This week in The Labia Lounge I reclined with Talia Koren from the Dating Intentionally podcast and chatted all things dating, dating apps, dating profiles, red flags, green flags, dating cringes, dating tips and slow burns. We talk about things like defining your needs, not settling, taking emotional risks, and handling rejection. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in...

This week on The Labia Lounge podcast I got to chat with Tara and EJ from Relationship Renovation about how to navigate differing libido and overcome challenges when there's a desire discrepancy in your long-term relationship. We discuss how to manage the dynamics in a relationship when one partner has lower libido and one partner has higher segzual desire. We cover how common - and in fact inevitable - this is, how to combat it when it happens to you, what the misconceptions and assumptions...

This week in The Labia Lounge I chat with Kiki Maree about the disgust response and how this impacts us in the bedroom. We discuss getting "the ick", whether this can be overcome and how to navigate feelings of repulsion towards a lover or partner. We cover what sort of things can trigger our disgust response and why, how sensory sensitivity can lead to our disgust response being activated more easily, and what to do when we feel grossed out or feel revulsion around g******s, fluids, smells,...

This week on The Labia Lounge I've got another unique one for you - a little different to my regular episodes - as I set up The Labia Lounge interactive space at a SOP party (Seccs on premises party). This is a huge episode full of PHAT and juicy chats with some of the lovely and interesting people who I met at this party! We cover people's different kinks, their experiences with play parties like this, why they love this community and lifestyle, and all sorts of fascinating stuff in this one...

This week in The Labia Lounge we're broadcasting from the bath again in the second installment of Tub Talks! (Trigger warning - this episode deals with SA) I chat with a my friend about her experience recently with one of her girlfriends accusing guys in their friendship group of segzual assauIt. It's a sticky situation and obviously very complex, but we discuss this, along with cults and large group experiences at tantric sexuality retreats, consent culture, and what you as a friend can do...

This follow-up episode is addressing some of the crunchier things that arose on the previous episode. If you haven't already listened to Tub Talks with Toey then this wont really make sense so I'd recommend going back and listening to that one first! This is an unusual format again for The Labia Lounge, where I cut together a series of voice memos that were swapped between my friend Chloe and I, as well as Toey and I about issues of racism and objectification that cropped up in the Tub Talks...

In this episode of The Labia Lounge I'm introducing a new format as a special treat - Welcome to the first ever installment of TUB TALKS! Enjoy a very raw and entertaining chat from the bath between myself and a close friend - who will remain anonymous since this one's particularly explicit and personal (absolutely NSFW)! We discuss my dear pal's first ever experience hiring a professional SW and touch upon topics of race, power dynamics, SW as real work, cannabis use, objectification,...

This week in The Labia Lounge I chatted with Dr Emily Splichal, a leading Functional Podiatrist and Human Movement Specialist. We discussed the link between feet and your pelvic floor, how foot health and the shoes you wear can impact your segz life and access to pleasure, why high heels are evil, and some simple tips and tricks for looking after your feet, posture and pelvis to optimise your nervous system and sensory integration. Emily is the Founder of EBFA Global, Creator of the Barefoot...

This week in The Labia Lounge I've invited my nearest and dearest, Hannah Demerise, back to be a sounding board for all my dating app gripes! It's an absolutely savage and no-holds-barred vent sess where I describe some things that really get my back up when I see them on men's dating profiles, to Hannah's amusement and horror. We also give a run down on the revolutionary new Burned Haystack Dating Method, created by Jennie Young from Word Case Scenario. Jennie - a wordsmith, badass, and...

This week in The Labia Lounge I hosted Danielle Bezalel from the sex-ed with DB podcast to chat about all things consent.. We dive deep into the complexities of consent culture and the impact of media on shaping segzual attitudes and experiences. We chat about the importance of obtaining clear consent, the nuances of communication and comfort in segzual interactions, and the impact of societal expectations on women and queer individuals in a segzual context. And we unpack the challenges of...

This week in The Labia Lounge I invited Cody Isabel from Mind Brain Body Lab to come on and give us a neuroscientist's perspective on toxic relationships, healing from trauma, and breaking free from abusive dynamics. We explore the tendency for people to intellectualize their traumas without experiencing significant progress in therapy. Cody emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and nurturing negative emotions while highlighting the concerns about reinforcing negative neural pathways....

This week on The Labia Lounge pod we're dishing up some intersectional insights as I have some thought-provoking conversations with guest and fat, black and queer activist, Milo Hartill, AKA That Fat Diva! We delve into the unspoken impact of internalized biases, such as fat phobia and racism. We explore the insidious nature of societal conditioning and the influence of media portrayal that contributes to the average mainstream person having some seriously messed up internalised prejudices....

This week on The Labia Lounge pod I got to chat with Anna Rahe from GTS Body about fascia and it's role in pleasure, health, and wellbeing. For the past 25+ years, Anna has delved deep into a liberating and empowering relationship with fascia so that as many people as possible can invest in their health, restore their vitality, and connect with their bodies. She speaks about holistic body care around the world and works with top athletes, surgeons, physicians, and celebrities (I'm not gonna...

This week in The Labia Lounge I'm serving you up an oldie but a goodie since I had some last minute podcast guest cancellations that meant I don't have a new episode for you this week! This chat with Rainier Wylde was a deep dive into shadow work within long term relationships and how to relate more authentically with others while being informed by your shadow. Rainier is a poet, a deliciously articulate speaker, and a romantic soul at heart, and I think you'll love this chat if you missed it...

This week on The Labia Lounge I chat with the world record holder for volume squiring, Lola Jean. Lola is also a fetish wrestler, pro domme and sex educator, with an incredible ability to squirt on cue and fill up literal jugs of the stuff! We discuss the myths and misconceptions about squirting, the pros and cons to being a squirter, helpful tips and techniques for teaching yourself how to squirt, and loads more about this highly fetishized bodily function. Lola shares some hilarious and...

This week on The Labia Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Madison Griffiths about the nuances surrounding the topic of abortion. We discuss some of the aspects of this experience that aren't often spoken about or acknowledged, and the factors that impact a person's decision making and experiences with abortion that are commonly misunderstood. We cover a whole host elements that Madison has written about in her incredible and acclaimed book, Tissue, including gender, language,...

This week in The Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Jody Day, the founder of Gateway Women and an advocate for childless women. She's an accomplished and incredibly poetic writer and I was lucky enough to get the scoop on the topic of her latest book, 'Living The Life Unexpected - How to find hope, meaning, and a fulfilling future without children.' Jody takes us on a profound journey through her life, sharing her experiences of navigating abortion, fertility challenges, marriage, and...

This week in The Labia Lounge we've got Eleanor Hadley back for Part 2 of our episode on The Art of Seduction. This week we've done a quickie for you about dirty talking, the different types of this and how to find your authentic style of bedroom talk, sexting, and how to take an artful nude. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge! Make sure you're...

In this episode of The Labia Lounge I chat with Eleanor Hadley about her body of work The Art of Seduction, and how to give an incredible and embodied lap dance. This is part 1 of a two part series where Eleanor schools us on how to use sensual and erotic movement, embodiment, and her five pillar framework to connect more deeply with yourself and lovers. We discuss how to overcome self consciousness and insecurities, build confidence, and be more authentically embodied and able to express...

This week in The Labia Lounge I had a faaaabulous and enlightening chat with Justine Ange Fonte, the writer and "thanks-but-no-thanks"-text-artist behind the community service account _good.byes_ where Justine writes the difficult texts you're stuck on and helps you navigate the sort of crunchy conversations that we all want to avoid to escape conflict or friction. Justine and I yarn about how to have healthy and kind boundaries, how to construct the perfect goodbye text when you're just not...

This week in The Lounge I invited Joanna Macmeikan back on to do a deep dive into UTIs and how t kick the super persistent, chronic or recurrent ones that are ruining your life! Joanna is a women's health and hormones specialist, registered TCM practitioner and all-round massive nerd, so she GREAT to talk to about this sort of thing because she leaves no stone unturned in her researching and is generally a wealth of knowledge. So I'm pretty lucky to get to pick her brains - as are you to...

This week in The Labia Lounge I chatted with intimacy expert to millions, Susan Bratton. We discuss some practical tips and strategies to make sure you have epic sex for the rest of your life and continue improving and building on your sensual practices way into old age. Susan is an expert sexual bio-hacker, and fearless and unapologetic sexplorer who doesn't believe you should ever give up on having great sex regardless of age. Check out her work and all her freebies mentioned in the episode...

This week on The Labia Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Kate who runs Virtue and Vice, an events company that've splashed onto the scene in recent times running play parties with a fresh take on the existing scene here in Melbourne. I went to my first ever play party run by Virtue and Vice recently and released a full episode where I talked about my experience in depth, and then, low and behold, Kate got in touch from the V & V and offered to come on for a yarn with me to give...

This special bonus eppy of The Labia Lounge is a really vulnerable, insightful and fascinating glimpse into the world of furries and the furry lifestyle from the perspective of a friend of mine who has decided to courageously "come out" as a furry and let me pick their brains about what that means for them. We cover all the predictable stuff you'd want to ask a furry about what goes on in the bedroom, what the appeal is and what about it turns them on. Plus you'll discover so many unexpected...