Episodes
In this engaging podcast episode, host Simon interviews Johan, also known as B8tem8te, a product designer and passionate member of the bating community. Johan shares his personal journey with masturbation, discussing how it has provided him with control and self-discovery, especially after experiencing a toxic relationship. The conversation delves into the perceptions of the bating community within the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, the importance of communication in relationships, and how Johan...
Published 11/01/24
In this engaging conversation, b8tem8te discuss the upcoming Batemates app, its features, and the excitement surrounding its launch. They delve into the importance of community within the bator world, exploring personal niches and the journey into gooning. The discussion highlights the vulnerability and self-exploration involved in gooning, as well as the impact of mainstream culture on this practice. Safety features of the Batemates platform are emphasized, ensuring a secure space for users...
Published 10/04/24
Published 10/04/24
In this engaging conversation, SnifferBroSF shares his journey into the world of bating, discussing his experiences, kinks, and the importance of community. The dialogue explores the evolution of bating from high school to the pandemic, the mental and physical health benefits of masturbation, and the dynamics of relationships within the bating community. The conversation also touches on cultural perspectives, the challenges of coming out as a bator, and the excitement surrounding the upcoming...
Published 09/14/24
In this conversation, B8tem8te and BateBanditXL (X/Twitter) discuss their experiences with masturbation and the importance of community. They talk about how masturbation has evolved for them over the years and the role it plays in their sexual exploration and self-discovery as black men. BateBanditXL shares his journey into baiting and the significance of creating a community for bators of color and much more...
Published 04/21/24
In this episode B8tem8te meets with Paxx and Dré (@Paxx_and_Dre on Twitter/X), a Bators couple as they openly discuss their experiences as both bators and partners. They talk about how they balance masturbation with their sexual life and the importance of open communication. They also share their personal journeys of discovering and embracing their identities as bators. The conversation explores the challenges they have faced in previous relationships and the positive impact of being in a...
Published 03/31/24
In this episode, B8tem8te and Unexpected Pig explore the therapeutic and meditative aspect of bating, while our guest opens up about the sensitive topic of being a bator in a relationship. They delve into balancing this aspect of themselves with intercourse in the relationship. This leads to a broader discussion on finding confidence and authenticity through bating, emphasizing the importance of communicating and acceptance in sexual education.
Published 03/19/24
In this enlightening episode, join B8tem8te as he delves into an intimate conversation with DV, a seasoned Bator hailing from the icy expanses of Alaska. Together, they explore the compelling art of vocal expression during masturbation, revealing how the power of voice can not only guide but also intensify the experience. They share insights on fostering connections with fellow men through masturbation, offering a perspective on its advantages over traditional intercourse. Beyond the...
Published 03/02/24
In this compelling episode, b8tem8te sits down with Coolb8trr, for an enlightening conversation that delves into a range of topics surrounding Masturbation and self-identity. Together, they explore masturbation not only as a sexual act but as a journey of self-discovery and liberation. Matt shares his personal journey of overcoming addictions, highlighting the unexpected benefits of bating and the profound impact it has had on his relationship with his body. Furthermore, the discussion takes...
Published 02/21/24