When we are experiencing challenges in our lives, whether it’s with health, or relationships, or just what is true for us, one thing to consider is asking ourselves where we can be responsible. When we are stuck in pain and suffering, are we blaming someone else for our experience, or are we ready to learn and grow and mature from it? Because the hard part to understand is that we actually get to choose how our reality appears to us. In this episode, we’re going to first dive into this attachment to suffering, and explore what we are magnetising and emanating right now. We’re going to look into the things that keep repeating in our lives, bringing consciousness to what we are actually emanating, in order to arrive at what we want to be emanating.  What is Covered:  -Why we tend to be so addicted to pain and suffering -The split way of being and our oscillating between opposing desires -How to be honest with ourselves without blame, shame and guilt  -How the world that we are seeing is created moment by moment  -Understanding emanation and what you are emanating right now -Journaling exercise: what do you want to be emanating?  Resources:  -Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/ -Episode 050 Aesthetic Intelligence: What Are We Emanating to the World? With Nicholas Onken https://player.captivate.fm/episode/901998c8-97b2-4be3-8f50-07617ba63e80/  -Episode 012 Blaming vs. Learning: Do THIS to Grow Exponentially https://player.captivate.fm/episode/4487df95-d4fc-458f-ba37-c0ab0cc2777b/ -Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/  -Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/  -Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation  -Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender