Hey Sis, Even when it becomes clear that we are being abused in covert ways, there is a sense of responsibility that we can feel towards fixing the problem, fixing the abusive spouse. Why do we feel this sense of responsibility? Why does protecting ourselves from harm feel so bad and selfish? Why does it seem like our abusive husband is the real victim?  I share some insights in this episode that take a look at how the groundwork for these types of relationships get laid. Love, Ola   ***One-on-One coaching session slots now open. You can book a clarity session at https://www.calendly.com/oladavies360 ****   Let’s connect! Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenmarriagehurts Email: [email protected] Instagram: @whenmarriagehurts