— (13:24) Noticing people from an attraction lens / sexual blind weird algebra— (18:32) Trying to describe what attraction is without using social signifiers— (25:09) The chemical infection of the sexual instinct and the drug analogy— (28:03) What happens after the merging of sexual?— (30:55) The mercurial growth element of sexual chemistry / sexual is seeking or creating polarities that remix boundaries— (36:44) Gender neutrality vs polarity / Sexual is engaging the tension between various polarities— (44:12) Disagreement and disruption as a form of sexual polarity— (53:06) Your porn stash as a truth serum for your sexual instinct  Check out Julie’s fall retreat, Alive in Your Medicine, at riverbendcoaching.com Support and fund the new illustrated trifix book project by DG and Kristen and get your copy before time runs out:https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/inkstoryrebel/enneagram-trifix-book Watch Nancy’s core 3 interview with Josh on What It’s Like to be You:https://youtu.be/u4WTC0GM8lI Check out the SinSomnia podcast hosted by Kristen, Kaisa, and Sammy: https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=e499a19ac3544a65 Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Get unstuck and practice inner awareness with John and Josh’s new foundational enneagram school. Sign up for their 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on the Milf Manor, Lin Manuel-Miranda, Leonard Cowen. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/ Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message