Nothing kills a sex party like a pandemic.  Just ask Fatima Mechtab, who knows her way around an orgy.  She’s done what most people have done in the last few months….she’s improvised.  And she’s like most people who have to work from home, so have her sex parties.   What does a virtual sex party look like?  How can … Continue reading "Fatima and the Virtual Sex Party"

Is the idea of the traditional relationship dead?  If you talk to relationship coach Effy Blue, the answer is maybe.  This episode was originally going to be about the world of polyandry… but it became about something bigger. Why are non-traditional relationships so appealing to so many people?  And how are people able to make relationships … Continue reading "Effy Blue and Non-Monogamy"

Imagine having a baby with someone that you weren’t in a romantic relationship with?  It’s the very definition of a modern family, right? On this episode, Hilary and Sandra talk to Ivan Fatovic.  He’s the founder/CEO of a company called Modamily.  They match people who want a family…but not necessarily the romantic relationship that comes … Continue reading "Modamily, a family with or without romance"

Madelyn Fabray is  smart, educated,  beautiful and the mother of one. She also gets paid by men to be  their companion. Sometimes for one night, sometimes for much longer. On this episode of the podcast, we talk to world class luxury companion Madelyn Fabray. What’s it like to be paid for sex and companionship?  What … Continue reading "Madelyn the ‘World Class” Companion"

How comfortable do you feel walking into a sex store?  Imagine what it’s like if you are in the LGBTQ+ community and you don’t feel represented.  On this final (and slightly late) Pride episode of the podcast, Hilary and Sandra talk to Sam Whittle.  She’s a sex educator and therapist and owner of Venus Envy Ottawa. We … Continue reading "Sam Whittle and Her Queer Friendly Sex Toys"

He’s known as Tranpa in the trans community. But Buck Angel wears a lot of hats. He’s a porn actor, sex educator, motivational speaker and he also happened to be born female.   He’s the first to admit that he doesn’t speak for the trans community but he certainly doesn’t shy away from an honest conversation.  On this special … Continue reading "PRIDE: Buck Angel"

Happy Pride  This month, THE QUICK AND THE DIRTY PODCAST is celebrating Pride Month with some really special guests. On this episode Hilary and Sandra talk to one of Calgary’s most well known drag kings, Duke Carson. What a great story he has to tell.   From becoming a drag king, exploring his masculinity and how … Continue reading "PRIDE: Drag King Duke Carson"

When you see an older guy dating a younger woman what do you think?  We all have a preconceived idea of what is really going on in that relationship.  Is it a mid life crisis?  Does she have daddy issues?  Is he just looking for a trophy wife? On this episode, Hilary and Sandra talk … Continue reading "The Older Man & The Younger Woman"

Relationships can be challenging in the best of times.  But what trying to keep your relationship strong during a pandemic… when you aren’t living together?  How do you keep it fresh and sexy? On this episode, Hilary and Sandra welcome returning guest and cam girl Curvy J.  She knows a thing or two about the … Continue reading "The Art of Video Sex"

If you’re online dating, you might find it challenging to find a real connection with someone during regular times…so is it even possible to find love during a pandemic?  On this episode of the podcast we welcome Chelsea Sauve.  She’s the co-founder of the innovative dating app Wandure and says they have come up with … Continue reading "Online Pandemic Dating"

Do you dye your hair because the thought of going grey horrifies you?  More importantly, have you ever asked yourself why going grey horrifies you in the first place?   Your answer may have changed since the outbreak of the coronavirus.  Let’s be honest, self isolation has changed the grey game for a lot of … Continue reading "Gorgeous Grey Movement"

What is an Isolationship? It’s the new term to describe your self isolation relationship during the coronavirus pandemic.  Most of us probably never thought that the person we chose as our partner could end up being our quarantine buddy… and that isn’t always a good thing in some cases. On this episode, Hilary and Sandra … Continue reading "Isolationships: Will Yours Survive? w/ Dr. Carlen Costa"

What is your definition of a man whore?  Because comedian Billy Procida has been called one more than once.  Ultimately he decided to start a podcast called THE MANWHORE PODCAST to try and figure out why some women would sleep with him, but wouldn’t date him. Is there such a thing as being undateable? He … Continue reading "Billy Procida is not a Man Whore"

Do you know someone who has opted out of being in a relationship?  On this episode Hilary and Sandra talk to Kimothy Walker.  She’s a former TV News reporter, journalist, and  high profile business woman in Ottawa. You’d think it would be easy for an empowered woman to find a mate.  Well…..not if you don”t want one.  She explains why she is opting out of the dating world and why many women in their 50’s would rather be alone than in relationships.

Don’t we all have at least one sweet memory of music and sex?  Or maybe it wasn’t so sweet.  On this episode, Hilary and Sandra welcome Chris Biggs, the cohost of the Biggs and Barr Show from 106.1 Chez in Ottawa. In one of their most hilarious conversations, they talk about how music has shaped so many of their  sexual memories. Think Genuine …and even Frank Zappa.

She’s a clinical sexologist and a relationship coach, and she’s the author of the book “Erotic Integrity.”  On this episode, Hilary and Sandra welcome Dr Claudia Six.  She explains how being true to yourself sexually is so important in every healthy relationship.  And if you are looking for the right partner,  you might want to consider making a list! If you want to learn more about erotic integrity and find out if you have it, take the quiz HERE.

What is a sex addict?  Do you think that it’s even a real thing? Anyone who’s struggled with a sex addiction will tell you not only is it real, but it has real life consequences.On this episode of podcast, Hilary and Sandra talk to self-described sex addict and host of the Pornified podcast Chris Behnisch.

If you’ve ever been pregnant or thought about having a child, chances are you know what a doula is. They provide emotional support for people who are in various stages of pregnancy. They even help expectant moms and new moms deal with all those feelings of insecurity (especially when it comes to all those other judgy moms). But did you know that a doula does so much more including services surrounding abortion, surrogacy and even adoption? On this episode of the podcast, Hilary and...

Imagine how hard it would be if you had a partner that was struggling with addiction.  Now imagine what it would be like if you were actually an addiction coach and married to a junkie. What are the odds?   On this episode, Hilary and Sandra talk to Dr Cali Estes.  She’s an addiction and yes she was married to junkie.   She and her husband Tim Estes wrote the book “MARRIED A JUNKIE- PUT TO THE ULTIMATE TEST BY ADDICTION LOVE AND LIFE”.     She talks about how she found out her husband was...

Do you know what tantric sex is?  Most people heard about for the first time 20 years ago,  when lead singer of The Police, Sting, famously talked about having sex with his wife for 7 hours. Is that kind of mind-blowing sex even possible for everyone else? On this episode, Hilary and Sandra talk to tantra and intimacy coach Heidi Leoppky.  She is the founder of Shamaya Tantra and tells all about the lifestyle. From eye gazing to breathing, she gets into tantra techniques — including the...

How many myths do you think exist about the vagina? You’d be surprised how many there are. This week, Hilary and Sandra welcome Dr Jen Gunter on the podcast. She is an OBGYN, a health columnist, the host of “Jensplaining” and the author of THE VAGINA BIBLE. A lot of people are talking about this book because it is considered the ultimate guide to everything you need to know about the vagina and vulva. But it also tackles the myths surrounding vaginas, and why they even exist. Oh yes,...

You really learn a lot about a person when you hear how they lost their virginity.  On this episode, Hilary and Sandra find out for the first time how each other lost their VCard.They also welcome radio colleague Wendy Boomer and Q&D listener Lee Williams to talk about their first time. Sometimes there's love, sometimes there's laughter, sometimes there's tears. Spoiler: Alcohol seemed to be a common thread in all their stories.

Did you know that 1 in 4 women have experienced domestic violence in Canada?  On this episode of the Quick and the Dirty Podcast, Hilary and Sandra welcome Executive Director of Lanark County Interval House Erin Lee, and survivor advocate Leah Adams.  Yes, this is a difficult conversation. But it needs to happen, and more often. We discuss patterns of abuse, love bombing, and shame. We also discuss what you should do if you or someone you know are in an abusive relationship.

Do you know what a Japanese Love Hotel is?   There are over 10,000 in Japan... and now there is one in Canada.  On this episode we talk to Priscilla Tang. She is one of the founders of the Tokyo Love Hotel that opened in Toronto recently.So what is a Love Hotel? And how is it different than a No Tell Motel? And let’s talk about the people that rent these rooms.  Yes, some are cheaters who are looking for a discreet location. But you’d be surprised who else is checking in!

You’ve probably heard a lot of stories involving men behaving poorly in the workplace, especially in the wake of #MeToo and #TimesUp. But what happens if it’s a woman behaving badly? Katy Perry was recently accused of sexual misconduct. Are we treating women the same way we’re treating men facing similar accusations? This week on The Quick & They Dirty, Hilary and Sandra welcome Karen Brownrigg, the CEO of IHR Advisory Services.  She’s seen it all in the HR world. She says there are just...