Hello, Night Owls! Welcome back to Up Past Bedtime…  Join us this episode as we open up about our experiences with conception, pregnancy complications, and managing hyperemesis gravidarum; you'll hear the highs and lows that have shaped our family life. From the emotional anticipation of a potential pregnancy with our first child, Rosie, to the overwhelming trials of severe morning sickness (Hyperemesis Gravidarum) that disrupted our everyday life. We reflect on the support we found in each other and the joy of welcoming new life into our world, all while keeping the gender a surprise – an experience we cherish and recommend to all expectant parents.  The conversation doesn't shy away from the tougher moments either. Listen as we recount the unexpected labour progression and emergency C-section that brought our child into the world, the subsequent traumatic birth recovery, and the breastfeeding struggles that followed. We share the pursuit of healing through a VBAC attempt, the contrasting birth experiences with our children, and the importance of partner support during postpartum. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt discussion that any parent or parent-to-be can relate to and find comfort in. (05:40) - Journey to Conception and Motherhood The intimate journey of our children's births, the pressure to conceive quickly, mental health challenges, and our “surprise” pregnancy. (17:54) - Pregnancy Complications Bella’s battle with hyperemesis gravidarum, delayed diagnosis and treatment, coping with daily vomiting and how we were supported by others during this time.  (33:41) - Unexpected Labour Progression and Emergency C-Section Our raw experiences of early labour, managing contractions, developing preeclampsia, and the decision to get an epidural. (44:49) - Traumatic Birth Recovery and Breastfeeding Struggles Rosie’s traumatic birth experience, challenges faced during and after C-section, struggles with bonding and breastfeeding & our perseverance through difficulties.  (48:52) - The Rollercoaster of a VBAC The unexpected emotional journey after our first birth, seeking validation and understanding, complexities of VBAC, and unexpected challenges in Bennie’s labour. (59:05) - Our Recommendations of the Week Adrian’s Weekly Recommendation: Mint Choc Chip Ice-Cream Bella’s Weekly Recommendation: Blood & Steel by Helen Scheuerer available on Kindle Unlimited Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.  UPB Socials: Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast Tik Tok: @uppastbedtimepodcast Facebook Community: Here Watch on Youtube: Here Or Email Us: [email protected] Bella’s Socials:  Instagram: @bellsmessina Tik Tok: @bellsmessina Adrian’s Socials:  Instagram: @adrianmessina Tik Tok: @itsyaboyado