In this transformative episode of the "Your Relationshift" podcast, Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik dive deep into one of their most nuanced principles: "The Third Way." This groundbreaking approach to conflict resolution offers a unique alternative to the common dynamic of compromise by encouraging couples to create space for both perspectives, honor each other's values, and discover a solution that transcends both individual desires. Drawing from Torah teachings, the co-hosts unpack...

In this episode of the Your Relationshift podcast, hosts Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik respond to their listeners' questions. One dilemma opens the door to a deep conversation about identity, self-worth, and the essential desire for connection within marriage. Hindi and Chayale explore the common fear many women experience of being seen primarily as a mother rather than a partner. They discuss how triggers like this one can serve as indicators, guiding us to look within and understand...

In this episode of the "Your Relationshift" podcast, co-hosts Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik dive into the powerful principle of "Trust the Connection" within relationships, offering practical techniques to strengthen emotional bonds through trust, intention, and receptivity. Hindi and Chayale emphasize how this principle is not just about blindly trusting, but rather about building a foundation of connection that emerges from working on earlier concepts like self-worth, ownership, and...

In this episode of the "Your Relationshift" podcast, co-hosts Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik delve into the essential relationship principles of trusting the connection and the power of creating with thoughts, words, and intention. Drawing inspiration from the teachings of the Torah, they explore how often we question the strength of our connections, particularly in marriage, and how this questioning can actually undermine the relationship. By choosing to trust the connection instead...

In this episode of the Your Relationshift podcast, co-hosts Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik explore the powerful principle of abundance and how shifting from a mindset of limitation to one of abundance can transform every aspect of life. They discuss how abundance manifests spiritually, emotionally, and materially, and highlight how celebrating the abundance already present in our lives opens up even more possibilities. Drawing from personal stories, Hindi and Chayale delve into how...

In this engaging episode of the "Your Relationshift" podcast, co-hosts Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik delve into the complexities of the Mashpia-Mekabel dynamic within relationships, particularly how women can unknowingly disrupt the natural flow of giving and receiving. Through the lens of real-life scenarios, the hosts explore how well-intentioned actions like nurturing, correcting, or even disapproving can unintentionally stifle a husband's ability to step into his role as a...

In this episode of the "Your Relationshift" podcast, Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik explore the complex dynamics that women often face in their personal lives, focusing on the themes of fear, martyrdom, entitlement, and the pursuit of true femininity. They discuss how these mindsets can hinder a woman's ability to be receptive, find joy, and live authentically. The conversation delves into how the societal expectations placed on women can lead them to either adopt a martyrdom...

In this enlightening episode of the "Your Relationshift" podcast, co-hosts Hindi Kalmenson and Chaya Tzukernik (Chayale) delve into the profound dynamics of "Mashpia" (giver) and "Makabel" (receiver) within relationships. This fundamental concept, rooted deeply in Torah principles, offers a framework for understanding the natural energies of masculinity and femininity. Hindi and Chayale explore the societal baggage and preconceived notions that often cloud these roles, urging listeners to...

In this episode of the "Your Relationshift" podcast, co-hosts Hindi and Chayale delve into the profound concept of essential value. They discuss how this principle, rooted in Chassidic teachings, asserts that every person's value is inherent and unchanging, independent of external achievements or validations. Hindi and Chayale explore how this understanding contrasts with societal norms that often tie self-worth to success and performance. They emphasize the importance of recognizing and...

In this conversation, Hindi and Chayale discuss the concept of ownership in relationships. They define relationship as a lifestyle that requires radical trust and deep connection. The second principle they explore is taking full ownership of oneself and the impact one has on the relationship. They emphasize the importance of self-regulation, exploring one's thoughts and beliefs, and taking care of one's physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being.  They provide practical examples of how to...

In this introductory episode of the Your Relationshift podcast, co-hosts Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik warmly welcome listeners and share their personal journeys to becoming relationship coaches. Chayale, originally from South Africa and now living in Crown Heights, Brooklyn, recounts how meeting Sara Gita and experiencing her supportive coaching inspired her to join the coach training program. Hindi, from Los Angeles, reflects on her transition from teaching to coaching during a...