Episodes
EP:118 Today I'm so excited to introduce you to one of my beloved coaches, Maria Gonzalez. Maria's journey through our Thrive program has been truly transformative - from struggling to find her identity as a stay-at-home mom, to making incredible lifestyle changes and becoming the best version of herself.
Hearing Maria share her raw, vulnerable experiences and how this work has impacted her family is so inspiring. I'm honored to have her supporting our Thrive clients now, using her own story...
Published 12/06/24
EP:117 Hey there! đ In this episode, Iâm diving into a topic I know so many of us can relate to: why certain noisesâlike our kidsâ whiningâfeel SO triggering.
I share my personal experience with my colicky, high-needs son, Charlie, and unpack the science behind why those infant and toddler sounds can activate our brains, even as our kids grow. From our codependent bond to our brainâs âfix-itâ mode, this episode is all about understanding these triggers and learning how to navigate them with...
Published 11/29/24
EP: 116 As a parent, understanding your child's sensory profile is crucial for providing the right support and creating a harmonious home environment. In this episode of the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I'm diving deep into the complexities of sensory behaviors and how they can impact both you and your little ones.
Too often, we pigeonhole our kids (and ourselves) into simplistic categories like "seeker" or "avoider." But the reality is, our sensory needs exist on a spectrum, and we can...
Published 11/22/24
EP:115 On this weekâs episode join me to dive into a bigger conversation about something thatâs not talked about nearly enoughâhow often we as females and mothers put othersâ needs before our own, especially when it comes to our health and well-being.I dive into the pattern many women fall into, where we take on the role of âdefault parentâ and end up neglecting ourselves. This can lead to chronic health issues, burnout, and even resentment in our relationships. I talk about the guilt that...
Published 11/15/24
EP:114 On this episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I went to this incredible Pink concert the other night, and it just made me reflect on how much I used to neglect myself back in my previous relationship. I was always putting my partner first, trying so hard to make everything "work" that I completely lost touch with the things that lit me up inside.
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And I see that happening with so many parents these days - we get so caught up in the grind, in keeping up appearances, that we forget...
Published 11/08/24
EP:113 On this weekâs episode of âThrive Like a Parent,â I dive into how yoga and movement help spark my creativity and provide clarity in my life. For me, working out isnât just about fitness, itâs a way to connect with myself.
I share some personal experiences, including the challenges Iâve faced as a mom of two preemies, running businesses, and going through a tough beginning of divorce before losing Jonathan. These experiences have deepened my empathy for others.
I also reflect on the...
Published 11/01/24
EP:112 On this weekâs episode of Thrive Like a Parent, Iâm thrilled to be joined by one of our wonderful coaches, Dr. Maria Gonzalez. Weâll be exploring a topic that so many of you have been asking aboutâhaving a partner who travels.
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It can be challenging to stay grounded and regulated when your partner is frequently away, and itâs easy for resentment to build up, making communication and communication tough. Weâll talk about the courage it takes to take ownership of your feelings, to...
Published 10/25/24
EP:111 My children should not grow up without their father.
I should not have to raise my children without their father.
No family should lose a loved one due to mental health. But here I am, and so many others.This world is spinning out of control, and our brains can't keep up.
There's so much pressure to do more, be more, and it's crushing so many. I support parents day in and day out. If you're struggling, please don't wait. If you're lonely, please don't wait.
Never hesitate to reach out...
Published 10/18/24
EP:110 On this episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I discuss what it's like to come out of a prolonged "fight or flight" mode, sharing my personal experiences of exhaustion and the emotional lows that follow.
It feels like coming down from a marathonâcompletely draining but necessary for healing.It is so important to rest and take care of yourself , even when it feels unproductive.
This is a reminder that healing takes time, and it's crucial to be patient and gentle and kind to yourself...
Published 10/11/24
EP:109 Is it possible for movement to release emotions?
YES. YES. YES.
It's a vital and one of the most crucial pieces to mental health, sensory regulation, emotional regulation and your nervous system regulation. The ability to utilize movement for regulation is like a triangle.
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I believe that we all need movement. We all need someone to talk to, which is another edge of the triangle.
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Then regulation is the third. And having that triangle of all those different pieces truly builds you...
Published 10/04/24
What does it mean to truly regulate internally?â
It means you understand your brain and body.â
You understand what your body physically needs, what it dislikes, what it likes.â
You know what self care will really support you.â
You understand if youâre an introvert versus an extrovert.I want you to check in with yourself to see if you are externally emotionally regulating yourself or are you internally emotionally regulating yourself⌠AND what are the steps you can take to shift that? Deep...
Published 09/27/24
EP:107 On this weekâs episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast we are going to talk about the importance of setting boundaries and enforcing natural consequences for children without resorting to anger or resentment.Â
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We must set consistent, firm boundaries and natural consequences, such as chores or writing lines, to teach our children respect and responsibility.Â
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You get to decide what behaviors are and aren't acceptable in your home, and enforce boundaries for unacceptable behaviors....
Published 09/20/24
In this week's Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I dive deep into the importance of setting boundaries with kids with caution against doing it in a mean or angry way.
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I share my views on ADHD, and argue that the diagnostic system is too focused on labeling people with "disorders" rather than embracing the diversity of human experiences. I also emphasize the need for better education about how the brain functions, as many ADHD symptoms are common experiences that people may think are...
Published 09/13/24
New episode on Thrive Like a Parent Podcast.Trust me you donât want to miss this one.XOXO,Dr. B#thrivelikeaparent #throvelikeaparentpodcast #newepisode #consciousparenting #gentleparenting #neurosensory #neurosensoryparenting #sensoryregulation #emotionalregulation #selfregulation #parenting #parenthood #podcastformoms #toppodcast
Published 09/06/24
On this week's episode of the Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I dive into the challenges and rewards of raising strong-willed children, especially when it comes to their sensory and emotional regulation.Storing willed kiddos often struggle with societal expectations, like sitting still or staying organized, because theyâre trying to navigate their own unique needs.
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I want to reassure you that while raising strong-willed children can be exhausting and sometimes overwhelming, itâs so important...
Published 08/30/24
EP:103 In this weekâs Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I share my personal journey with setting boundaries and the importance of prioritizing your needs.I describe a time when I had zero boundaries, leading to anxiety, insecurity, and relying on unhealthy coping mechanisms.But through self-reflection, Iâve learned to establish healthy boundaries and strategies to manage my daily life as a parent and caretaker.I also share about being honest and speaking up, even when itâs uncomfortable. Iâve...
Published 08/23/24
EP:102 Putting on your oxygen mask first⌠thatâs youâve heard over and over and over and over and over again.The problem that Iâm finding is that just because we know that phrase doesnât necessarily mean that Iâm seeing that weâre doing it as parents, and when you donât do it, what happens is you place yourself at the bottom of the totem pole.If you are currentlyâ
Exhausted and depleted.â
Youâre waking up in the morning saying, I canât believe this is my life. I donât know how I got to this...
Published 08/16/24
EP:101 Are you feeling like more like roommate than a loving partner in your dynamic but are hiding from everyone?Itâs more common than you thinkâŚWhy??  Because we all want to put our best faces forward, especially with whatâs happening inside the four corners of our homes!What usually causes the drift?? Overfamiliarity, too much comfortability, overwhelming tasks, and routines, piled up work, new responsibilities, raising kids, insecurities, lack of intimacy, fear, resentment and the list...
Published 08/09/24
EP:100 You might have heard this one before but it was such an important topic I wanted to touch base on again⌠What most donât quite understand is that emotional eating is not psychological. Itâs neurological.And on this weekâs episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I am going to give you the tools you need to break that cycle through regulation!You absolutely can have an intuitive and healthy relationship with food. Without any shame.RecognitionAwarenessTrustCreate awareness behind how...
Published 08/02/24
EP:99 On this weekâs episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast.. The dreaded public meltdowns and how to support yourself and your child through them by understanding whatâs happening within the nervous system.
Every child has a tantrum. That does not mean you're a terrible parent. That does not mean that you suck. It means that your child chose the wrong time to do it and the absolute worst thing we can do during a public meltdown is give in.
We live in a world where we think our children...
Published 07/26/24
EP:98 If you have never chosen to tap your toe into the world of vulnerability, sharing, being open, and being interested in your feelings, it's going to be very uncomfortable and scary. That's because your brain is saying, 'Hold on, I'm not used to doing this. This is uncharted territory, and this doesn't feel safe.
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Published 07/19/24
Setting boundaries and why itâs so crucial for your childrenâs and your mental health and development.đ new episode on the thrive like a parent podcast!XOXO,Dr.B#thrivelikeaparent #podcast #newepisode #parenting #boundaries #healthyboundaries #mentalhealth #childdevelopment #creatinghabits #parents #parenthood #motherhood #joyinthejourney #happyparents #firmandlovingparenting
Published 07/12/24
EP:96 I am so excited to dive deep into what it means to be a sensory avoider on this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast.
A true sensory avoider means that you experience sensory stimuli or input into your brain more intensely than the average human, which means you then avoid it because itâs so overwhelming.Here are some signs that you may be a sensory avoider:
âď¸ You startle easily with soundsâď¸ You avoid bright lightsâď¸ You zone out on your phone to escape the chaosâď¸ You...
Published 07/05/24
EP:95 All families look different.
Before I dive deep into the topic I want to preference that:
â whether you are a female And the working parent or a female and the stay at home parent
â whether you are the male and a working parent, or whether you are the male and a stay at home parent
ALL of your roles matter!
I think that partnerships are crumbling, and there's so much resentment and anger towards each other within partnerships. And on todays episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast I...
Published 06/28/24