Hey Sis, The covert ways in which an abuser sabotages their victim's chances of success and happiness are so subtle that they often go unnoticed. They also go unnoticed because the abuser does it in such a manner that makes it seem like there was no malicious intent involved, so innocently. This contributes to the frustration and loneliness of the victim who has a hard time explaining this to people outside the marriage. I share a few examples of mine on this...

Hey Sis, Even when it becomes clear that we are being abused in covert ways, there is a sense of responsibility that we can feel towards fixing the problem, fixing the abusive spouse. Why do we feel this sense of responsibility? Why does protecting ourselves from harm feel so bad and selfish? Why does it seem like our abusive husband is the real victim?  I share some insights in this episode that take a look at how the groundwork for these types of relationships get...

Hey Sis, Have you ever wondered why some Christian men treat their wives terribly? I wondered about this myself as I struggled to understand why the man I married was the perfect Christian man to others yet he treated me horribly. I share some insights from the scriptures about why this happens.  Love, Ola   ***One-on-One coaching session slots now open. You can book a clarity session at https://www.calendly.com/oladavies360 ****   Let’s connect! Community:...

Hey Sis, This episode talks about health issues that sometimes arise after leaving an abusive marriage and I share a bit of my experience. Love, Ola   ***One-on-One coaching session slots now open. You can book a clarity session at https://www.calendly.com/oladavies360 ****   Let’s connect! Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenmarriagehurts Email: [email protected] Instagram: @whenmarriagehurts

Hey Sis, This episode addresses one of the common concerns women have about leaving an emotionally abusive marriage - what people will say and how other people will receive the news. Love, Ola   ***One-on-One coaching session slots now open. You can book a clarity session at https://www.calendly.com/oladavies360 ****   Let’s connect! Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenmarriagehurts Instagram: @whenmarriagehurts

Hey Sis, In this episode, I address one of the most common questions I get from women which is "How do I cope with my marriage". I give vital clues on how to approach this question in other to find not just the answers you want but the answers you need. Love, Ola   ***One-on-One coaching session slots now open. You can book a clarity session at https://www.calendly.com/oladavies360 ****   Let’s connect! Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenmarriagehurts Instagram: @whenmarriagehurts

Hey Sis, In this episode, I answer questions like: -What if women in my family have bad marriages -Is it a generational curse? -What if my husband needs my help to break a pattern of abuse in his family? - How can I help him break the pattern of abuse? Be blessed as you listen. Ola   ***One-on-One coaching session slots now open. You can book a clarity session at https://www.calendly.com/oladavies360 ****   Let’s connect! Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenmarriagehurts Instagram:...

Hey Sis, In this episode, I explore a less talked about tool of abuse that goes unnoticed - housekeeping. I share a bit of my experience and how this form of abuse negatively impacts a woman's well-being. ***One-on-One coaching session slots now open. You can book a clarity session at https://www.calendly.com/oladavies360 ****   Be blessed as you listen. Ola   Let’s connect! Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenmarriagehurts Instagram: @whenmarriagehurts