In this fly on the wall type of recording, join us for breakfast as we have normal, casual conversation. This was recorded during one of our amazing summer weekends as we hang under the gazebo as the sun shines and the birds chirp. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer....

I hosted a LIVE Q&A on SDC.com, the largest international swingers community. Listen in as I answer questions and thoughts of the participants. No question is off limits.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all...

I love summer shenanigans which happen to be naked shenanigans in the sun! What an incredible weekend full of laughs, sexiness, good friends and a whole lot of memories. I share my thoughts around our two single men, the communication between them both and the sexy play time we had.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down,...

Sometimes you just need to shoot the ish with your bestie.  In this two part episode, Jim and I talk all sorts of swinger topics from a personal standpoint. We focus alot on communication and the benefits it has when establishing rules and boundaries. We also discuss our growth, wants and desires within the Lifestyle overall. If there's a topic you'd like us to cover in more depth, email [email protected]    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907   RSVP to our Events :...

Sometimes you just need to shoot the ish with your bestie.  In this two part episode, Jim and I talk all sorts of swinger topics from a personal standpoint. We focus alot on communication and the benefits it has when establishing rules and boundaries. We also discuss our growth, wants and desires within the Lifestyle overall. If there's a topic you'd like us to cover in more depth, email [email protected]  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events :...

Are you having trouble getting noticed in the swingers lifestyle? Are you looking for some tips on how to stand out? Listen to this episode that was built by community discussion. Most of it sounds like a no brainer, but sometimes we need the basic how to guide to get us to where we want to be. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through...

Part 2 of our travel disaster with extra bonus footage of Spencer's phone calls while in the tow truck trying to figure out how to get us home. It's never a dull moment in our world, that's for sure. Getting stuck on the side of the road in a state we're not familiar with makes for very stressful situation. AAA couldn't help us which made things even worse! Listen as Spencer and I tell you all about it.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events :...

It's never a dull moment in our world, that's for sure. Getting stuck on the side of the road in a state we're not familiar with makes for very stressful situation. AAA couldn't help us which made things even worse! Listen as Spencer and I tell you all about it.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun...

Part 2: The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out at www.sexyswingerchic.net   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love...

The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out at www.sexyswingerchic.net   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love to talk...

Welcome to part two of Jim's journey navigating the lifestyle as a married man. This episode starts out discussing his birthday threesome proposition and how it lead to where they are within the swingers world today. As mentioned, he will be a permanent co-host throughout this season, so If you have any questions, let us know. [email protected]   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and...

Part 1 of 2: I am so excited to bring my bestie Jim on as a permanent co host throughout the next season of The Mizzy Bender Show.  You may remember him from some of the early episodes of the podcast. At this time, I think it is really important to start sharing the male perspective within the Swingers - Ethical Non Monogamy world and he is just the person to do it.  I wanted to start by sharing his journey so you can relate and understand his thoughts going forward. Make sure you tune in...

Trigger Podcast: I wasn't expecting this to be so emotional, but you always receive the true me, so here we are. I discuss the journey of my hysterectomy, my anxiety and where I am today. I hope you find comfort in my words if you are managing through difficult times. Please know, you are not alone.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk...

Are you trying to figure out how to navigate swinger - adult lifestyle dates? This is the episode for you! Listen is as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community while engaging back with the listeners.  There are some great starter tips that we should all keep in our swinging toolbox.   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Shamrocks & Shenanigans : www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is...

Kathy is a bad ass female who interviews alternative lifestyle humans who share their stories anonymously. I had the privilege of being a guest on Strictly Anonymous in 2023 as my true self and it was such an amazing experience. Now its Kathy's turn to share her journey on how her podcast began leading us all the way to current times.  She is such a captivating woman who is so open minded. When she speaks, you can't help but to listen.    To learn...

Last year I was thrilled to be a guest on Two Wolves in the Woods Podcast. Joey and Brenda are an amazing example of how to navigate, build and learn through various avenues of the alternative lifestyle. They are captivating, knowledgeable and fun to listen to due to their relationship chemistry.  They take us on their journey, sharing who introduced the conversation and where they are today.  To Learn More follow their social...

Listen to this ridiculous episode recorded with Spencer as we recap Winterland, our Swingers Lifestyle event from this past weekend. We laugh and get sassy, like we usually do as we wait to board the ferry. I also tried something new with this episode so I hope you like the way it all came together.   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Shamrocks & Shenanigans : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy...

Running a club comes with it's ups and downs, just like anything in life. When we have to say goodbye to something so close to our hearts, it hurts. But, there's always a reason and perspective. In this episode, we are going to talk through some of the thoughts and feelings that lead to the closing of the Paradise Club. This did get emotional at the end, so be gentle with your thoughts.    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Winterland:...

A previously posted podcast: The tale of two single men coming out of a recent event.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Winterland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from...

Are you trying to figure out how to introduce a new play partner or partner into the swingers lifestyle but not sure where to start? Listen in as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community through this live educational piece.    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Wonderland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life...

Listen to Mizzy Bender in the raw as she talks through a community submitted question in regards to body insecurities. We all have them, now lets hear the thoughts and perspectives on how to navigate them.    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Womderland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one...

Happy Holiday thoughts from Mizzy Bender.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year...

Mizzy Bender goes LIVE on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question:   "My wife and I are very new to LS. We’ve been discussing it for years. We had a G/G experience about 5/6y ago. This years Halloween party we had a single male experience. Both went amazing. What would you do or say to help my wife not be in her head about doing what I asked her to do? Also how did you know you were ready to try swing club? I want to attend even if it’s just to check out environment...

Coming out of an event weekend, Mizzy Bender has many thoughts that need to be heard.  Most of them are directed towards single men, but applies to everyone. Listen in to learn about the tale of the 2 single men and a community submitted question that all ties together.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Wonderland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in...

Listen to Mizzy Benders LIVE SDC/Facebook session, gaining a new perspective on "the couples we think are out of our league."  We zig zag all through the lifestyle sharing so many great points of view. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun...