Episodes
Join us Sunday, June 20th at 8:30pm ET/5:30pm PT for The Kickback: Black Abundance. The Kickback is a live podcast radio show produced by us! Tune in for powerful stories and DJ sets to get you shaking ya azz. It's free to stream, just register: https://www.youhadmeatblack.com/thekickback.
Published 06/16/21
Khennedi heads to a protest in the summer of 2021, armed with nothing but her cell phone. Almost from the moment they arrived, things began to unravel. Please note this episode deals with the trauma of police brutality.
Published 04/28/21
Growing up as a PK, Danny always planned to start a ministry of his own. But once he started to lead a congregation, his thinking around what it means to start a church began to unravel.
Published 04/14/21
As the older sister, Secunda was in charge of making sure the chores got done after school before her mom got home. One afternoon, her brother challenged her, unraveling her sense of authority and the sibling pecking order.
Published 04/07/21
Fresh out of grad school, Blake faces a devastating loss that unraveled everything he tired to hold together by a thread for too long. This story deals with loss, addiction, and suicidal thoughts.
Published 03/31/21
A bad breakup unraveled everything Nate thought he had planned. After realizing he couldn't drink it away, he decided to follow his instincts.
Published 03/24/21
Our Kickbacks are a live podcast broadcast with stories and music. You're familiar with the stories, we play them here on the podcast. But if you've never been to a Kickback, you've missed out on the other other side- the music. That's what we're bringing you to today.
Published 03/17/21
This story comes Errinn, who was terrified of dogs. Everything unraveled when her boyfriend brought one home.
Published 03/10/21
This story comes from Tobi. They found reason after reason to ignore the warning signs of a toxic job, until everything unraveled.
Published 03/03/21
This story comes from Carl. Carl was happy living his single life. That is, until his boy set him up on a date, and his happy singlehood unraveled.
Published 02/24/21
Welcome to a new season of You Had Me at Black! This season's theme is "unraveling." You'll stories from all kinds of folks about the moments they confronted things they ignored and pushed aside for too long. These stories are about the work; the messiness between our valleys and peaks; the healing. We can't wait for you to hear what happened.
Published 02/17/21
This story comes from Taylor. She's an avid and adventurous traveler who happens to live with Sickle Cell Disease. She grew up trying to downplay the physical constraints of the disease, but on a vaction in Mexico, her act unraveled.
Published 02/17/21
As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Kwynn searches for a reason to live after losing her child and partner.
Published 11/25/20
As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Deborah saves her coins and stays with a friend-of-a-friend on a trip. She quickly learns that "you get what you pay for."
Published 11/18/20
As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Kevin (fka Erk tha Jerk) learns the hard way to be careful what you wish for
Published 11/11/20
As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Fed up by the way his grandmother dresses him, 8th grade Meechie joins the BDs, a Chicago-area gang, to buy new clothes.
Published 11/04/20
As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Newly single after a 5-year relationship ended, she decides to try a new style of dating, and learns more about love than she did in the 5 years prior.
Published 10/21/20
As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Eric's trip to Cuba takes an unexpected twist when he's forced to confront skeletons from his past.
Published 10/14/20
As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. In this rewind story, Theo, a former child singer, finds himself in a pinch the afternoon of a big audition.
Published 10/07/20
As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. In this rewind story, Marlon is fresh off a divorce and takes a retreat that arouses him in away he never felt before.
Published 10/07/20
As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. In this rewind story, CeeJaye's one-night hook up results in unexpected and life-altering changes.
Published 09/30/20
This week we’re at home with Alexius Hill, a Memphis-based young mother who chose to give birth at home despite her family and friends’ concerns about doing so. We discuss the stigma around home births, and explore the radical work of full-spectrum doulas and the ways they strive to provide quality perinatal support for all birthing parents.
Published 08/14/20
In our final cycle of our 'At the House' series, we hear seven stories about breaking free from people and situations that didn't serve them.
Published 08/05/20
Unable to find an OBGYN that reciprocated the genuine excitement and warmth she felt about becoming a mother for the first time, Brittany pursues prenatal care with a midwife. In this episode, we explore alternative care models, the vital role of partners and loved ones, and hear from Demetra Seriki, a midwife in Colorado, who is determined to make sure all Black birthing parents can afford quality, affirming full spectrum care.
Published 07/29/20