For women facing tough internal conflicts and for men who seek to understand women better.01:50:00 Be Present03:10:00 Balance Desire and Good Stewardship03:42:00 Missed Opportunity06:48:00 Continuous Progress07:43:00 Michelle’s Review09:05:00 Investing in Yourself is Attractive11:44:00 What do I pray for?16:41:00 Men & Your Accomplishments21:13:00 Do I work on this or wait for better?23:03:00 When the honeymoon endsThank you for your support!1-on-1: Interest FormCashapp: $taychand ...

An informal Q&A from my porch!Married Men Flirting, What is Cheating?, Bad Relationships with a Family Member, Do I Need to Change My Tone?, Open Relationships, She’s Great and I Don’t Trust It, Dating Outside Your Circle01:16 Married Men Flirting01:38 Micro-Cheating04:40 Bad Relationship with Sibling06:07 Should I Change My Tone?14:36 My Husband Has A Problem With My Tone21:14 Gaslighting with Calm Tone24:44 Open Relationships26:25 I Don’t Know How to Express Myself27:43 She’s Grea...

Giving you tools you can begin using ASAP at The Attachment Workshop! Listen in to some questions sent in on Instagram Live.Workshop is Sunday, Oct. 13 at 11 AM EST or Monday, Oct. 14 @ 6 PM EST. You choose your day!2 hour workshop for $15 (10% the price of a 1-on-1 session)Click here to RegisterThank you for your support!1-on-1: Interest FormCashapp: $taychand Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

One of the most common pairs - the Anxious-Avoidant Couple. Here are 8 Points for you to work on if this has been your pattern in dating.If you are currently in this type of relationship, you will hear things you can your partner can work on together… with a therapist!03:33 Anxious-Avoidant Pairing05:03 I Was Anxious, Then Avoidant, Then Secure07:32 Couple-Work 09:16 Boundaries15:21 Attunememt17:43 Distance19:19 The End of Negotiations22:26 Make Believe23:34 All That Time Wasted26:27 Tra...

For single people who want to vet better! Ask THESE 5 questions to get a better idea of who you're dealing with and if they're worth your time.5 Questions you NEED to Ask Before Date 305:51 Social Media is a circus08:18 “I’d Rather Be Single”18:21 What Are You Looking For?20:15 Hedging Your Bet24:52 Do You Want Kids?31:04 First Class vs. Economy Dating36:00 “I Want Kids, but Only with the Right Person”37:36 When Did Your Last Relationship End?40:51 How Did Your Last Relationship End?46:11 Wha...

Can Women and Men *really* be friends? Should you even have opposite-gender friends if you’re in a romantic relationship?04:37 Will I do paid matchmaking?07:02 Free Coaching and Free Therapy - Sessions will be made public (https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/pLCXjOMz)08:46 Can women be friends with men?17:13 Context, Nuance, and Rigidity20:13 Context of Male Friendships24:44 How I Think Women Should Handle Male Friends33:17 Picking Up New Opposite-Gender Friends41:23 You Look Like a Mark42:38...

The last 5 questions from my Live Q&A00:38 Communication Skills06:30 “Should I date someone I’m not physically attracted to?”10:10 Look Better15:16 How does Taylor deal with negativity online?18:38 How to deal with the condescending nature of the question “Who Hurt You?”21:37 Navigating STI/STD conversations in dating?Thank you for your support!1-on-1: Interest FormCashapp: $taychand Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

Be sure to follow on Instagram @iamtaylorchandler to participate LIVE and submit questions!How to stay hopeful and optimistic while dating?Social Media DetoxGet clear on your Values and what you wantBeing a Serious Person when DatingPhysical Appearance - Show up ReadySerious CommunicationKnow your Strengths and Weaknesses“I keep giving grace and they don’t give grace in return”“How much time to spend before commitment?”“How do I deal with a breakup?”Thank you for your support!1-on-1: Interest...

Manage the conflict between wanting a relationship while having fear of becoming too attached, or attached to the wrong person!At the end of the episode I give you 4 things you may want to consider when determining if the person you’re dating is worth the investment.04:27 What does it mean to become “Attached”?06:00 Your Attitude About Attachment09:00 Fear of Becoming Dependent / Losing Yourself09:41 Interdependency 10:57 Willing and Open13:46 Comment: “Vulnerability and Attachment is se...

Let's Review! Attachment is a Major Key for Better RelationshipsYour Attachment Style helps you understand how you relate to others, what your triggers and blindspots are (and why), and gives you a map to what you Need to feel safe and happy.Everyone has either an Insecure style or a Secure style.Insecure Attachers struggle with maintaining healthy relationships due to excessive anxiety and/or avoidance.The goal is to Shift to Secure attachment where you can have solid, lasting relations...

I see a clear rise in the number of women who say they are abstaining from physical intimacy. This can make dating difficult. I understand this personally!It makes it even MORE difficult when you’re not really being honest with yourself and/or others about WHY you’re abstaining.Here are some things to consider if you are dating while abstaining, and hopefully it is also helps men understand what questions to ask, where women are coming from in general, and how to navigate the conversation bet...

Most people dating seem to be WAY more concerned with what they’re getting rather than what they can give! Everyone is in relationships to fulfill some kind of personal goal but it becomes selfish and toxic when you lose sight of how you can support and nourish the one you’re with. Today we’re talking about GIVING and RECIPROCATION. I’m highlighting 5 ways YOU can reciprocate in a relationship so you can check how well you’re doing with things you can directly control...

Manipulation Tactics - How to Spot Them and What to Do About It What is DARVO? DENY ATTACK REVERSE Effects of DARVO Resist DARVO References:  https://www.choosingtherapy.com/darvo/ https://bayareacbtcenter.com/reverse-darvo-for-combating-gaslighting-and-emotional-abuse/#:~:text=What%20Is%20DARVO%3F,the%20blame%20onto%20their%20victims. Thank you for your support! 1-on-1: Interest Form Questions and Topic Requests: Submit Here $taychand PayPal Venmo Website:...

This episode is a conglomerate of a few topics! -There’s a difference between wanting a relationship and being Ready for a relationship. Your emotional availability makes all the difference. -Many women can function well on their own, but still don’t have the relationship they really want. Let’s talk about some of the things that need to change in order to set yourself up for the man you’re looking for. -Men can be giving out way too much of themselves to others in an effort to be helpful and...

When you become aware of how your childhood has impacted your adulthood, angry feelings arise towards your parents. You realize your anxiety or your avoidance is directly related to how you have experienced your mother and father. It’s common to have conflicted feelings. You may struggle with loving them and resenting them. Having empathy for their experiences and feeling the pain of how their experiences have negatively affected the way they related to you. Or you may be less conflicted and...

We experience frustration and pain when the position someone has in our life does not match our experience of them. For example - You can have a mother who you do not experience as mothering. A father who does not treat you like a son or daughter. A spouse who treats you like a stranger. _ One of the goals of this video is to help you make a distinction between Role and Relationship so that you are better able to locate where your negative emotions are likely coming from. I will also give you...

Q&A from Dec 2023 about dating and relationship topics: Including - Serious Dating What does it meant to be “Exclusive” Passport bros How to soften your communication “What do you bring to the table?” Toxic friends Effort in dating Defensiveness Vetting Why people lie Relationship goals Casual physical intimacy *Let’s work together (1-on-1): https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank you for your support! $taychand PayPal Venmo Website:...

Attachment Wounds are the experiences that serve as catalysts for Insecure Attachment. I’m going to define specific Attachment Wounds, describe the effect of those wounds, and point you in the direction you need to go in to heal these wounds. If you don't, these wounds bleed out into your present relationships (whether platonic or romantic, but especially romantic) and negatively effect your chances of having a healthy, happy connection. KEY WORDS: emotional intelligence, emotional...

Your Attachment Style begins developing at a young age and is able to be defined by age 5! In this video I’m going to go over 4 big areas of Attachment Development 1. Attachment Bases 2. Concepts of Self and Other 3. Programming 4. Intervention 01:06 Overview 06:23 Self-Concept 8:56 Other-Concept / Exploration 12:54 Survival 18:29 Programming 22:05 Intervention Let’s work together (1-on-1): https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank you for your support! $taychand PayPal Venmo...

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Tiana is basically an Attachment Expert at this point! She’s done all the workshops and the Reattach Coaching Program. She has a lot of insight and wisdom for you about situationships, self-esteem, and overall guidance about what you can expect on your journey of self-improvement and healing. I’m grateful for her time and I know you’re going to get a lot of out of this conversation! Thank you for your support! $taychand PayPal Venmo Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram:...

If curses and blessings are real, someone has to be doing the cursing and blessing, and that One must be God. So we need to know what God says about blessings and curses! What’s the responsibility of your ancestors’ for negative experiences you’re having now?  What’s your role?  And what do you do now? This is the intersection of the practical and the spiritual. 1-on-1 Interest Form: Click Here Thank you for your support! $taychand PayPal Venmo Website:...

When we are hurt, we may struggle to let go of the pain and we may struggle to trust again. In this episode, I'm going to talk about the impact of unforgiveness, the need for grace, and 3 ways to open yourself back up for healthy relationships. Thank you for your support! $taychand PayPal Venmo Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler Threads: @iamtaylorchandler

Rafer is a husband, father, and pastor in New Mexico who struggled with Anger and Anxiety - until he did his Work! Listen in as he shares about his desire to live like Jesus, coming to terms with the fact he was not, and doing the necessary steps to change. Reattach Fast Track Beginning August 28th 1-on-1 Interest Thank you for your support! $taychand PayPal Venmo Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler Threads:...