Deserted by the others, the two lone swordsmen continued into the abyss of the unknown. With only memories of forgotten ancient texts to guide them. These are their stories. — (5:25) The role of cultural differences in the expression of type / confrontational blunt 9s from other cultures— (12:20) How our early life experiences and environment create an unexpected relationship with certain instincts / Emeka and food— (22:01) Digging up John’s leftover concept of each instinct having a close vs distant optimal distance— (28:28) The difference between 9s merging and sexual instinct merging / instinctual dynamics in relationships— (36:45) Wild topic switch to social-contextual dynamics in dating / race as an overlooked significant contextual layer / female vs male gaze— (43:40) Most people are making sexual choices with social reasons — (50:49) John’s ‘effortlessly masculine’ and Emeka’s black artist with masc/fem interplay— (56:10) When we feel safe those optimal distance polarities dissolve Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, Margot Robbie, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message