“I appreciate your vulnerability to share with us your story and healing process. I can see this helping so many going through a tough time. I’ve followed you on IG and YT and I was in disbelief when I found out about the breakup, I just couldn’t believe it. I was so excited and happy when y’all got engaged and the events that followed after so I just couldn’t believe when it had ended. Like what?!?! Just today I saw the announcement of your podcast and I immediately searched it. Listening to it took me back to an awful breakup I had about 3ish years ago... and OMG I did exactly what you did on WhatsApp as well!! I will also embarrassingly admit, but I totally related! I kept in contact with him for OVER six months! And let me tell you, the block and delete is something to definitely do because for all those months I did the fantasy thinking, the what’s ifs, ugh it was awful! I coped with it all by myself and trusting in God that I would be ok. I remember thinking in those moments where I would cry out of nowhere cause something reminded me of him (even seeing a car that looked like his) and saying - I wanna be there already, in the months ahead where I will not cry over him and I will be ok. And little by little it stopped until suddenly... one day... I stopped and thought... wow I haven’t cried in months! That moment felt so liberating! Also the song by Sara Evan - A Little Bit Stronger helped so much. With all that said I’ll stop here lol but I will say Amelia... YOU WILL BE OK!!! Everything will be ok, this will help you although you may or may not see it now but months-years from now you will look back and be thankful this all happened, as crazy as that sounds. Much love and all the best in this journey.”
Hsruiz85 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
10/29/19