Katy and Jenn chat about the TBU stance on adoption and foster care, whether or not a single mom should pursue dating, the SNL skit about gay men trying to have a baby and more. Is Them Before Us anti-adoption/foster care? Katy's thoughts on the SNL skit about gay men "trying to have a baby." How has Big Fertility (ivf, surrogacy, etc) gotten away with not having the same standards as adoption? What's the difference between surrogacy and adoption when a child loses birth mom in both? Should a single mom be trying to force a relationship with her child's bio dad, stay single, or try dating? Should step-parents adopt their stepchildren when bio parent isn't in the picture?