We recently received a letter from a long-time listener seeking clarity on her mother's advice. She wonders whether men are drawn more to women who embrace a relaxed and casual style than those who resemble models fresh off the cover of Vogue. We disagree with her mother's advice and explain why a man might suggest a woman dress down for dates. We also provided feedback to a man looking to spruce up his Tinder bio. I advised him to remove the opening line. There are many ways to interpret...

Yesterday, dozens of relatives of Erik and Lyle Menendez gathered in front of an LA courthouse to advocate for the brother's release. In their speeches, they all addressed the lack of understanding of trauma and abuse that was prevalent in the early nineties when their case was first tried. Family members (as well as the brother's lawyer) also commented that had it been The Menendez Sisters charged with the murder of their parents the case would have had a different outcome. Sarah and I talk...

Let’s listen to Joshua, a self-perceived high-value man, describe his idea of a woman “of his caliber.” According to Joshua, these attraction metrics are: Youth Beauty Fertility Fidelity Agreeableness Sir, is this you? Listen to what we think of Joshua and his article in the full-length episode here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/how-men-define-113820068 I'm looking for anything—social media/dating app profiles, messages, social media posts, voice notes—that we can...

Today's episode discusses Tripp, The Dating Coach For Men. He has created three must-ask questions men should ask women on a first date. 1. What's your relationship like with your Dad? 2. How do you deal with stress? 3. What's the longest friendship you've had? These questions have an underlying motivation, and Tripp knows it. They're used to gauge the emotional intelligence and effort a woman will require. With these questions, he's advising men to abandon the thought of dating a woman...

The best way to know if you're dating a narcissist is to express a boundary. Their reaction will tell you everything you need to know. Listen as we analyze a letter from a woman who needs help determining if the man she's dating is a walk red flag. Subscribe to listen to our weekly full-length episodes and get access to other bonus content. ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dateologycoach/subscribe⁠ Submit your dating questions here⁠, or you can leave us a voice message by calling...

Speaking of the worst ex ever... If you listened to the show a few weeks ago, you remember the vile message a listener received from a man she rejected. She sent us the complete message string. We provide a dramatic reading of this rage machine's responses and analyze how he manipulates and insults her under the guise of wanting to reconnect. This guy is so despicable that I googled his social media. When I tell you that "mid" would be a compliment, I'm not exaggerating. We also...

In this episode: A man unleashes his rage on a woman for rejecting his sleazy sexual proposition. A woman endures a length long-distance situationship only to be dropped like a bad habit for being honest. In previous episodes, I've discussed my fascination with analyzing writing. Those who've been around for a while know I was involved with exposing a man whose marketing agency fabricated dozens of fake female personas. Many of these phantom authors went viral for their manufactured...

Topics discussed in the episode: Why men who insert themselves in women's spaces are often predators. Is it worthwhile to try to reconcile with an Ex? When the Female Best Friend is a red flag. The perfect first date question to ask to avoid getting into a situationship. Delete your account, Sir. A man on TikTok had a disturbing reaction to a recent video of mine where I expressed that men in women's spaces are usually predatory and exploit women's trauma. They're an Ex...

Topics discussed: The patterns that motivate someone to pursue a married man or woman. How FOMO convinces average-looking people they're more desirable than they are. Gaslighting tactics used by toxic men. Co-dependent friend groups like How I Met Your Mother & Friends and why they can cause trouble for your relationship. From the "This F*****g Guy" file: ⁠Her husband wants a divorce because another woman flirted with him (12:05)⁠ ⁠Gaslighting 101 - He gave his woman...

In this week's episode: Ex drama continued (3:47) When will men learn they can no longer threaten women with their absence? She wants more than a hook-up (27:52) A listener asks why men ignore certain boundaries, like when women say they aren't looking for a casual relationship. The ridiculous discourse around "mixed weight" couples (33:54) Where have all the Real Women gone? (43:49) A recent article criticized Bridgerton's choice to pair stunner Nicola Houghlan with a conventionally...

Things we learn in this episode: Patrick Swayze was the first internet boyfriend. When men go low, Sarah goes lower. Calling yourself a "girl's girl" doesn't absolve you of s****y behavior. Straight men hate drama except when it benefits them Follow Up - F**k That Guy It's been almost two weeks since I told my Ex I missed him and still haven't received a response. I'm officially angry. F**k that guy for making me cry. What do we mean when we say a man is...

Enjoy a teaser of this week's full-length podcast. To listen to the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/it-was-week-of-106552875 In This Episode: Be a Clown (00:27) It's been an agonizing three days since I confessed to my Ex that I miss him. The lack of response is making me question my decision and feel utterly foolish. Writer Thinks Her Opinion Of Women's Bodies Matters (15:20) Op-Ed author Zoe Strimpel felt compelled ⁠to word-vomit a piece⁠ about how Bridgerton's...

Could you date someone who cheated on a previous partner? (01:42) We revisit an exchange between Carrie and Big about his admission of infidelity in his first marriage. The scene spawned a conversation about whether we'd ask a new mate if they'd been unfaithful and how we'd handle it if they said yes. Could you date a cheater? Vote in our poll! How do you stop romanticising a failed relationship? (14:49) A woman is having second thoughts after breaking up with her long-distance...

This episode would be perfect for #messytok. #dating #datingadvice #datinghumor To listen to our latest Sex & The City Rewind Recap Episode and get access to our bonus content, subscribe to our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Maybe Don't Try To Date When You're Married (03:42) I posted the full letter here.  It's...a lot. Feel free to leave your thoughts. Ask Dateology Coach - Green Card Marriage Confusion (12:29) Predictors of Long-Term Singlehood...

Listener Letter - This Is What Decentering Men Looks Like (05:41) So, I've been seeing this girl for 2 months. We're hitting it off really well. I'm 30+ and this is the first time in a long long time I think we could have a future together. The problem is I'm only seeing her like once every 3-4 weeks. We've seen each other 3 times by now and last time also had s*x. Everything is there, the connection, the intimacy, the attraction... I really like her. But she's currently in therapy and...

Please rate us five stars on Spotify!⁠ Listen to our exclusive bonus episodes on Patreon ⁠https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach⁠ Listener Question - Who Pays For The Uber? (01:36) Am I the a*****e for thinking she was actually using this man for his money? https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMMvBSbRR/ Should a man give you a ride or pay for your Uber when you spent the night with him? Should he walk you home(if you live nearby) or walk you to your car/stop? Bumble's Fumble (08:10) If you're...

Please rate us five stars on Spotify! Listen to our exclusive bonus episodes on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Genuine Response or Polite Blow-Off? - Listener Submitted Letter (06:55) I asked a woman out the other day and asked if maybe she wanted to go to dinner. She texted me back the following day and said she had dental surgery this week and she may not be able to eat. We can touch base next week. What does this mean? His Fiance Wants His Ex To Change Her Last...

To listen to our bonus episodes, become a Patreon subscriber here. Receive 1-3 bonus episodes per month and catch our Sex & The City Rewind Recap series. ⁠https://www.patreon.com/posts/mr-hyde-single-103027081⁠ She Was Ready (00:22) If you follow me on social media, you probably know that our third Golden Girl, Luca, crossed the Rainbow Bridge on Monday. We talked about how going through this with Luca helped me confront my avoidant nature and fear of anticipatory grief. Are More...

Enjoy a teaser of this week's podcast episode. To listen to the full episode, become a Patreon subscriber here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/mr-hyde-single-103027081 Jekyll and Hyde (01:00) Tiktok is full of performative white men who pander to women. We talk about one man in particular who expertly plays the Good Guy until a woman questions him. That's when Mr. Hyde appears. "You Need A Dick" (05:40) Certain people need to learn that accusing someone of being single or celibate...

You're not being overly sensitive. He's a dick. (01:15) A woman questions if she's overreacting to her boyfriend's lack of appreciation for a celebration party she had organized for him. He further exacerbated the situation by posting on Instagram, not about her, but about a female friend. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Subscribe to our Patreon for bonus episodes ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Men are stupid, and we don't respect them. (14:10) A man acknowledges he knowingly...

We kick things off with a discussion about ADHD medicine shortage and how it's affecting us. Hint: Not well. The rest of the episode is dedicated to the viral Tiktok trend asking people to share Carrie Bradshaw's most toxic moments. GET EXCLUSIVE MEMBERS-ONLY CONTENT ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach⁠ CONNECT WITH USPodcast Instagram⁠⁠https://instagram.com/dateologypod Christan’s Instagram & Threads...

Be sure to listen until the end. We cover a story about a psychopath and how they can mask FOR YEARS without showing signs they're dangerous. QUESTIONS ANSWERED IN THE EPISODE Why do women find Jack Black attractive, and why does the answer bother so many men? What's the proper response when someone asks, "What's your nationality/ethnicity/race? Is it possible to live with someone for years and not know they're a psychopath? GET EXCLUSIVE MEMBERS-ONLY...

Questions answered in this episode *Should lying about your age on dating apps be illegal? *Why is everyone turning on Jennifer Lopez, and is Ben Affleck next? *How do you know if they see you as their end-game relationship or are stringing you along. Connect With Us Podcast Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod Christan’s Instagram & Threads...