Hi Sis, It's another episode and we are revisiting the basics - exploring how emotional abuse plays out in daily living.  I read out questions from a quiz (by Natalie Hoffman) that helps you identify subtle and hidden patterns of abuse.    Remember, the abuse is never your fault. Your trust was betrayed.    Love, Ola   Link to quiz: https://form.typeform.com/to/bYJK7jhE?typeform-source=www.flyingfreenow.com Facebook: @whenmarriagehurts Instagram: @whenmarriagehurts

Hi sis, This episode explores some ways in which we lose our voices and the role abuse and religion plays. Happy listening! Ola

Below are some online support groups for Christians in abusive marriages. Please note that the life-saving divorce Facebook group is for men and women.  The two other groups are for women only. Confusion to clarity => https://www.facebook.com/groups/confusiontoclarity/?ref=share&mibextid=NSMWBT Life-Saving Divorce Private Group (on facebook)https://www.flyingfreesisterhood.com/sign-up  (paid membership)  

Hi Sis,  This episode is about hoovering. What it is, why the abuser uses this tactic and why hoovering is an effective way by which abusers keep their victims trapped even when the victim knows they are being abused.  Happy listening!   Let’s connect! Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenmarriagehurts Instagram: @whenmarriagehurts Mentioned in this episode: Flying Free Podcast by Natalie Hoffman

Are people who leave abuse stronger than those who don't? Or does it actually take strength to stay in abuse? The answer might shock you as I talk about bravery, courage and strength in this episode. Resources mentioned in this episode: https://www.flyingfreenow.com/category/articles/ Flying free podcast.

Hi Sis, Does the thought of being a divorced woman scare you? Make you very uncomfortable? Makes you start to re-evaluate your marriage and think maybe the abuse isn't so bad after all? I've been there before. In this episode, I share the fears I had about getting a divorce that didn't even have to do with my ex. You'll learn what the other side of divorce can look like and how you can navigate the road.    With love, Ola Let’s connect! Facebook Community:...

Hi Sis, In this episode, we answer questions like: -whose idea is divorce anyway - God or the devil? - am I splitting my family if I want to divorce my abusive husband? -why would God permit divorce if he wants all marriages to stay together?   With Love Ola   Let’s connect! Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenmarriagehurts Instagram: @whenmarriagehurts ***Episode referenced- Episode #35- Is What You Are Experiencing Really Abuse?