Goodbyes are never easy. On this episode of the podcast, Hilary and Sandra say goodbye to over 4 years of The Quick and The Dirty. It has been an absolutely phenomenal ride, but they’ve decided to hang up their podcast mics. Thank you for listening to our little sex and relationships podcast. It has

Open and honest conversations are our favourite. On this episode of the podcast, Hilary and Sandra welcome Rita O’Link. Rita was born a man, and in her early 50’s transitioned. Her marriage of over 30 years ended sadly, she was ostracized from her church, and lost many other relationships. Yet Rita talks about the lessons she’s learned, the importance of living your authentic life and how religion continues to be a big part of that….She also shares her one big regret.

So you’re in a bad marriage. You have a few options, either get a divorce or try to work through it. This week’s guest on the podcast, Ashleigh Renard decided to write a book about it called “ Swing: A Memoir of Doing it All”. She covers everything from their decisions to try swinging to spice things up, to finding their path to understanding. She talks about how she ended up making the choices that she did about her marriage, and the work it took to get there.

It’s not easy being single during a pandemic.  Just ask MaryAnne Ivison.  She’s a former radio host and a friend of Hilary and Sandra’s.  On this episode she opens about the realities of being single and living alone in a pandemic, and trying to have a dating life. She talks about how important it is … Continue reading "Pandemic Dating and Beyond with MaryAnne Ivison"

Have you ever thought of relationships as a science?  Maybe it’s time that we all did.  On this episode, Hilary and Sandra welcome Logan Ury.  She is the director of Relationship Science at Hinge and the author of How Not To Die Alone. They talk about pandemic dating and how we are going to get … Continue reading "The Science of Dating With Logan Ury from Hinge"

Have you ever had a fantasy of being watched while having sex?  Some might call it exhibitionism.  On this episode of the podcast, Hilary and Sandra talk to Becca. She wouldn’t necessarily call herself an exhibitionist…but she does like to be watched by other people while having sex with her husband.  She describes how important … Continue reading "Becca the Exhibitionist"

What is your sleeping situation with your partner?  By now you’ve probably heard of The Sleep Divorce and why many couples say it’s a game changer.   On this episode of the QATDP Hilary and Sandra talk to renowned clinical sex and relationship expert Sue McGarvie.  Is a sleep divorce really a relationship saver, or … Continue reading "The Sleep Divorce"

Breakups are something that Hilary and Sandra talk about all the time on the Quick and the Dirty Podcast.  On this episode, Sandra shares some personal news and talks about the breakup of her longtime marriage.  They welcome one of their favourite guests Dr Carlen Costa who helps navigate the process. She is a Clinical Sexologist, Psychotherapist & best-selling Author of … Continue reading "Sandra’s Big Breakup"

Have you ever heard the expression “Platonic Intimacy?” If you listen to Chunky Coyote: A Couple’s Podcast, you might be aware.  On this episode of the Quick and the Dirty Podcast, Hilary and Sandra welcome the hosts of Chunky Coyote, Sierra and Caroline.  They talk about the evolution of their friendship and how they’ve evolved … Continue reading "Platonic Intimacy with Chunky Coyote"

The last thing you want to want to associate with sex is pain. Yet so many women experience it on a regular basis.  On this episode Hilary and Sandra talk to Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist Yolanda Tsang. This conversation covers so many women’s pelvic issues from childbirth, to sexual trauma, to menopause, and incontinence. Find Yolanda … Continue reading "Sex & Pain"

How comfortable are you being uncomfortable?  If you talk to Kate Goora Fried, being uncomfortable isn’t necessarily a bad thing.  In fact, it’s a very good thing.  She’s a certified disruption coach and believes that growth comes from a very uncomfortable place. She talks with Hilary and Sandra about everything….. from jealousy to honesty to … Continue reading "The Disruptor"

Have you ever wondered why cheaters cheat?  It’s not like it’s a new thing. Cheating has been going on since the beginning of time.  But what would it be like to get into the brain of a cheater?  On this episode of the podcast Hilary and Sandra talk to “Al”. No, that’s not his real … Continue reading "Al the Serial Cheater"

Imagine spending 4 years trying to start a family.  IVF, IUI… you name it.  And finally, the day comes that you discover you are pregnant.  Beaming with excitement, you tell your husband and a short time later he declares that he no longer wants to be involved. That is the heartbreaking story of Shannon Spencer. … Continue reading "Infertility, Infidelity and the Joy of Single Motherhood"

Her name is Becca Atkinson and in September she told the world that she was an alcoholic.  Since that time she’s started a podcast called THE UNASHAMED ALCOHOLIC and has been openly talking about her battle with the bottle. It’s a battle a lot of people may be struggling with, especially during a pandemic.  At … Continue reading "Becca- The Unashamed Alcoholic"

Marci Warhaft has quite a story to tell.  In fact, it’s such a big story that she wrote a memoir! The Good Stripper is about her journey from young woman, to married woman, to warrior woman… and yes, it’s even about that time she became a stripper.  She eventually fought her way back and has … Continue reading "The Good Stripper"

It’s been a memorable year on the Quick and the Dirty Podcast. Who knew that it would get even dirtier during a pandemic? Hilary and Sandra take a look back at their most memorable guests of the year: from the world-class luxury companion to a cuckold they found on Fet Life, to a shocking moment … Continue reading "The Top Six-(ty-nine) Most Memorable Moments Of 2020"

What does sexual wellness mean to you?  It’s a pretty big question, and one that the people at PornHub think really matters.  I mean, afterall, sex is their business.   On this episode, Hilary and Sandra talk to the Director of Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Centre Dr Laurie Betito. She talks about sex as entertainment, and … Continue reading "Pornhub Sexual Wellness with Dr. Laurie"

When you think about plastic surgery or intimate cosmetic procedures you probably think about the porn industry, but we learn from Dr. Erin Lovett that it’s really more about sexual health and wellbeing.   Dr. Erin is an OBGYN with a typical practice delivering babies, who also works out of a clinic called Yazdani Aesthetics in … Continue reading "Intimate Aesthetics with Dr Erin Lovett"

If you’re single,  you know that  it’s not easy out there.  You don’t have to tell that to Jami Styan. The 29 year old supply teacher is looking for love, and has taken her quest to a new level. In fact, she’s currently taking applications on her website www.datejami.com On this episode she talks to … Continue reading "Date Jami"

Do you think you would know if you were being targeted by a scammer?  Most people would say yes….including Sherry.  Yet she lost $20,000 to a man pretending to be in love with her.  On this episode of the podcast Hilary and Sandra talk to Sherry about the sophisticated world of   catfishing.  She tells … Continue reading "Sherry Got Catfished"

He’s not just any nudist.  Matt is a Top Notch Nudist. He caught Hilary and Sandra’s attention when he followed them on social media.  Kind of hard not to notice a naked guy. On this episode, Hilary and Sandra talk to Matt about the nudist lifestyle, why he loves being naked so much… and why … Continue reading "Top Notch Nudist – Matt"

Jeff likes to watch.  He is a self-described cuckold who likes to watch the women he’s dating have sex with other men. On this episode, Hilary and Sandra talk to Jeff about the psychology of the cuckold. Why does he like watching his partner with other men so much?   Most men would find it … Continue reading "Jeff The Cuckold"

Prabjot Sirra used to go to high school with Hilary.  They haven’t really seen each other in over 20 years until recently when he released a very compelling video where he came out as gay.   That’s not really a big deal in 2020.  But it is when you are a member of a very … Continue reading "Prabjot and Coming Out Sikh"

Ginger Lynn  is considered to be one of the greatest  porn stars of them all.  She hit the scene in the 1980s and became a star almost instantly. On this episode of the podcast, Hilary and Sandra have a conversation with the legendary Ginger Lynn.  She talks about her evolution in the porn industry, how … Continue reading "Porn Star Ginger Lynn on Worshiping the Wiener."