Grace is joined for this episode by the iconic Cian Griffin (aka @Gaylgeoirí). Cian is an LGBTQ+ content creator, writer, podcaster, and media personality who creates content in English and Irish...and now he is a friend of the G-Spot! Grace and Cian chat about discovering sexy material as a teen through Bebo and pixelated GIFs in the 00s, how porn can actually normalise some positive aspects of sex, some differences between sexual messaging then and now, questioning your sexual identity when in a relationship, the harm of heteronormativity, different ways of exploring our sexuality, properly introducing Grace to the work of Chappell Roan, getting uncomfortable when friends ask questions that feel invasive, how first-time sex is like the Leaving Cert and making pancakes, why it might be a great decision for you to wait to have sex, feeling more comfortable with being 'inexperienced' and why it doesn't need to be a big deal, faking it vs. being honest...and as always, plenty more! This episode is sponsored by PlayBlue, Ireland's favourite adult store. Ireland’s favourite adult store. Find out more at https://playblue.ie/ Grace Alice Ó Sé is a sex and intimacy specialist and author from Kerry, Ireland. Grace's aim is to prevent people suffering in silence with sexual and intimacy issues, as she believes everyone deserves a life filled with joy, pleasure and connection. She offers 1-1 coaching sessions to individuals, couples coaching, workshops, courses, and delivers sex positive education for adults through her extensive work in the media (including this podcast!). If you would like to work with Grace or learn more, you can find her at gracealice.com or on Instagram under @grace_alice_oshea.  Please visit this link for lots of info on supports for LGBTIQ+ people in Ireland - lgbt.ie/our-services/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices