113. Complain or Describe? How Narcissists Project And Accuse You

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113. Complain or Describe? How Narcissists Project And Accuse You of Complaining When You Want to Problem Solve

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Narcissists will accuse people of doing EXACTLY what they are doing. If you see a problem and want to make an accurate diagnostic, they will accuse you of complaining. This happened to me, recently. In this episode, I share how I handled the situation, the logic and techniques I used, so you might be able to use them too, if it is safe for you to use them. And, in all cases, this will make it harder for you to be gaslit into believing that you're complaining when you're actually trying to solve situations.

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