Episodes
Natasha is a British-Asian woman who was born with a bicornate uterus, who found out at 21 that carrying a child to term would be very difficult and dangerous. This helped Natasha make a careful, considered choice about being childfree, but it was the final disappointment for her traditional Hindu parents who she’s now cut out of her life. This was an eye-opening conversation about growing up in England as someone of South Asian heritage, being “not brown enough” for some people, and breaking...
Published 10/17/23
Published 10/17/23
We are Childfree community member Lisa Jansen is really living up to her idea of a “life done differently”. Based in New Zealand, Lisa left her cosy corporate life behind to live in a van for a summer - which turned into 5 years on the road! She’s just published a memoir called Life Done Differently, in which she shares the ups, downs and all the life-changing experiences of full-time van life. We’ll be discussing Life Done Differently in the We are Childfree book club on September 21st. To...
Published 09/13/23
How do you decide whether to have kids or not? That's the question from a self-proclaimed fencesitter that we put to the We are Childfree community for this episode of Ask WAC! How can you even imagine life as a parent? How do you separate external pressures from your own inner feelings? Listen to find out! To get the full episode, join We are Childfree today 🤗 And if you have a question or problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree with "Ask WAC" as the subject...
Published 08/28/23
Do childfree people ever regret their decision? That's the burning question we put to the We are Childfree community for the very first episode of Ask WAC! How many childfree people experience regret? Where does that regret come from? What does it feel like? Listen to find out! Sources for this episode:The incredible We are Childfree community. Join us!MSU study confirms: 1 in 5 adults don’t want children — and they don’t regret it laterChildfree by Choice: The Movement Redefining Family and...
Published 06/15/23
Author Sari Botton calls her hysterectomy the best thing that ever happened to her, a true blessing. An older Gen Xer, she never felt entitled to choose not to be a mother, and at 40, found herself in a fertility clinic getting a diagnosis that gave her “permission” to live a happily childfree life. Sari has such a unique perspective, and it was amazing getting to talk about embracing a choice that was chosen for you, and the forces that want to strip us of our choices. Check out Oldster...
Published 05/23/23
The first man we’ve ever had on the pod! We’ve had a lot of requests to hear from couples about how they navigate the childfree choice together, so we reached out to Xander, husband and business partner of sex therapist Vanessa Marin. The couple opened up on their Pillow Talks podcast about their decision not to have children, in what proved to be their most popular episode ever! Xander told us how they arrived at their choice, and when they did, how this “domino belief” gave them permission...
Published 05/09/23
Here's your first sip of Childfree Tea, the brand new bonus podcast from We are Childfree! Join founders Zoë and James for an emotional update on the ups and downs of running a global childfree community. Get the latest on our beautiful fur baby Olive, our wonderful coverage in The Guardian, meeting childfree icon Cindy Gallop and our plans to hit the road. To get more Childfree Tea, exclusive community interviews and answers to your burning questions, become a We are Childfree member today!
Published 05/02/23
Cindy Gallop is the older childfree role model we all need! She calls herself the “Michael Bay of business” because she likes to blow shit up - most famously as the founder of the revolutionary social sex platform MakeLoveNotPorn. Cindy never wanted children, adores being single, dates younger men casually and recreationally for sex, and doesn’t give a damn what anyone else thinks! She’s become an icon for Gen Z on TikTok, who can now say “I have seen my future and it is bright.” Join us for...
Published 04/25/23
Revisiting a classic episode! How to feel confident in your childfree choice, and still leave the door open to possibility.
Published 11/08/22
One artist's inspiring vision of a future full of choice and community.
Published 10/11/22
How does a couple make the childfree choice together?
Published 09/27/22
The world travel icon inspires us to bring our dreams to life.
Published 09/13/22
What's more responsible than getting a tubal ligation because you know you don't have what it takes to be a good mother?
Published 08/30/22
Meet a campaigner making space for childfree and childless women of colour.
Published 08/16/22
A high school teacher's journey from circumstance to choice proves there are so many ways to be childfree.
Published 08/02/22
For this first-generation trailblazer, being childfree meant creating the life she’d always dreamed about.
Published 07/19/22
One comedian's path to permanent birth control.
Published 07/05/22
How to feel confident in your childfree choice, and still leave the door open to possibility.
Published 02/15/22
This second-wave feminist has been lighting our way since the 70s!
Published 02/01/22
What would you do if you always knew you didn't want children, married someone who felt the same, and then *they* changed their mind?
Published 01/18/22
A Nigerian-born “hopeful dreamer” shares how to shake off strict gender roles and soar to self-made success.
Published 01/04/22
Patriarchy, pronatalism, the pressure to have children - this badass has left it all behind.
Published 12/21/21
After publicly "coming out" as childfree in 1974, she lost her cherished teaching job, received death threats, and, 46 years later, is still judged for her choice. Yet this childfree icon has no regrets.
Published 12/07/21
The women’s spiritual empowerment mentor on finding value outside of motherhood.
Published 11/23/21