In this heartfelt conversation, Darren Hayes shares his journey from childhood trauma to international fame, as both the lead singer of Savage Garden, and as a solo artist. His new memoir 'Unlovable', gives us insight into the harrowing secrets and shame that plagued him throughout his life, and the fantasy world he created to escape in. Darren discusses his experience of domestic violence, his struggle with his sexuality, and the importance of self-love and healing. He reflects on the support he received from icons like Elton John and where he finds joy now. CONTENT WARNING: This conversation touches on family violence and homophobia. If this content raises any issues for you, help is available by contacting 1-800-RESPECT for a safe place to talk day and night or Lifeline on 13 11 14. Know someone who'd enjoy this episode?  Why not share it with them by tapping the 3 dots above ⬆︎ and passing it on LINKS: Learn more about Darren's memoir Unloveable Fill out our survey for the chance to win a $100 voucher here   If you loved this chat with Darren we think you'll love Jess's conversation with John Butler here If you love what we do, why not follow the show, and rate and review on Apple or Spotify CREDITS:Host: Jessica RoweGuests: Darren HayesExecutive Producer: Nic McClureProducer: Amy KimballAudio Producer: Chris Marsh Digital Content Producer: Zoe Panaretos The Jess Rowe Big Talk Show acknowledges the Gadigal people, Traditional Custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, and pay our respects to their Elders past, present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islanders peoples here today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.