As heart-breaking as it is, if you’ve been in the rare disease community for long enough, you probably know someone, maybe even someone close to you, who has lost a child. And because that potential reality looms large for so many of us, this loss can affect us as well. In this episode, Rose Watson, whose daughter Lavender has Trisomy 18, joins me to discuss her experience of maintaining a relationship with a friend who lost a child and how that experience impacted her and her friend individually. We also share thoughts from parents who have lost children on how they would like to be supported by their community (spoiler alert: don’t forget about their child or act like their child never existed), and finally we discuss the way deaths in the community reach far beyond just the families of these children. This is a tender episode you cannot miss, and it was made possible by our generous sponsor Moog Medical. They are so dedicated to our children with medical complexity that they've created an entire Feeding Pump Guide to share with anyone who cares for your child to help operate and troubleshoot your Infinity pump. Links: Grab your copy of Moog’s Caregiver Feeding Pump Guide to keep on hand for nurses, family, or maybe even yourself!   Listen to our episodes on child loss and grief, Ep 130 on anticipatory grief, Ep 134 on Child Loss 101, and Ep 137 on life after child loss. Follow Rose on Instagram @little.miss.seamstress! Follow us on Instagram @the_rare_life! Donate to the podcast or Contact me about sponsoring an episode. Fill out our contact form to get a reminder about upcoming discussion meetings and the Skype link to join! Follow the Facebook page. Join the Facebook group Parents of Children with Rare Conditions. Access the transcript on the website here. And if you love this podcast, please leave us a rating or review in your favorite podcast app!