Brace yourselves! Men's dating coach Alpha Dom made quite the splash this week on social media with his problematic advice. Sarah and I deconstructed his videos and determined he's sometimes right. HEAR US OUT BEFORE YOU JUDGE! Dom does have an idea of how women think and what they want. The problem is he often veers off course because his understanding of women is limited. We can't wait to hear your thoughts! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Get exclusive bonus episodes &...

IN THIS EPISODE: A man lectures women on how they should dress at the gym and immediately regrets it. If you've spent time on social media this week, you've probably seen clips of Ryan Gosling singing "I'm Just Ken" at The Oscars. We discuss the performance, John Mullaney's infidelity, and why Cillian Murphy's win made me cry. A woman has a brilliant idea of wearing statement t-shirts on first dates to let men know we won't accept low-effort nonsense. Ariana Grande's new song, "We Can't...

I was quoted in an article about the dangers of Are We Dating The Same Guy groups. The article interviews women who have been stalked or harassed after posting to the groups. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE ON OUR PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/posts/99928272 A woman wants to know if she should tell her man's mistress he's not as rich as he'd led her to believe. The critical reason you need to ditch your frenemies. We hop in the time machine and discuss the Dave Coulier/Alannis Morissette...

An author thinks her writer husband is trolling her online and leaving negative reviews on her latest book. After some Googling, Sarah and I suspect that the woman who wrote the letter about her husband harassing her online and the columnist providing advice are the same person. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON FOR EXCLUSIVE BONUS EPISODES https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Also in the episode: Green flags you should never ignore when you first start dating someone that are actual green flags...

It was only a matter of time. Are We Dating The Same Girl groups are cropping up across Facebook. Women make these groups to ensure they're not dating a cheater or abuser. Men create them to whine about women who call them on their creepy behavior. JOIN OUR PATREON FOR EXCLUSIVE EPISODES AND BONUS CONTENT: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach In This Episode: A listener tells a story about being posted in an AWDTSGirl group that proves men lack boundaries and feel entitled to women's...

A man claimed men know when they've met a great woman, and they don't let her get away. LOL. K. We revisit the topic of publicly dissing your ex and how, if you make it your brand, it could interfere with your relationships. A beautiful woman catches her VERY mid-looking boyfriend cheating and he proceeds to gaslight her until she calls his mistress. A man is creeped out by his girlfriend's constant nudity around her dog. A listener wants to know if she handled a male co-worker's awkward...

We reviewed a list of First Date Green Flags and debates, which are good signs and which praise people for doing the bare minimum. Are dating apps over? That's what some experts are saying. JOIN THE PATREON TO LISTEN TO BONUS EPISODES: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dateologypod SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question

Prepare to get ragey! A man wants his ex to be his new girlfriend's surrogate because he doesn't want her to ruin her hot body. JOIN THE PATREON TO LISTEN TO BONUS EPISODES: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Also in this episode: We talk about Greta Gerwig's Oscar snub. A woman wants advice about whether she should be a surrogate for her ex and his new girlfriend. An article in Buzzfeed sparks an insightful discussion about internalized misogyny. I talk briefly about my experience...

Listen in as we talk about the pending lawsuit against Are We Dating The Same Guy Founders and why this whiny prick might actually win. Follow us on Patreon for more episodes https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Also in the episode: A TikTok creator provides four key questions to ask your dates to determine if your political views align. Buzzfeed compiled stories from people that proving that dating in 2024 is a cesspool of low effort/high crazy people. Dating Has Become A Literal...

A Tiktok creator is convinced a restaurant hired someone to pose as a single guy on a dating app to get her to show up at their venue and order food. Girl, what? Plus, we offer tips to help women avoid being stood up. LISTEN TO THE Fhttps://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/devious-ways-men-scam-single-womenULL EPISODE: ALSO IN THE EPISODE: A woman wonders if she’s being too sensitive or if the man she’s dating is as awful as he sounds. We start our review of the can’t-look-away trainwreck...

Enjoy a teaser for this Wednesday's episode. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to talk about this publicly. This guy was the catalyst for my decision to cut back on discussing my personal life publicly. It’s also one of the areas I focused on narcissistic abuse when I sought my trauma recovery certification. This was a dark rabbit to go down, Nuggets. SUBSCRIBE & LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: Become a Substack subscriber for $5 a month and get two Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays...

It's all fun and games until a guy jizzes in your eyes. In this episode, we read a Reddit post written by a woman who thinks she made a big mistake moving in with her lazy-ass boyfriend. We also discuss an outbreak of ocular syphilis that traces back to one man all the women met online. SUBSCRIBE & LISTEN TO MORE FULL EPISODES: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/ FOLLOW US: Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanm TikTok...

Sarah and Christan discuss an unemployed man who took to the internet to whine that his girlfriend won't pay his rent. In Nugget #2, we offer advice to a woman who's fallen in love with her guy best friend, who's been using her until he found a girlfriend. ************ ************ Send your dating questions to [email protected] and follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content. You can find links in the episode description. Become a Substack subscriber for $5...

Is "open to non-monogamy" code for something else? Plus, does your sociosexuality determine if you'll be ghosted after sex? Enjoy a teaser of this week's full-length episode. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/does-this-one-thing-determine-if#details SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE FOR MORE FREE CONTENT https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES - SAVE 20% You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to...

The nuclear family isn't what it used to be. Dating needs to catch up with the times. SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE FOR MORE FREE CONTENT https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES - SAVE 20% You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN...

Gather round and hear us explain why women who date men should avoid separated men at all costs. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/fck-that-guy-sketchy-separated-guy#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES: You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe...

A therapist recently stitched this Tiktok of mine and gave her thoughts on single-by-choice women. She believes that women who forego dating are likely avoidants struggling with unhealed wounds. I believe that’s b******t. SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES: You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe...

A woman’s avoidant boyfriend has been running hot and cold. How much longer should she stay on this rollercoaster? SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES: You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com SUBMIT A DATING ...

Enjoy a teaser from our first Law & Order: FTG (F*ck That Guy) Unit episode. It’s time to break out your deerskin hats and magnifying glasses and help me decipher a mysterious email I received this week from the son of an ex looking for proof of his father's affair. Who *really* wrote this email? I know it wasn't a 17-year-old. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/law-and-order-ftg-fck-that-guy-unit#details

We discuss our thoughts on having an open phone policy with your partner and why you shouldn’t advertise that policy in a dating profile. Telling a stranger you have an open phone policy is one of the fastest ways to attract someone who is controlling and insecure. Agree or disagree? Here’s what else is in store for today’s episode: Why you should never discuss anything related to money or financial stability in your dating profile. The pros and cons of selecting the spicy pepper icon for...

Let’s discuss the “Where’d She Go?” approach to dating all women should start implementing ASAP. LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe...

Let’s talk about setting expectations and how to write messages that won't get you unmatched. SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question BECOME A SUBSCRIBER TO You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast for $4 monthly. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30 It’s fall. You know what that means. Cuffing...

The majority of the episode is based on an article and Tiktok about women’s frustration with situationships and the internal conflict we experience when we want to de-center men but also crave a romantic relationship. LISTEN TO THEFULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-do-you-de-center-men-when-you#details SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become...

The advice to choose better men is reductive and insulting. It goes much deeper than that. SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE...

A woman wants to know if she should give a man who abruptly dumped her a second chance. NOPE! No, she should not. Thank you for coming to our Ted Talk. In The Full Episode: Tik Tok’s Aba n Preach Editor (abanpreacheditor) show women the appropriate response when someone who ghosted them returns from the dead. We discuss one sure-fire way to end up dating a low-effort man. The economics of thinness and how they affect hiring. How does a man explain his lack of sexual experience to the...