This week in The Labia Lounge I interviewed Jessa Zimmerman, a specialist in helping couples who have different levels of desire in long term relationships. Jessa and I talk about desire discrepancy and how to overcome the challenges this can pose for a couple, the things that both partners often do that make it worse, and what to do when you're desire levels inevitably change to be different from one another. We tackle this most common of questions that couples counsellors and sex...

This extra special bit of juicy bonus content is a little bit different to our usual Lab Lounge eppies... As a special treat Hannah thought it'd be fun to interview me about my recent adventure attending my first ever sxx party so that we could get the full run down on this very novel and very interesting new experience! Hannah grills me on every little detail of the night from start to finish and it's a hilarious and fascinating insight into a secret world that most never get to...

This week in The Labia Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Jill from Sex Ed Princess about all sorts of juicy and not-so-juicy thangs! We cover boundaries, abusive relationships, how men can be better allies, the lack of societal support in addressing harmful behaviour from men, period cakes and unsolicited d pics! There's loads of great stuff in here as we share stories about our experiences being sxx educators and navigating the world of dating and sxx. Plus you can expect all the...

This week in The Lab Lounge I chat with Sarah Hester Ross, a musical comedian and hilarious singer songwriter about making it in a male-centric industry. We discuss the "boys club" culture of the comedy world, head pushing, Sarah's career journey using humour to tackle taboo and feminist topics, her religious upbringing and how this impacted her sex life, and we even make tentative plans to have a belated hoe phase in her sixties! I'd highly recommend checking out one of my faves of her...

This week on the C*NT COUCH I sat with April Davis from Haus of Vagina for some real talk about the things that're getting sand in our clams as sxx educators and feminist advocates. We discuss everything from faking O's and the menstrual cycle, to late stage abortion and maternal mortality rates. We also get pretty honest about the not-so-glamorous realities of trying to carve out a livelihood as a sxx educator in a suppressed, patriarchal society. Fun times! Plus you can expect all the usual...

This week on The Labia Lounge podcast I invited Ruby Warrington (the author of Women Without Kids - The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood) on to take a deep dive into the complexities of women's decisions surrounding motherhood. We explore the societal pressures, judgment, and stigma faced by women who choose not to become mothers, where they're either seen as sadly childless (insert: barren, infertile, unable to have children, lonely and purposeless) OR selfishly child-free (insert...

This week in The lounge I brought back on Dr. Jae West to chat about the erotic blueprints framework, created by Miss Jaiya (as seen on Sex, Love and Goop). We cover: the superpowers and shadows of each of the five blueprints why it's important to understand your unique and specific pathways to arousalwhat to do and how to navigate it when you and a partner have very different erotic blueprints and things that turn you onand how to enhance you intimacy and experiences between the sheets with...

This week on The Labia Lounge I brought in a darling friend of mine who frequents a gay sauna here in Melbs. We chat about his experiences there and with the common lack of consent in that environment, yarn about some hilarious stories, and some not so hilarious ones, and discuss what can be done in these situations when consent awareness isn't the standard and we have to fend for ourselves and do the educating on the fly. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n'...

This week in The Labia Lounge I host a darling guest, Tara Galeano, a certified sex therapist and author, to delve into the complex and often overlooked topic of sex and intimacy after a cancer diagnosis. Tara shares profound insights into the challenges that women face in rediscovering their bodies and pleasure after going through the physical and emotional trauma of cancer. From the impact of medical objectification to the importance of self-love and belief in deserving pleasure, we explore...

This week in The Labia Lounge I've got more chats from the legends at Esoteric music festival. We cover some meaty stuff in here so buckle up! This is the third and final installment of the Eso series, where you can look forward to hearing from a broad range of people about their unique experiences when it comes to everything from dick hygiene and sexy dressups, to power-sex moves and reformed F-boys. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal...

This week in The Labia Lounge I'm interviewing more festival goers who were brave enough to come and perch on the velvet p*ssy couch with me where we set up at Esoteric music festival. And wow, these conversations are ace! This eppy is the second installment of the Eso series, where you can look forward to hearing from a diverse range of people about their unique experiences when it comes to everything from faking 0rgasms and the fascinating realities of sxx work, to eating jizz and filming...

After taking a few weeks off to collect some of the juiciest content I could find for you, I've finally put together the 100th episode of The Labia Lounge! In this episode I'm interviewing festival goers who were brave enough to come and perch on the velvet p*ssy couch with me where we set up at Esoteric music festival. And wow, these conversations are epic! This week's eppy is just the first installment of the Eso series, where you can look forward to hearing from a diverse range of people...

This week in The Labia Lounge I invited Jessi Kneeland back to pull up a c**t cushion and get cosy with me on the Lounge. Our first episode together a couple of years ago is still one of my faves, so if you haven't check that out go have a listen! It's about Body Image and Body Neutrality and it's a ripper! This time we delved even deeper into an area that relates to that as we discussed how to be embrace ugliness and become intentionally repellant to the sort of people who are out to...

This week in The Labia Lounge I interviewed sexologist and men's sex coach Taylor Jonson about all things sexuality, self pleasure, erectile function, porn, communication and semen retention. We cover a lot of ground in this conversation and there's loads of value in here for anyone who wants to level up their sex lives and their ability to be a present and masterful lover in the bedroom! We discuss some common reasons why men come to work with Taylor and how he helps them to transform their...

This week in The Lounge we got talkin' about mushrooms! I had an incredible guest on - Mikaela AKA Mama de le Myco - who's conducting an open source study on mushrooms throughout the motherhood journey including pre-conception, pre-natal and post-natal. We talked about how magic mushrooms (psilocybin) and other entheogens can be used in families and motherhood, for healing and deep self work, and the personal experiences of Mikaela and all the mother's who've contributed their stories to her...

To wrap up the LIVE recordings from The Summer of Love festival the other week, today I'm releasing the biggest question I ask punters yet! "What do you think is missing from the average sexual encounter?" People had some cool stuff to say and I'm sure you'll get some insights into how to be a better lover yourself just through listening to this! Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my c**t if you'd leave a gushing review or five star...

This week on The Labia Lounge LIVE I asked festival goers "What is the most debaucherous thing you've ever done?" AND "What was your first segzual experience like?" Tune in to hear a whole array of answers and stories, plus some TMIs and even a Sandy Clam thrown in as a bonus! The sound isn't amazing in this one as the music was loud at the festival and I forgot a crucial piece of the recording tech as I'm still new at this live thang! So bear with me! Still a great listen though so give it a...

This week on the poddy we go LIVE again at a little day festival called Summer of Love, run by Culture Jam. It was a bit of a rainy old day but we made our Lounge space extra cosy and encouraged punters to take off their disposable ponchos and shake out their brollies and come on in to join us on the IRL vulva couch to have some real chats about all things segzzzz! In this installment of the live recordings I'm serving you up all the most embarrassing stories that my guests told me about....

This week in the Lounge I invited Manuele Paradiso onto the couch with me to chat about his area of expertise - men's intimacy. We discuss the barriers and blockages to conscious intimacy, the difference between true intimacy and segz, how these can overlap and how they often don't, how to bring more intimacy into your life and relationships, and ways to encourage and create deeper intimacy from your partner, especially if he's a man. In this conversation we redefine intimacy and delve into...

This week in The Lounge I had the pleasure of discussing vaginismus with Katrin from Vaginismus Sisters. We get stuck into some epic chats about why the body can start contracting against penetration and get stuck in pain patterns and protective, defense strategies such as occur in painful sex and vaginismus. We cover Katrin's pillars to overcoming vaginismus, how to talk to a partner about it and how partner's can best support someone with vaginismus. Among loads of other super valuable deep...

This week in The Labia Lounge I had Charna Cassell on to talk about all things sexual trauma and shame. Charna is an LMFT, and a Trauma-Trained Psychotherapist and Sexuality Coach who helps people heal, connect, and find pleasure in their bodies We discuss what constitutes sexual trauma, how it presents in our lives and bodies, the nuances behind the actual word 'trauma' and how it can be over-used, how sexual shame comes to effect us and live inside of us, how to overcome the crippling...

Holy labias! For The Labia Lounge's season 2 finale, this week's eppy is chock full of very entertaining and very relatable discussions live from Comfort Creek festival! PLUS we finally get to the bottom of the Bumble Guy Mystery! (Well, sort of...you lot can be the judge of that!) I loved having chats with a couple of really open and vulnerable men about things like romance, arousaI and being a SFB - Spiritual F*ck-Boy. You'll also get to hear the final instalment of the Bumble Guy saga and...

This is Part 2 of this extra special series of episodes featuring a bunch of interviews with festival goers of Comfort Creek festival where I set up a LIVE interactive version of The Labia Lounge for the first time ever! To celebrate 2 years of the podcast, I'm releasing this series in parts because I got so much ripper content from all the courageous guests who stopped by to join me on the Lounge and have a yarn during the festival. I ask some curly questions, get some hilarious stories,...

This extra special episode features a bunch of interviews with festival goers of Comfort Creek festival where I set up a LIVE interactive version of The Labia Lounge for the first time ever! To celebrate 2 years of the podcast, I'm releasing this series in parts because I got so much ripper content from all the courageous guests who stopped by to join me on the Lounge and have a yarn during the festival. I ask some curly questions, get some hilarious stories, and we even get embroiled in a...

This week in The Lounge I'm re-releasing an epic chat with the incredible Elena Rossi about female libido and all sorts of other unexpected and chunky topics! We tackle things like the factors that influence and impact desire, arousal patterns in female bods, differences in libido within a couple, fading libido in long term relationships, how society views low vs high libido and glorifies one kind of desire pattern, how we often mistake our unmet needs and trauma patterns as high or low...