A sexual 4w5 and a social 4w3 walk into a bar. — (4:21) Vulnerability and sensitivity as a 4— (7:21) The difference between 9 sensitivity and 4 sensitivity— (10:55) Type 4 is over-individuating to express singular identity— (13:30) Joseph won’t laugh at your jokes / 4 image ego self-editing and controlling natural heart expression— (16:37) John’s 4 frustration shows up in his romantic relationship and creativity— (21:05) The crippling self-limiting image rigidity of 4— (25:06) Joseph’s social 4 frustration and shame with social chemistry— (29:57) Getting dumb and allowing humiliation as a pathway to loosening up 4 image rigidity— (46:02) Feeling deficient about getting into the body— (52:27) Getting embodied in sexuality— (57:51) Timeless sense of identity of heart types— (59:26) Dat sweet syrupy line to 2 overcorrecting for being self-absorbed  You can support the show with a donation here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Couple’s Therapy, Bad Bunny, and HRH Collection. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message