Believe in them when they says they can do something. They want to fix the car? Let them to do and don’t tell them that they should take it in. You want them to know that you...

In Brandon Fishers last podcast, he discusses with Coach Ratner that turning a mess into success requires dedication, organization, and a strategic approach. While the specific steps can vary depending on the situation, here's a general guideline Coach Ratner compiled that you can follow: 1. You Must define what success means to you…or someone else will do it for you. 2. Live with constant Gratitude. 3. Take responsibility & stop blaming everyone else 4. Don’t let your job define you as...

Do you know why you are already awesome?  Here are 4 reasons. 1- You were born in the greatest time in the history of the world. If you make 30k a year, you are in the top 1% of wealth in the world. 2-  You won the biggest race in the world, and it's not the Boston Marathon, but the race to your mother egg. 3- If you are reading this, or can listen to it, you are already given the greatest gift in the world; your eyes and your ears. 4. In life, 10% is what happens to you and the other 90% is...