Episodes
Have you ever stayed in a job for too long?  Hung onto a relationship way past the time it was fun and expansive?  Have you ever known you wanted to move but stayed in the same old house in the same old town even when it seemed to be draining energy from you? Knowing when to leave and actually taking the action to do so is difficult for most people.  For one thing, many people believe that longevity is considered a good and noble target.  What if all longevity does is to put people on auto...
Published 02/26/15
Have you ever been around an infant? Do they question their right to ask for what they want? Do they play small in hopes of disappearing into the background? Are they constantly berating themselves for getting it wrong? Of course not! All of that comes later after we buy into the idea of the inherent wrongness of us. What if you could return to that certainty of your younger self that KNEW you deserved to be who you were, ask for what you wanted and create the life you desired?  This show...
Published 02/05/15
What if everything you’ve ever heard about addiction and recovery was actually a myth or a lie?  What if addiction is not a disease, and those who choose it – yes choose it – are not bad, wrong, weak or powerless but simply lack accurate tools and information to deal with what’s going on in their lives? What if addiction covers much more than alcohol and drugs?  How much change would be created if more of what’s true about addiction and recovery were made known? Curious? Let’s explode all of...
Published 01/29/15
Do you believe you suffer from anxiety? Panic attacks? What if you and the doctors and everyone else who have labeled your symptoms as anxiety were not accurate? What if you have not been able to change the “anxiety” and it’s symptoms because it’s not anxiety at all, but something else? Remember, you can’t change something that is not what you’ve decided it is! Would you be willing to explore other possibilities? What might change if you looked at the information your symptoms were giving...
Published 01/22/15
Got the winter blues? Now that the holidays are over and credit cards are due, do gray days and the blahs seem to be the norm? Perhaps the holidays didn’t live up to your expectations. Do you think you’re depressed? What if something entirely different is going on? What if this is actually an opportunity to step into having and being more of you? Join us for a very different approach to the “mood” experience that’s often labeled as something bad that is best “fixed” with a pill. What if there...
Published 01/15/15
What’s money for anyway?  How do you view it?  Is it something evil here to tempt us to do ungodly things?  Have you ever used it to prove anything?  Is it a symbol of what you can’t have or your failure or even your success?  Is it a way for you to “do good”?  What if the purpose of money was none of those things?  What else could it be?  Join us for an interesting discussing as we unravel the lies around money and offer a totally different perspective. http://www.theirreverenttherapists.com 
Published 01/08/15
Does any of this sound familiar?  OK  – I’m going to lose 20 pounds, get my records and taxes in order, be nicer to my kids, start that new business, go back to school, etc. then you find yourself gorging yourself, while you watch TV and yell at your sons?  And then, of course, you have to judge yourself for all of that! What’s going on?  Are you really a no good slacker, or is there something else that you’ve put in the way to stop you?   Often we’ve erected barriers to change and success...
Published 01/01/15
What If YOU are the gift? The holiday season is upon us, and with it the pressure to buy everyone the perfect gift.  Did it ever occur to you that you might be a gift more precious than anything you could buy?  Does that sound totally silly, corny and crazy to you?  Are you doing an “Oh Please…….?” Most of us don’t have a clue as to who we really are and what contribution we make and can make. Come explore with us the possibility of the gift that each of us is and can be.  Hint – it’s not...
Published 12/25/14
Oh the weather outside is frightful, but it can’t compete with your family….Well maybe it’s not that bad, but do you find yourself changing or limiting yourself in any way to fit into the old traditions and roles of the holidays? Do you ever go into survival mode, maybe finding a few things you enjoy but basically waiting until it’s all over? What if you could thrive through the holidays? What if you could be you, have fun, choose from a different place and use the traditions and expectations...
Published 12/18/14
You get an idea, you get excited, then you think about how to put it into existence. Do you ask questions, allow things to shift and change, or do you become the ramrod that’s going to make this thing come out the way you’ve decided it should be? How often have you tried to force things into existence only to find that they blow up in your face or don’t turn out anything like you wanted it to? What if you changed your approach and were able to have more ease with better results? Is that...
Published 12/11/14
Can you get everything done twelve times faster than everyone else but you've learned that they just get angry so you've slowed yourself down?  Are you trying to fit yourself into the pace where most people function?  Does that really work for you? What if you embraced your capacity to move at the speed of space?  How much more fun could you have?  Join us for tips about how to get away with being as fast as you are, having more fun with it, and running rings around everyone!
Published 12/04/14
How Big Is the Armored Car You Are Driving? Are you driving a huge armored car complete with latest security system designed to let you know if anyone’s trying to get in? Is everything that matters to and about you under double lock and key? Do you have parts so hidden away for so long that you’ve perhaps forgotten about them? What if you could dismantle that armored car and simply walk away? What would your life be like if you allowed others to see you? What if you are a gift that the world...
Published 11/26/14
What’s Your Blind Spot? Are there places in your life that don’t seem to work, no matter what you do? Have you used logic, clearing feelings, therapy and everything else that you could think of to change this area without success? Could this be a blind spot that you closed that door on years ago but is somehow still affecting you? What if you had the tools and support to take a look at what’s been hidden for so long? Join us for a discussion about the choice to look at everything, no matter...
Published 11/20/14
What If You Didn’t Meet Other People’s Needs? How much of your life do you spend meeting other people’s needs? Have you, in fact, made that your life purpose? What would your life be like if you gave that up? Would you have to judge yourself as selfish and uncaring? What if saying “no” to other people’s needs could be a contribution to all involved? What if it created a space for everyone to have choice and be more honest with themselves? Join us for a conversation about the choice to say...
Published 11/05/14
Saving The Polar Bears Are you committed to saving the whales? The polar bears? The earth? Have you decided what that should look like? What if the whales and polar bears are smarter than you are and have their own ideas? What if the earth just needs to get rid of half of the population through natural disasters and plagues? Would that be OK? How has believing that humans are superior worked out for the planet and it’s other inhabitants? What if there is another way? What if we are looking at...
Published 10/22/14
What’s Hiding In Your Closet? (Or Under You Bed?) What’s that in the far corner under that pair of boots you’ve been meaning to give away? Is it something you’ve decided is too painful or shameful to deal with? Is some event in your past preventing you from being all that you can be? Have you stashed away a part of you that you’ve decided is too ugly to be seen? Is it possible that you’ve made your monsters much bigger and greater than they actually are? Here’s the thing – anything you are...
Published 10/15/14
What’s Up With Your Barriers? Do you have a fortress built around you? Are your barriers so thick that even the peep holes are closing in? Most of us consider ourselves to be pretty open, yet when people try to get too close, or invite us to real intimacy do you open yourself up the possibilities, or find an excuse to go away Do you have all of the intimacy with people your desire? Do you ever use phrases like “That doesn’t feel safe”? Join the Irreverent Therapists for a discussion of what’s...
Published 10/08/14
Therapy VS Access Consciousness – What are you looking for? Are you looking for a better adjustment to this reality? Would you just like to get your neurosis under control? Then therapy is for you! But – what if there were a different possibility? Would you be interested in creating beyond this reality? In walking away from the trauma/dramas, roles, rules and regulations into a space of real choice? Join us – two seasoned therapists and Access Consciousness® Certified Facilitators for a look...
Published 10/01/14
Would you like to have more choice in your relationships? Kick the knee jerk responses and the confusion about how to deal with others? What if you could come to a place of real choice with your relationships? Would you enjoy being in charge of how you respond in any given situation? We’ll give you tips and tools for working with others that put you ahead of the game!
Published 09/25/14
Who’s Got Your Back? Have you ever been blindsided by someone you thought was a friend? Perhaps it was your partner – the one you thought would be there for you? How is it that we allow ourselves to get duped by others? What does it take to know when someone really has your back? Are you willing to have your own back? What the heck does that mean anyway? Join us for an enlightening discussion. You may never be bamboozled by another again!
Published 09/17/14
It's A Mystery Have you made you and your life a mystery that you can't solve? Who are you anyway? You may discover there's more to you than you thought.
Published 09/11/14
What does vulnerability mean to you? That you are weak? That you’re going to get hurt? That the choice to be vulnerable is located somewhere between stupid and idiotic? What if just the opposite were true? What if the willingness to be vulnerable actually gave you enormous power and potency? Are you willing to be aware of a totally different possibility? Join us for a mind bending look at vulnerability.
Published 09/03/14
Do you find yourself taking responsibility for everything, especially if things aren’t going well? Like it’s raining – I’m so sorry – or the movie isn’t still playing – It’s all my fault – or you’re sick and can’t make dinner – It’s all my fault, I never should have stayed out late. What if you weren’t wrong? What if you didn’t have to judge yourself every minute of every day? Might that create more ease in your life? Can you even imagine a life with out judgment? Join the Irreverent...
Published 08/27/14
You’re an adult. You have a job, you maybe have a relationship, you do fun things with your peers. You are reasonable and in control. Then you go visit your family, or perhaps you just talk with your mom and dad and all of a sudden you revert to an angry, irritated reactive being somewhere between the ages of two and thirteen. Does that sound familiar? Isn’t it amazing what our family can do to us? There is a different way. What if you could come to a place of true choice with family? Join us...
Published 08/20/14