Dearly beloved / we’re gathered here today / to love through this thing called instinct  — (2:59) We make our dominant instinct a religion / how we manipulate what love is through our dominant instinct— (5:47) Integrating the social instinct’s verbal-contextual expressions of love / Alexandra’s ‘love cup’ religion propaganda— (15:03) Zooming out and talking about the relationship meets non-negotiable needs of love / sp/sx wants a smaller and smaller intimacy cave— (21:09) Overcoming the fear of the blindspot instinct / the analogy of social as light / ’socially slutty’— (30:47) Social is seeing yourself as a three dimensional human. Personality and character traits, not just your utility.— (35:53) Alexandra’s war on the sexual instinct and the soc-blinds— (42:12) The toxicity of sexual instinct attraction— (48:32) We could develop something like a instinct composite/synastry chart / let’s flesh out love languages for instincts Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the 359 Flat line trifix , Margot Robbie, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message