How do you navigate the world, when you feel like you've never been able to understand your own mind? Join us this week on Up Past Bedtime as Bella shares her deeply personal journey of being diagnosed with ADHD and ASD at 28, unpacking the profound impact it had on her marriage, parenting, and self-perception.  We also explore the financial and emotional toll of undiagnosed ADHD and postpartum depression, illustrating the struggles Bella faced managing a household: From impulse control...

This week on UPB, Victoria Devine, the powerhouse behind She's on the Money (Australia's #1 Money Podcast), joins us in the studio to share her incredible knowledge and journey around money! Together, V and Bella, explore the critical importance of financial literacy for women, particularly married mothers facing career breaks or stay-at-home roles. Victoria's passion for empowering women in finance is palpable as she provides practical steps to enhance financial health and confidence. We...

Hi Night Owls! Welcome back to the much-anticipated second season of our podcast. We're launching the season off with a heartfelt Father’s Day discussion focusing on Adrian’s experiences and the father figures in our lives. We explore the profound and evolving roles of fatherhood, reflecting on the joys and challenges of parenting. From the initial dreams of a large family to the reality of balancing work and family life, we share personal anecdotes and insights. The conversation highlights...

Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.  UPB Socials: Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast Tik Tok: @uppastbedtimepodcast Facebook Community: Here Watch on Youtube: Here Or Email Us:...

We've always been an open book & this week were answering REAL questions left for us on by our IRL community! Expect some juicy confessions, all while we keep it real about the ups and downs of family life & marriage. Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of...

On this weeks episode of UPB we dive deep into our contrasting desires and the tough decision-making process surrounding future pregnancies. From the joys of sibling relationships and age gaps to the financial and emotional tolls of raising multiple children, our stories and listener experiences paint a vivid picture of modern family planning. Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo,...

Postpartum depression isn't just a topic; it's a reality that has deeply affected our family. In a raw and heartfelt conversation, I open up about my journey through postpartum depression, sharing how it impacted my mental health and daily life. Adrian joins in to provide his perspective, and together, we compare the postpartum periods following the births of our children, Rosie and Bennie. We highlight how different each experience was and underscore the importance of open conversations...

Hey Night Owls! Thank you for your continued grace and support. It isn't unnoticed. Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.  UPB Socials: Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast Tik Tok:...

Hey Night Owls! Ever wonder what it's like to fall in love on Tinder while six months pregnant? Buckle up for an unforgettable episode this week as we sit down with the phenomenal Alyssa Jane, who shares her whirlwind journey to motherhood and beyond. From navigating single motherhood at 19 to meeting her fiancé Max under the most extraordinary circumstances, Alyssa's story is nothing short of incredible. Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the...

Hey Night Owls! You BEGGED for it... so on this weeks episode, we're delivering. Join us as we share Part 2 of your In Law Horror Stories. Ever had in-laws who made your life a living nightmare? Well you're certainly not alone! After receiving hundreds of submissions, we will be sharing more of our listeners personal in-law stories. Family dynamics and setting boundaries are never easy, especially when it comes to in-laws who just don't get it. Join us as we share candid experiences about...

Hey Night Owls! After the viral speech of Harrison Butker, we thought this week was the perfect opportunity to delve into the in's and out's of what it is REALLY like to be a SAHM & Homemaker and be apart of a traditional gender roles relationship. Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster...

Welcome back Night Owls! Let's be real, the journey of intimacy post-children is like navigating a maze blindfolded. This episode peels back the curtain on the challenges and triumphs of reigniting passion, embracing body positivity after childbirth, and the delicate dance of libidos that can sometimes be out of sync. We also don't shy away from the touchier subjects, such as society's evolving views on women's sexuality and the role of adult entertainment in modern relationships. It's a...

Hey Night Owls! Join me, Bella Messina, in Episode 6  as I embark on a solo journey this Mother's Day, reflecting on the wonders and hurdles of motherhood. I'm sharing five heartfelt messages I'd send back to my first-time mum self, hoping to connect and inspire fellow mums with my experiences. It's an intimate episode, where we celebrate the essence of motherhood and the emotional transformations it ignites. From discussing the profound love that reshapes our lives to the societal pressures...

Hey Night Owls! Welcome back to Up Past Bedtime. In Episode 5, we’re diving into all things ‘Parasocial Parenting’.  Navigate with us through the complex terrain of parenting and privacy in the age of social media. We discuss the fine line between sharing our journey as parents and protecting our children's right to a private childhood, shedding light on the thoughtful decisions we make to safeguard their experiences. Hear about the measures we take to shield their identities, from setting...

Ever wondered how to survive the chaos of multi-generational living and get along harmoniously with your In-Laws? For Episode 4 of Up Past Bedtime, join Adrian and Bella, as they pull back the curtain on the good, the bad, and the hilarious of blending family lives under one roof.  Listen in as we explore the financial and emotional intricacies of multi-generational living, discussing the delicate balance of sharing expenses and setting respectful parenting boundaries. The support we receive...

Ever wonder how couples navigate the seismic shifts in their relationship after the stork drops off a bundle of joy? On Episode 3 of Up Past Bedtime, join us in an intimate discussion about the transformation of our partnership in the face of parenthood. From the comedic trials of late-night settling sessions to the profound discussions on upbringings and conflict styles, we unpack the complexities of keeping the discourse to a minimum amidst the pitter-patter of little feet.  This week,...

Hello, Night Owls! Welcome back to Up Past Bedtime…  Join us this episode as we open up about our experiences with conception, pregnancy complications, and managing hyperemesis gravidarum; you'll hear the highs and lows that have shaped our family life. From the emotional anticipation of a potential pregnancy with our first child, Rosie, to the overwhelming trials of severe morning sickness (Hyperemesis Gravidarum) that disrupted our everyday life. We reflect on the support we found in each...

Hello, Night Owls! Welcome to Up Past Bedtime... Let's introduce you to your hosts, Bella & Adrian Messina. Join us during Episode 1 as we stroll down memory lane, reliving the charming, albeit unexpected, romance that blossomed between a bagel shop girl and a barber with a flair for eyebrow piercings. We dish on the ups and downs that eventually led to love, and how our bond has evolved into a family of four.  It’s not all nuptial near-misses and parenting pratfalls though! We're also...