Earlier this year, I hosted a LIVE open Q&A on SDC where anyone in the community can come and ask questions and conversate with other community members. Some of the topics include:  1. Single Men 2. Bi-Sexuality  3. Swinging Internationally 4. Penile Implants ...... and so much more! Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is...

Earlier this year, I hosted a LIVE open Q&A on SDC where anyone in the community can come and ask questions and conversate with other community members. Some of the topics include: Penis Size, Expectations and other kink related questions. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com  Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and...

Meet Alex, known as 2fresh_Pineapples on Instagram. She is a 27 year old young swinger who is passionate about spreading the good word of swinging and individuality. Her ideas and thoughts are strong! We discuss her journey, age differences, travel, being 420 friendly and so much more. You're going to want to keep your eye on this one!  Follow the link below: https://www.instagram.com/2fresh_pineapples?igsh=a3ZjaHB0Y294YTZt

Do you have trouble communicating your wants, needs and desires to your partner or your swingers lifestyle partner? Tune in for tips and thought starters on how to effectively follow your journey to living your most authentic self.  For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy...

The community thoughts and questions have been thriving lately. Today's listen includes pointers on the following three submitted thoughts: 1. I'm a married man who wants to swing, but my wife wants no part of it. What do I do? 2. What do you do if you see a co-worker at an event? 3. What kind of information would you share with someone attending an event for the first time. For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907   RSVP to our...

Do you and your partner have different play styles and aren't sure how to navigate it? Tune in as a behind the scenes listener to my LIVE session on SDC back in December of 2023. You'll pickup on pointers and though starters to navigate this conversation with your partner.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk...

In this episode, Gina, the beautiful mind behind Little Miss Nasty shares the journey into building this global, iconic brand. A snip it from their website:  Little Miss Nasty delivers an overwhelmingly powerful experience that inspires and defies genre because Little Miss Nasty IS the genre. You have permission to be your Nasty, authentic self! To attend a New York Show, use coupon code LMNMIZZY for 20% off tickes.  https://www.littlemissnastyofficial.com For behind the scenes event photos...

Spencer and I spend the morning in the hot tub recapping the activities for July. We share our thoughts on hosting our first swingers party 4th of July weekend on Long Island. We talk about my birthday bash in Rhode Island and some other fun adventures and parties.  For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between?...

Coming out of my birthday bash, it was really important for us to share the unacceptable behavior that transpired at the event. This is a triggering episode so please be aware.  For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has...

Are you looking into the swingers lifestyle but not sure the kinds of conversations to have? Listen to this podcast episode. It will help guide you. It will provide topics and ideas on how to navigate the beginning stages of an exiting journey of self discovery. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the...

In this episode, Jim and I talk through so much when it comes to group play in the swingers world. There are so many possibilities and the things to be aware of. I think this conversation is a good starter for those interested in exploring this play style. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the...

We're going international with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. I really enjoyed learning about Cate's background that lead to opening her events company. It keeps her busy by traveling and hosting all over the world. She shares the difficulties of launching right as the COVID-19 pandemic hit and all of her successes following.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and...

Another sassy hot tub conversation between myself and Spencer after returning from an amazing New Hampshire trip that took an unexpected turn. Tune for all the laughter then head over to my blog to see some of the photos and additional thoughts. RSVP to Mizzy's Birthday Bash : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the...

Jim and I really have no boundaries. In this episode we talk morning routines, travel discrepancies, work and overall life since seeing each other at Naughty in Neon in June. If there's a topic you'd like us to cover in more depth, email [email protected] or if you'd like more clarify, reach out!  For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:   Who doesn’t love to talk...

Updated 6.10.24 Heading into a Mindbender Halloween swingers event, learn all about Party at Scouts. Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won’t want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 37 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the LifeStyle...

My interview with Ms. Lady, owner of LWP Kink B&B. Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won’t want to miss. Mizzy Bender is a 37 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the LifeStyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with...

The Background:   It's been a long time coming. You've heard me talk about the composition and growth over a few years. Its now time for Ms. Lady owner of Ladies Wicked Playground and our favorite Mistress!   Through our the mini series, we will share the journey of our relationship including all the ups and downs, the good the bad, and all the naughty in between! All relationships take work and lots of communication. Ours is definitely much more complex and you'll begin to understand...

The Journey of Our Poly Swingers Relationship with Ms. Lady - Episode 2 Go easy on my editing skills. I'm trying to improve. It's been a long time coming. You've heard me talk about the composition and growth over a few years. Its now time for Ms. Lady owner of Ladies Wicked Playground and our favorite Mistress! Through our the mini series, we will share the journey of our relationship including all the ups and downs, the good the bad, and all the naughty in between! All relationships take...

We still have sooooo much more to go! Episodes 4 and 5 get complicated and real. Tune in every Thursday as Ms. Lady shares her story.   The Background:   It's been a long time coming. You've heard me talk about the composition and growth over a few years. Its now time for Ms. Lady owner of Ladies Wicked Playground and our favorite Mistress!   Through our the mini series, we will share the journey of our relationship including all the ups and downs, the good the bad, and all the...

Things get deep in this episode. Stick around as we continue every Thursday until we tell our whole story.   The Background:   It's been a long time coming. You've heard me talk about the composition and growth over a few years. Its now time for Ms. Lady owner of Ladies Wicked Playground and our favorite Mistress!   Through our the mini series, we will share the journey of our relationship including all the ups and downs, the good the bad, and all the naughty in between! All...

The Journey of Our Poly Swingers Relationship with Ms. Lady - Part 1 Go easy on my editing skills. I'm trying to improve. It's been a long time coming. You've heard me talk about the composition and growth over a few years. Its now time for Ms. Lady owner of Ladies Wicked Playground and our favorite Mistress! Through our the mini series, we will share the journey of our relationship including all the ups and downs, the good the bad, and all the naughty in between! All relationships take work...

We begin this episode learning about how Sara navigating the bold question of becoming exclusive and pregnant. Sara explains her point of view about the show entirely and the potential after math that it could impact her day to day life.  patreon.com/Mizzybender   RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy...

In part one Sara shares her journey around her sexuality which ultimately lead her to exploring the swingers lifestyle. An opportunity presented itself to be part of the reality tv show Seeking Sister Wives on TLC. Let's dive into the fascinating journey of the lifestyle on reality tv! Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here...

Spencer and I start the morning bantering in the hot tub. We share all the shenanigans that have been going on throughout the month of June. I dive into wanting to explore hot wife scenarios and more.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer....