Before we go straight to our conversation, I would like to remind everyone that Adam and Eve are offering FREE SHIPPING plus 50% OFF to the Intimate Lifestyle listeners. Use the exclusive coupon code SEXTALKS at checkout when you shop at adamandeve.com!   Now, get ready because this episode is about to get heavy. This conversation is so mind-blowing that I found myself at a loss for words at some points. A treasure trove of information and insights on the human psychology and sexuality awaits you as we have no less than Farzana Jaffer Jeraj to scratch the surface of this iceberg.   Farzana Jaffer Jeraj is a motivational speaker, coach, hypnosis trainer and best-selling author, among the many other hats she put on. Her career spans more than 20 years with a mission to help people realize their potential and achieve their goals.   Today, we talk about subconscious sexual communication, and if the term alone discombobulates you, Farzana aims to shed light on the subject. We delved into the link of our upbringing, how our parental figures communicated, and how these impact our communication styles when it comes to relationships and sex in adulthood.   Farzana aims to explain this complex subject in layman's term for more people to understand. Some of the topics that Farzana touched into and explained are:   What a coach was called before it was called a coach and which big-name provided her first training. (06:06) How cognitive neuroscience work to understand how thoughts, emotions, and behaviour, among others, are formed. (08:54) The link between hypnosis, emotional responses, communication styles, and our parental figures. (17:33) Children's hypnosis-ready state and how one's upbringing determines communication styles in their adult life. (22:02) The difference between extroverted and introverted communicators and how to identify them. (28:33) How the communication styles of the parents (or the lack of communication) affect their children's future sexual expression. (37:54; 47:43) Introversion and extroversion as it manifests in relationships and sex. (46:15) What is involved in Farzana's hypnotherapy programs and sessions. (50:37) People's various love languages and different expectations from relationships and sex. (57:51) How one's sexual expression isn't based on their gender but their upbringing. (1:03:10)   If you want to know more about Farzana and the services that she offers, connect with her through her website. Check out her  Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter as well for updates.   Also, if you want to get more in-depth information on the books Farzana and I have been discussing on this episode, they are available online. The books are The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin and Professional Hypnotism Manual by John Kappas.    Lastly, chime in the conversation - I want to hear your thoughts! Email me at ryan [at] theintimatelifestyle [dot] com. Until next time!   Remember to leave us a rating on iTunes.   And check out all the Sex Toys, Coaching, Courses and more at www.theintimatelifestyle.com/access.