In this compelling episode, Chelsea sits down with Licensed Clinical Therapist Lauren LaRusso, who brings both her professional expertise and personal experience to the table. Specializing in affairs and infidelity, Lauren opens up about her own journey as a betrayed spouse after her husband's affair. This conversation is truly unique in its dynamic between Lauren, a betrayed spouse, and Chelsea, "the other woman." Offering a rare and dynamic perspective on healing, forgiveness, and...

In this episode, Chelsea interviews Lindsey, who shares her deeply personal experience with infidelity. She discusses how her life changed when she realized she had found safety and a sense of “home” with someone who wasn’t her husband. Lindsey opens up about the emotional struggles of divorce and what it took to rebuild her life with her affair partner. A story of vulnerability and transformation, Lindsey’s journey sheds light on finding oneself amid heartache. SUBMIT YOUR OWN...

We’re back from summer break, and we have some exciting news! Joining our team here this season at The Other Woman and The Wife is a special guest Luke Shillings. Luke is stepping in to help us expand our reach to not just include women but men as well as we grow and develop The Other Man and The Mister community. In this episode, we explore complex topics surrounding a men’s community, relationships, and the delicate issue of infidelity. Together, we dive deep into the emotional landscapes...

How does a woman who is self described as "the most unlikely candidate to cheat" find herself in an affair? An affair that leaves her reeling and conflicted with a temptation to cheat again no less. Join Chelsea and Ann Marie as they candidly share their reactions, thoughts, and insights about this very situation. If you would like to entrust us with your own story and have it shared on the podcast please leave it in the comments or better yet visit the link below and submit it on our...

In this week’s episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into the topic of disclosing your affair verses waiting for it to be discovered. The discussion weighs the merits of voluntary disclosure against the potential trauma of a partner finding out about the affair independently.   Topics: Weighing Discovery Against DisclosureSteps to Prepare for Revealing an AffairEvaluating the Necessity of Revealing an Affair ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our...

In this week's episode, Ann Marie and Chelsea dive into the concept of limerence and its role in infidelity. They discuss how the limerence narrative can limit self-growth by offering overly simplistic explanations, and examine its impact on addressing the root causes of affairs. Finally, they challenge the labels associated with limerence, suggesting it be viewed as a facet of human emotion rather than an addiction. Topics: LimerenceInfidelityRelationship Dynamics ASK US A QUESTION We answer...

In this weeks episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into "Gangster Gate," where a group of women doxed members of Chelsea's online community. They explore the dramatic events and their fallout. Chelsea shares her experience and the valuable lessons learned from this challenging situation. They also discuss the struggles and triumphs of building a controversial business from scratch, driven by passion and purpose, despite facing skepticism and opposition. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions...

In this week's episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the complex motivations behind infidelity by defining and distinguishing between "painkiller" and "refuge" affairs. By facing past traumas and recognizing unhealthy patterns, they discuss how addressing the root causes of infidelity can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Join us for an insightful discussion on the nuanced reasons behind why people seek affairs and how to move forward in a constructive way. ASK US A...

In this weeks very special episode we are joined on the podcast by non other than Chelsea's husband, Stan. Join them as they discuss the intricate terrain of love, resilience, and personal growth after partaking in an affair. From Stan's immigrant roots to the complexities of their relationship dynamics, they offer raw honesty and shared wisdom, illuminating the transformative power of commitment amidst adversity. Through candid reflections on overcoming challenges, rebuilding trust, and the...

In this thought-provoking episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve deep into the often overlooked aspect of motherhood: the mother's own happiness and well-being. Join us as we explore the tendency for mothers to prioritize their children's experiences over their own, the societal expectations placed upon mothers, and the impact of relationships, like marriage, on a woman's happiness.  Join us as we celebrate the multifaceted journey of motherhood, encouraging mothers everywhere to nurture their...

Episode Description: This week Chelsea is joined in the studio with a special guest, Grace. They delve into the intricate layers of Grace's life, where she candidly shares her journey through a decades-spanning marriage. Discover the profound impact of infidelity on Grace's life, as she opens up about her 20-year affair with her brother-in-law, unraveling the tangled web of emotions, guilt, and longing. In this episode, we confront the uncomfortable truths of marital discord, the allure of...

This week Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the concept of opportunity cost in relationships, emphasizing the human tendency to prioritize external factors like financial stability and social standing over personal well-being and growth. They discuss how pro's and con's lists can lead to analysis paralysis, hindering individual growth within relationships. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women...

In this week's episode, Chelsea & Ann Marie embark on an exploration of how marriage, infidelity, motherhood and many other factors transformed the way they viewed the world. Dispelling common misconceptions along the way, they bravely share their experiences of embracing new mindsets. As they reflect on the transformative power of flexibility over rigidity, listeners are invited to join them on a candid and thought-provoking journey. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other...

In this weeks episode join us for a thought-provoking exploration of boundaries, self-care, and the profound impact they have on the fabric of our relationships. Get ready to embark on a journey of empowerment and connection as we navigate the intricate terrain of setting healthy boundaries. Topics: Distinguishing boundaries from ultimatums.Understanding self-abandonment.Empowerment through boundaries.Comprehensive ways to model boundaries and why it's impactful. ASK US A QUESTION We answer...

Chelsea reacts to her own guest appearance on an episode of Jubilee centered around infidelity. Join Chelsea as she pulls back the curtain on this experience and talks about what it was really like on this set. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for 1:1 Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

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Chelsea & Kristin discuss infidelity, the essence of love, societal expectations of relationships, and the concept of soulmates or twin flames. Rather than sticking to societal norms, they emphasize the paramount significance of cultivating self-love, seeking internal validation and nurturing genuine self-understanding. They explore the idea that one's relationship with oneself sets the foundation for their relationships with others. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women...

Marty shares his complex journey about an emotional affair he had while being married for 20 years. He details his struggle with balancing his love for his wife and the feelings for his affair partner, while also dealing with personal growth and realization. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for 1:1 Coaching OUR...

In this episode of The Other Woman and a Wife, host Chelsea is joined by minister Jamie to discuss the topic of infidelity and why women often find themselves in competition with one another. They explore how societal expectations and upbringing shape women's perception of themselves in relation to men, the importance of passion in relationships, and the complexities of reconciling after infidelity. Jamie shares valuable insights on love, the difference between being in love with the idea of...

Get 10% off your first month of talk-therapy with BetterHelp using the link: https://betterhelp.com/theotherwoman ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

Get 10% off your first month of talk-therapy with BetterHelp using the link: https://betterhelp.com/theotherwoman Description: Katie shares her story of growing up in dysfunctional families, dealing with emotionally unstable parents, and the trauma these experiences have inflicted on her. Katie extensively shares her childhood experiences, detailing how her parents' unhappy marriage and subsequent divorce shaped her. Katie discusses the lessons she's drawn from these experiences, as well as...

Get 10% off your first month of talk-therapy with BetterHelp using the link: https://betterhelp.com/theotherwoman Description: Romi Cumes is a leading professional in somatic and relational psychotherapy, bodywork, yoga instruction, and intuitive healing. She supports people to explore the profound relationship between somatic (body-centered) awareness, inner-healing and personal growth.  In this episode Romi shares her professional & personal opinion on the topic of infidelity covering...

Dave Capozzi is a former evangelical pastor turned teacher. Dave shares his personal experiences with infidelity, including unexpected proposals and accusations. Chelsea and Dave explore deconstruction, the challenges of marriage within the confines of religion, and the importance of trauma-informed care. Topics Personal Experiences with InfidelityThe Impact of Marriage and ExpectationsThe Decision to leave marriageThe Process of DeconstructionImportance of Trauma-Informed Care Dave's...