Have you ever met a guy, got a number, texted for a while, a couple dates, but just can't make it over the 90-day hump? After so many failed dating attempts, it's easy to think it's either all men...or it's got to be me. This episode of the podcast is here to show us that it's a little of column A, a little of column B. A whole lot of luck and the right kind of work. What kind of work should we be putting into our dating situations? And how to ensure that work pays off? Special thanks to @infiniteimani3534 for the inspo, and comments from  @YzBG  and http://www.instagram.com/alexanderlove_love ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/weekly