Could you date someone who cheated on a previous partner? (01:42) We revisit an exchange between Carrie and Big about his admission of infidelity in his first marriage. The scene spawned a conversation about whether we'd ask a new mate if they'd been unfaithful and how we'd handle it if they said yes. Could you date a cheater? Vote in our poll! How do you stop romanticising a failed relationship? (14:49) A woman is having second thoughts after breaking up with her long-distance partner How does she go about dating women after years of dating men? (23:57) A listener seeks advice about navigating the dating scene as a woman looking to date women. Why do well-rounded women struggle to find a partner? (34:20) Ugh. This tired conversation about men being turned off and intimidated by self-sufficient women. Share your thoughts in the comments! Submit Your Dating Questions—Questions are answered on free episodes. If your letter is used on a members-only post, you will be sent the answer to your letter via email. GET BONUS EPISODES & EXCLUSIVE CONTENT: Join our Patreon community as a paid subscriber to receive 1-3 bonus podcast episodes per month, read exclusive members-only posts like this one, and hear our bi-weekly Sex & The City Rewind Recap series. Join here. Connect with us: Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube