Do you actually like him or is it just aesthetic and/or platonic attraction? Are half of young people actually bi? In this episode of the virgin & the bees podcast, we take a look at some research on and our own experiences of compulsory heterosexuality and bi erasure. Our guest Darcy Bate first shares her story of how she came to know she was a lesbian after years of unknowingly navigating comp het. We then discuss what it means to be bisexual, how many people's sexual orientations are erased, different types of attraction, and the growing prevalence of young people identifying as some type of bisexual! You can watch a video version of this podcast on YouTube (channel name: Zareena Evelina) and find resources and studies/surveys mentioned in the video description.  The podcast is now on Instagram! Find us @thevirginandthebeespodcast. You can find our guest Darcy on IG @gingerladyb8 and host Zareena @zareenaevelina.