I am particularly knowledgeable when it comes to orgasm for men. I even provide coaching on the subject. For women though – despite all my experience, training and study, I have an inherent limitation: I don't have a vagina.   I want to make sure that The Intimate Lifestyle runs the gamut, so I invited an expert who can explain female orgasm, not just for you, but also for me.   This episode's guest is Natasha Salaash. She is a certified Bodysex Instructor, Orgasm Coach, and Sex and Intimacy Counsellor. She also has a background in Applied Psychology and Counselling. Her work involves helping women discover and explore their sexuality and in effect, help them empower themselves, build confidence, and live authentically.   Natasha and I discussed orgasm in a physiological, psychological, and metaphysical level. Some of the specifics that we talked about include:   What she does and her goal working as an orgasm coach. (03:19) How she conducts orgasm coaching, sex and intimacy counseling and masturbation circles. (05:08) The importance of taking ownership of one's own pleasure. (13:23) How energy gets stuck and how it affects orgasms. (16:16) Patterns and symptoms that she observes with women who haven't experienced orgasm or have problems orgasming. (19:30) Our thoughts on the use of sex toys and exposure to porn, and how it affects orgasms. (23:56 The techniques and props that she employs, and concepts she teaches when guiding her clients about their pleasure. (33:22) The science/psychology behind getting really close to orgasm only to lose it. (43:26) The role of hormones, the human physiology, and women's monthly cycles in orgasm. (1:00:26) Female ejaculation (a.k.a. ‘squirting’) and how it relates to orgasm. (1:12:08) How orgasm and the release of oxytocin that comes with it causes women to get emotionally attached. (1:13:53) The concept of aftercare for sex and orgasm on a physical, emotional and psychological level. (1:17:42)   This was a very insightful conversation that Natasha and I had, and I learned so much! Share this episode with your network – I know a lot of people will find the things we tackled informative too.   If you're interested in any of the services Natasha is offering, you can check NatashaSalaash.com, NatashaSexCounseling.ca, and Body Sex Workshops.   Lastly, AdamAndEve.Com is offering an exclusive deal for The Intimate Lifestyle listeners. Get you 50% OFF and FREE SHIPPING on any one item! Just use the discount code SEXTALKS upon checkout.   Thoughts, suggestions, inquiries? Email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle [dot] com. Your feedback is highly appreciated to improve the show.   Remember to leave us a rating on iTunes.   And check out all the Sex Toys, Coaching, Courses and more at www.theintimatelifestyle.com/access.